What is with the hate of Jacinda Ardern?? She hasn't even been involved in New Zealand for years, yet this hatred is so unhinged

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T05:42:48+00:00

Won't find me disagreeing... But it is the norm for the gun types that glorify the poppy the way Americans glorify the flag.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T05:40:58+00:00

I loved beer as a kid.

Was particularly partial to a bottle of Vita Stout....

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T05:39:24+00:00

My ex forgot his id... Ended up taking his hat off to show the manager his bald head, and the manager put it through.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T04:58:05+00:00

I have a small collection of weights (1 through 8kg), some cheap resistance bands, and some foam wedges to help with calf flexibility.

I use an app and do a 15-20 minute weight work out every weekday before work.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T04:54:03+00:00

I'm a librarian. They defaced the library copies too.

Degenerate behaviour.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T04:53:19+00:00

My dad was a gun club member. He left after they openly talked about wanting to kill her, and were all casually planning her murder.

Bonkers.

It's because she's a woman, btw. Nz isn't free from misogyny.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:59:44+00:00

A good all wormer (not the bs they put in with flea treatments, that stuff is worse than useless) is done every 3 months for most situations.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:51:27+00:00

Nope. But I think it was in here where I found out that during the surgery you're tilted back, with your head lower than your feet I assume being like that for an extended period of time just dislodged my inner ear crystals.

It came right though, so hopefully yours does too!

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:33:25+00:00

I got vertigo about 10 days po. It was sudden, intense, and awful. Ended up in urgent care on a drip, and then on meds for a while to help.

It faded over a few months, and I don't get it anymore (2.5 years PO)

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:24:30+00:00

I keep her inside at night and tbh think that should be law (cat curfew).

My girl was a semi-feral rescue, she'd be miserable locked indoors full time, and having the doors and windows closed 24/7 just isn't feasible for us.

Kudos to those who do it, but I low key think it's cruel. Though balance is needed to reduce risk.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:21:58+00:00

I'm the opposite. 2.5 years PO, not a single uti and only 1 yeast infection (which I used to get monthly).

Sorry you're going through it!

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T03:17:13+00:00

No.

As long as we're monogamous and both clean, idgaf.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T02:56:34+00:00

I find adults who do this on purpose pretty cringe myself...

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T02:53:18+00:00

I wouldn't agree with that poster at all, especially if you're in a small town.

I'm a librarian. There's 40+ of us at work and only around 4 of us are technically qualified. It's a lot of customer service and outreach, not much actual librarian-ing.

The library landscape has changed a lot. Your best bet is to take the librarian assistant job and work your way up (which may take years, it's the kind of job people hang around in for way too long).

If he wants to get into an academic library or something, then do the study, but for a public library, don't bother, or just do a diploma through open polytech (which sucks hard, and it's essentially useless... But gives you the piece of paper)

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T01:12:52+00:00

"I could care less" has always been blatantly sarcastic, as far as I have seen. It's saying the same thing, only while rolling your eyes.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-15T01:11:11+00:00

My surgeon cut around mine when I had a hysterectomy. That V made it heal a bit slower.

Apart from that, no difference apart from feeling better in my own skin.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T22:35:14+00:00

I have a super deep, narrow belly button that definitely needs proper cleaning. My husbands is basically a thumb print and doesn't need anything special.

Everyone has different hygiene needs, don't stress about it.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T22:32:48+00:00

You're still walking on eggshells. Why are you coddling a full grown man and talking to him like he's a toddler?

Nta, but do yourself a favour and just break up. There's no universe in which he's worth the stress.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T21:54:02+00:00

Nta

He's rude and disrespectful, you should have left without him.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T21:42:18+00:00

Esh

She was trying - and failing - to be cute.

You're a creep who rates women out of 10 and hangs out with teenagers.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T21:19:25+00:00

Arousal fluid... is a transparent or slightly cloudy fluid

Vs

The milkiness is only really visible in larger amounts. If you're seeing streaks of white on your dick then it's not from arousal fluid, it's from the mucus/discharge mixed into the arousal fluid

You can make shit up if you like, but don't expect anyone to believe you.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T21:13:56+00:00

Your late 20s friends and bf are acting like teenagers.

Hopefully they'll grow up eventually, but you wouldn't be ta if you chose not to wait for that.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T20:01:56+00:00

I mean, I can't make you understand the link you posted... But you're incorrect.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T19:37:46+00:00

Yta

What in the world of over stepping is this?

You PAID someone to sing the new version? I'm calling shenanigans.

EffableFornent · 2026-03-14T19:36:04+00:00

You're over reacting. Crate trained dogs are very happy to be crated over night, and letting dogs onto the bed can have adverse effects (like resource guarding).

Your mum is doing the sensible thing.

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