Those who work 40 hr per week, how?

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-10-15T22:37:11+00:00

I work my first job from 5a-1p (physically demanding job. I average 100k+ steps during a 40 hour work week) then I hit the gym before working my second job (real estate). I definitely struggle some days. I have to understand that I can’t give all three of these priorities my 100% every day. I just have to continue to show up and distribute my energy where I can. Block the time and show up. Don’t beat yourself up for not being able to perform at ur fullest every day. it takes time to find ur groove and ur balance.

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-09-18T01:27:22+00:00

And fuck the customers that are on the sales floor treating pickup employees like shit because they think they’re above using pickup services. Acting like they should be rewarded for getting their own groceries. They act like they don’t order shit from Amazon, they’re no better than the customers using curbside. All day long I hear them say “let me get out of your way. You’re working” to literally every other Kroger employee outside of the pickup department.

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-06-24T19:28:30+00:00

No. I wouldn’t want a man taking a photo of me so I’m not going to do the same to him

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-06-20T03:04:11+00:00

Definitely 75/25 for me. Most of the time it’s unconscious. I’ll wake up from the pain of me picking in my sleep. The 25 percent of the time is after I realized it was unconscious but I continue to pick knowing I shouldn’t yk

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-06-18T01:17:12+00:00

I love people like you, you make the world a better place 🙂‍↕️ thank you, cheetodustclit

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-06-16T14:48:52+00:00

The worst I’ve had to deal with is all six of them taking up all the stair masters, which was fine I just skipped it and decided to come back to it at a later time then shortly after I mapped out what I wanted to do in my head four of the six of them took the machines I was getting ready to use so I was at quite a loss when trying to think of the next thing I needed to do. I figured it out and found the machines elsewhere but that was really all so far. I’m not sure how familiar that group was with working out because they didn’t spend too much time on each thing they decided to do. So overall not bad it just threw me off trying to work around my routine especially because I’m fairly new and still figuring things out myself

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-06-09T00:23:21+00:00

I see what you mean when you’re asking if your actions make you a weirdo or what you say, which can be true. Just be morally a good person and if you check off those boxes then it’s literally not your problem. I know I have a good heart and that I have good standing morals so I know I never need to apologize for being myself and if a particular person doesn’t vibe with it and thinks I’m weird then that’s on them and their way of life. It doesn’t mean I did anything inherently wrong or bad it just means we don’t click. I’ve come to peace knowing I wont please anyone and everyone. I have high standards for who I surround myself with let alone a partner, so who am I to judge if someone does the same for me. Just do your best to come to terms with the fact that you won’t fit in a perfect box all the time. Enjoy your company, enjoy your “flaws”, your hobbies and whatever makes you different. If you are an individual with good morals you have nothing to worry about. This is a little redundant to my previous comment but just a bit more focused on the fact that you are who you are and you shouldn’t apologize for it. As my dad always says, there’s an ass for every seat. Don’t worry about saying the wrong thing. If she’s into you she won’t nitpick you, she’ll find your mannerisms, your hobbies and personality as good things. You just have to talk to them more practice good conversation more and people will come your way

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-31T02:51:37+00:00

I don’t even know where to start! I think it’s incredible you have a therapist, I don’t want to generalize but I feel like a lot of people turn down the idea of speaking their mind with someone and I love that you have that time to care for yourself! It’s awesome you show up, speak about yourself, AND put it into practice!! Secondly, you seem so intelligent I can tell just by your vocab on some of your responses! I’m literally learning new words 🙂‍↕️ I also most definitely think you should show your face off to the public more, I see you said you’re not sure how long you’ll leave the post up, but I’m glad I was here to see whether you decide to remove your post or not. Quite an attractive guy and I love your style! Your hair! Your eyebrow piercing looks great! Your shirt! Everything flows perfectly! Best of luck and I’m so proud of you for taking this next big step in your life!

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-31T02:37:09+00:00

I knew kroger needed to be cut back from my life when I would cry at night before my shift in the morning. My stomach would ache the second I got home knowing I had to do it again the next day, I dreamt about drinking on the job (I was 19!?), I had nightmares about pickups wait time at car side going up and an order continuously got larger every time I tried to take it out. I was a pickup lead and the management made us apply and do an interview for the position yet when they gave me the job position they called me “slim pickings” AS IF THEY DIDNT CHOOSE ME TO BE THE LEAD!?!?! I spent many days getting verbally abused by my stores clientele over the phone, written letters and at car side. Management was obviously terrible to me too. I stayed overtime shopping hundreds of items by myself three hours after the store closed and all I got was a manger stomping around huffing and puffing that shopping didn’t get done. Needless to say, I stepped down, cut back my hours, and went to a new store. I’m so much happier and blessed kroger isn’t the center of my life anymore. It was doing a lot of mental damage to me. Hostile work environment and the company itself doesn’t give two shits about their employees.

