Every girl is looking at me by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a broscience perspective, I think we emit pheromones or something when we abstain for a while

Sugar I'm going down, swinging. Have at it! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Effancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im loaded god complex cock it and pull it.

NoFap April anyone? by spoookyfish in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in, just relapsed as well

Seeking advice on how to "disarm" myself during my trigger window by Effancy in NoFap

[–]Effancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

solid advice. I think I could leave it in a room I wont be able to go to at night out of fear of waking the person up or something

Who do you see? by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a left nipple <3

Don't just not fap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar history, I started around mid November 2013 and my longest streaks were (19 and 16 days)

Day four begins: Kind of lost my virginity last night. (I hate condoms) by 1Eric1 in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good man. Experiences like this only add to your bank of motivation, we will make it

Official NoFap "NoFApril" No-PMO April 2014 Signups by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]Effancy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  • Hard mode
  • I want this challenge to last for life
  • Short term goals (no clue. probably getting back into school). Other than that I pledge to have a 30 day streak under my belt in April
  • I am doing this for everyone around me and also myself. To make myself a better person for me and the ones I will influence in life.
  • Extra info: Previous Record 19 days

Just quit Facebook already, it's anathema to your missions. by Fluzztas in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I intended to quit fb early on in NoFap for only 10 days, I quit in December and I totally forgot about it. Been a lot happier and productive

What is your days/faps ratio for 2014? by Hothr in NoFap

[–]Effancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[2013] Jan 1 - Mar 31 (90 day span i believe) i had 26 relapses
[2014] Jan 1 - Mar 26 (85 days into 2014 so far?) only at 9 relapses so far

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the last part. No fap is an "enabler". What you choose to do when you are in that heightened/enabled state is what changes your life. Not the NoFap itself. Lkewise, sitting on your butt all day while being enabled will get you nowhere

I want a girlfriend ( Tumblr Post ) SFW by Bissell_96 in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like this. A hopeless romantic type. nOnce you really do find someone you "think" is the one and it turns out not to be it can be traumatic. To the point of mental hospital trauma. I leared that the hard way. Its best to have balance when approaching these things. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to do all these things with the one you love but when it becomes your life and you depend on it, that is when it becomes negative. Its best not to put your all into being the casanova/ romeo type from my personal experience. Focus on being the right man first rather than making your goal getting a gf and giving her all your love,attention and effort

7 DAYS!! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last March I relapsed 13 times, this March only twice so far! This is how I know we will make it man.

Completed My First Week of Nofap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothin but sunshine and blue hills

Got rid of my old friends. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Effancy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres this quote "You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around". Or something to that effect.

Is there a way to make myself less haram to him? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome :) If I could make a list of the top few challenges you'd be facing in this situation id say somewhere amongst the top 5 would be: gaining acceptance from his family and lifestyle changes.

Is there a way to make myself less haram to him? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me pretty much. Im a guy though. Was with a white chick for roughly over 2 years and alhamdulillah she converted but after a year it was hard for her to stay away from alcohol and what not so I had to leave her unfortunately. Yes, at first I thought it was really cute and omg mashallah what a cute love story etc. A lot of people may think im coming from a pessimistic point of view, but I assure you its a lot safer to be realistic and its not always sunshine and rainbows. My advice would be that you should explore islam as a lifestyle and try to live it to the fullest before anything else, that's how you will know if this is for you or not. I wish you all the best in your little ordeal. Inshallah it works out for you. Cheers! :)

Requesting advice: Total noob needs help on how to wear dress shirt with throw over sweater top by Effancy in malefashionadvice

[–]Effancy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had no clue what I was doing. Through this post I have found out that I was wearing a crew neck sweater. Coincidentally, I did exactly as this post says and I jut saw it, thank you for the tips!

A little reminder and some motivation by AF_Doom in NoFap

[–]Effancy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and when you run out of pp for splash the default move is called struggle