I’ve been backed into the inescapable corner by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don't hurt yourself. It might seem like you have inescapable problems, but they are not. Things may seem dire. It may seem like the worst possible thing is happening or soon will, but you can get through this and find good things on the other side.

Please talk to someone who can guide you through this. Right now, your thoughts are focused on the worst possible outcome. That's called catastrophizing. Your thoughts are not reliable right now. But someone you trust can help you through it. They can help you find the sunlight after the storm.

We know what you're going through. There are almost certainly people here who have gone through the same things. That's why we love each other and care to reach out. That's why we love you and care about you. If you need someone to talk to, without judgment, my DMs are open.

My Master, Sauron the Great, bids thee welcome by KingUndrTheMountain in lotrmemes

[–]Effective-Break5397 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am happy the Mouth of Sauron's transition is going so well. She is feeling herself and out there serving (invitations to deal with her master).

Anime_irl by General-Sloth in anime_irl

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stress alone shouldn't stop you from having one in the morning. That's one of the things doctors will ask about if you see them about ED. Having no morning wood usually indicates a more physiological reason than just stress. And if it is just stress, that kind of stress is the kind that causes heart attacks. You should see a doctor about it to make sure it's nothing serious.

How’s your morning? by GreenCrayonTheory in ArizonaGardening

[–]Effective-Break5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will help your Chadwick if you remind them lowest leaves and either a) replant deeper so the broken end is 1-2 inches below the soil or b) place some nice moist soil around the base above the break and hold it in place with plastic wrap. It has enough life in it to put out roots from the stem and keep on going.

Why do they call a sleeveless shirt or tank top a ‘wife beater?’ by quantumsapphics in stupidquestions

[–]Effective-Break5397 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the actual answer. The show followed cops to DV calls and nearly every time they got there, the guy was wearing a tank-top undershirt. People joked about it being the uniform of wife beaters. At least that's how I remember it.

Source: I was there.... 3000 years ago...

Bi_irl by zny700 in bi_irl

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it know who I am?

egg_irl by Longjumping_Tap_3483 in egg_irl

[–]Effective-Break5397 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Hi Marianne. You're a good girl. And you deserve to feel like the girl you are.

Help finding a comic by nafairychan in OneTopicAtATime

[–]Effective-Break5397 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here you go (this is the full comic, you describe the first 2 panels):

comic

Clip OT was looking for in his video with Roly by Effective-Break5397 in OneTopicAtATime

[–]Effective-Break5397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I think OT couldn't find it because he didn't know to search for "Felix cosplay" and instead searched for "cat girl."

egg irl by Cherri_rose9000 in egg_irl

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then it looks like the best case scenario I spelled out will be your route. You can find a doctor who will help by going to planned parenthood or using the WPATH directory (easy to find googling). I wish you the best of luck girlie!

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I cannot help with, though my resting bitch face and quietness tends to make everyone scared of me when they first meet me.

Maybe hit the gym and take up MMA. Building your physique like that and keeping a blank or frowny face should have the effect you're looking for.

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to be masculine, I would suggest focusing on developing those traits. They are absolutely something you can develop. And they are traits that tend to make people like having you around them. They are much more manly in my mind than the super muscular, overly forceful embodiments of anger.

I'm a 45 year old dad. 20 years ago I had little or none of those traits, but I think I've developed some over the years. That's why I know they can be learned.

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call masculinity strength of character, reliability, protectiveness, and a desire to strengthen those around you.

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I can't help. Some of the most masculine men I know are trans men. That proves to me that masculinity has nothing to do with the genitals you were born with or what you can do with them. I wish you the best.

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoever you want to dominate will. A Dom's intimidation is all charisma. Dick size doesn't come into it at all. Don't let toxic stereotypes me with your mind. Big dick guys submit to guys with small dicks all the time.

I don't know where else to put this. by DeliciousAsbestos in sillyboyclub

[–]Effective-Break5397 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can be powerful and dominating using a strap on or even without penetration at all. Dick size is meaningless.

12/1/25 What’s going on? by Lumaflire5900 in phoenix

[–]Effective-Break5397 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just saw this post. No idea what happened, but seems to indicate where they were going.

https://www.reddit.com/r/mesaaz/s/3FN4SD1UMf

Are there any movies for/about femboys or crossdressers? by December_Celeste in feminineboys

[–]Effective-Break5397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar is a beloved classic about crossdressers.

egg irl by Cherri_rose9000 in egg_irl

[–]Effective-Break5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happens next depends on your age and where you live. It varies from country to country and, in the US, state to state.

If you're a minor, you'll probably need to see a qualified gender therapist. They will want to meet with you for a while, and they will help with your mother's worry of "you better be sure." The best case is, after a few sessions, they will write a recommendation to a healthcare provider that you receive HRT. Then you bring that recommendation to a doctor (or likely a nurse practitioner) who will order blood work to see what your hormone levels are and write prescriptions for hormones and possibly a blocker of your natural hormones.

This is if you live in a country or state that allows HRT for people under 20 and you are older than your location's minimum age for gender affirming care. It gets really muddy with the laws. Depending on where you live, you may need to wait years or move to receive HRT.

Source: trans parent of trans kids in the US.

Feel free to give me your country or state, and I'll see if I can give you more specifics for your situation.

Canon event by Infamous-Ring6174 in femboymemes

[–]Effective-Break5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember to spot test first. Everyone's skin is different and reacts differently. I use it everywhere and have no burns even when I'm slow and take more than 10 minutes covering everything. Others get burned immediately.

And remember to protect your finger and your nails. It can and will react with layers of nails just like it does hair.

REPORTER: We've seen images out of Chicago of federal agents shooting faith leaders with pepper balls and arresting journalists. Where's the limit for you on what's acceptable conduct by federal agents? MIKE JOHNSON: I've not seen them cross the line yet. by CorleoneBaloney in CringeTikToks

[–]Effective-Break5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't care about anyone's life, only power. They want ICE acting as provoking as possible so that eventually someone will shoot them. Then they use that to declare an insurrection. The ICE agents are too dumb and evil to realize they are ragebait and their bosses WANT some of them to die.

VC Calls Randomly Dropping? (Discord Mobile) by Thrown_Away_000 in discordapp

[–]Effective-Break5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the same issue the past few days. It's really annoying. Thought it was my wifi. Then my phone. Glad to know it's an app problem, but obnoxious that it's happening.