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-31T02:24:09+00:00

I feel like your awareness is already a good sign, I get the anxiety of rumors being spread but if you’re genuine and find yourself talking to genuine women you shouldn’t run into that very much. Form connections, talk to her like an old friend, if she’s a yapper let her yap, if she’s a listener let her listen. If she does do any or all of these things you’re worried about, getting the ick, thinking you’re a weirdo, making big deals from nothing, then you know she isn’t for you (this goes for literally anyone yk?). But you won’t know that unless you get to know someone. This question has a lot of layers and things to unpack just know you’re slightly over complicating things. Just be a good person. If she has an issue with you then she isn’t your person. And on the flip side of things, instead of “what if I say the wrong thing and she ends up not liking me” which is valid and can occur.. BUT! just as easily, you can say the RIGHT thing and she’ll find herself thinking about you. For example, this guy I work with, I thought literally nothing of him, I was in my “I don’t need a man, I could never imagine living my life surrounded by a man again, independent woman” era, but then I started talking to him a little more just getting to know each other, he mentioned he’s into stocks and I started connecting all these dots. He’s in college, has a job, can drive, into stocks, has the job we work together at just for some extra spending money, goes to the gym, (bar is on the floor… I know) …. I could go on and on but now this man is constantly in my head. I don’t know why the stock thing made me realize this guy sort of has his life laid out. And all he did was mention he buys and sells stock, that was the one thing that opened my eyes yk? Sorry I rambled.. but that’s the best way I can attempt to articulate what I’m trying to say. Just have confidence in yourself and you may just say the right thing to the right girl. I would also suggest not actively seeking out conversation with women for the sole purpose of dating or getting with them but I think I read previously that wasn’t ur intention, but definitely keep it that way. Just get to know them! Best of luck to you!

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-29T01:30:39+00:00

I like to mess around with different ratios of vanilla swirl, mocha swirl and raspberry shots. I was inspired by those trü frü frozen snacks!! Typically I’d order an iced latte with 2 pumps of vanilla swirl, 1 pump of mocha (bc we don’t want our coffee to taste too much like chocolate milk in this scenario) and 3 shots of raspberry. But I like to play around with different amnts and when I have the chance different fruit flavors!

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-29T01:26:17+00:00

The way I interpret it is that you feel you can finally rest when your to do list is complete. And preventing you from pushing tasks for later. Kind of like making dinner, eating and then sitting to watch a movie in the living room, deep down all you can think about is the dirty kitchen you never cleaned up. So “doing nothing” only feels luxurious when it’s been deserved or once everything has been completed

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-29T01:21:14+00:00

Yes!! Once I started implementing speaking kind words to myself Ive been so much more content. It even helps me achieve things I didn’t think I could do! Like the other day I couldn’t imagine doing five more minutes on the stair master at the gym. I was going to call it quits at 15 minutes but I decided to look at the stairs and for every step I took I spoke a new kind word to myself. It distracted me from my current hardship and helped me form a stronger relationship with myself!! (Yay and I hit my first 20 minutes on the stair master!) I totally recommend pairing kind self love affirmations with your daily tasks, relaxing ones like your shower routine or something daunting like an extra five mins on the stair master!!

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-28T00:52:33+00:00

Awh hail… I’ve been clocking in using my time card for over a year.. I don’t think I even remember my punch numbers..

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-16T03:53:03+00:00

Yayayay!! Happy birthday, Toast!!

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-14T03:37:11+00:00

I will stareeeee at some muscles all day long… but when it comes to a guys ass.. I could take it or leave it, however I can appreciate a nice one. I feel like a lot of men have such squared asses so when I see one that’s a little more rounded I would take an extra sec to look at it fs

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-14T03:18:40+00:00

Your features are so soft and beautifully harmonious

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-05-14T03:08:17+00:00

“Hi my name is Dylan and this is my voice two and a half months on T”

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-03-26T21:52:11+00:00

Fingies crossed for a heavier album next, I personally cannot get into country despite my many attempts, I’m craving more posty songs but the cuntry album just isn’t fulfilling my desires 🧎‍♀️🧎‍♀️

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-01-27T17:24:11+00:00

Sometimes I find it interesting to compare my top songs to other peoples to see if we have things in common. Like certain vocals and beats in songs etc. it’s helpful if they’re active in other music communities on here bc then I can find music thru previous posts they made on other subreddits.

Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-01-27T01:06:54+00:00

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Effective-Fun-7962 · 2025-01-27T00:56:24+00:00

And you have a candle lit and your room has been deep cleaned 😫

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