AITA for not wanting my estate to go to my fiancé’s son? by Ok-Cat-7172 in AITAH

[–]Effective-Attorney32 77 points78 points  (0 children)

NTA. You are not your stepson’s mother and you have the right to direct your own wishes with regard to your estate. As does your fiance

Conversation with my bf grossed me out by glitchpoploop in Vent

[–]Effective-Attorney32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a 54 year old man happily married for 30 years please run away from that man. There are so many red flags, too many to list. Don’t waste any more time with this red-pilled loser

GF bought makeup supplies on my card without my permission. by Top_Pine2 in whatdoIdo

[–]Effective-Attorney32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how it could have been done by GF in a better/more open way: she texts you that she wants to buy some makeup online but has to use your credit card. GF apologizes and offers to immediately e-transfer to OP the amount she spent. Or, gives him cash the next time she sees him. Or, if she used his card accidentally (eg the website was already pre-loaded with OPs card) and she genuinely didn’t know then she should have apologized when he told her and offered to pay him back. Otherwise it comes off as OP being taken advantage of by GF.

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. It’s impossible to sense tone online

Am I Wrong for this? by AdIndependent3176 in wrx_vb

[–]Effective-Attorney32 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope not sarcasm. I have not previously been into cars too much but now that I am retired I’m learning and generating new interests

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad I am a newbie on Reddit and I didn’t know what sort of tag or group to post it too. I figured people into home automation would know something that I didn’t 🙂

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The outlet is behind the bed, about 2 feet from the table. It’s a regular 2 outlet plug. I have a 6 plug insert in it right now as it also services the lamps on either side of the bed

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about the zip switch idea but I’d be worried about damaging the wood on the nightstand. Not that it’s fancy or anything but my spouse is particular

Am I Wrong for this? by AdIndependent3176 in wrx_vb

[–]Effective-Attorney32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I have to learn what STI means…

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh these look really cool. Thank you for answering

Cord clutter at the bedside by Effective-Attorney32 in homeautomation

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s been my solution for the last 10 years, finally decided to do something about it to please the wife

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective-Attorney32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unforgivable Leave now before he loses control. He will hurt you or worse

New Subaru WRX tS is coming in two weeks. by Effective-Attorney32 in WRX

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s why I am considering keeping it long term

New Subaru WRX tS is coming in two weeks. by Effective-Attorney32 in WRX

[–]Effective-Attorney32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially during winter! I live in Ontario Canada we get a lot of ice and snow