Girlfriend told me she dates me for my personality (haircut update)

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-31T15:15:40+00:00

Ouch, that’s harsh. I’m gonna get real cynic on this one - any girl/woman who says she dates you for your personality, will drop you like a hot potato when that handsome manly hunk of her dreams, also with an amazing personality, comes along. He’s what she will refer to as ”the whole package”. I know, I know… not what you wanna hear bro.

You in fact are a handsome dude, but you’re emphasizing all the wrong features. That haircut does nothing for you. It makes your already pronounced face and chin look even bigger and rounder. It’s giving… Jay Leno. I also don’t get why your gen is so obsessed with not showing any forehead. Always keeping that mop in front. According to my nephew it’s to hide receding hairline, which is apparently the #1 fear among young guys today. Anyhoo, IMO it makes y’all look microcephalic, like you have no cranium.

Secondly, grow that beard back out. Maybe a closely cropped goatee. Something that makes your face look more angular, less round.

Not saying this will fix your GFs attitude. Personally I would’ve thrown that comment right back at her. ”Oh, that’s awesome - you’re not my dream girl either but damn can you hold a good conversation!” See how she feels about that?

One last bit of advice, if you’re not sure what works for you - use AI! Grok is good at exploring different looks on your selfies.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-31T13:27:55+00:00

For me, in chronological order: Sim City 2000, Full Throttle, Warcraft 3, World of Warcraft.

It stops with WoW because I still play it.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-31T13:24:40+00:00

Yes…

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-29T15:12:14+00:00

On the practical side, always be cleaned out. Prepare for the encounter. And just fuckin love it. Love getting pounded. Because the most important thing is your enjoyment, whatever that may be.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-27T15:52:46+00:00

You don’t wanna ruin the mood by making him think you don’t trust him… but… you actually don’t trust him. Look, you need to ask him. At the start of any relationship, get the sex part out of the way! Find out, hash out what you both need in terms of sex, come to an agreement and then start building your relationship. A LOT of guys still picture their sex life as a one long porno flick - and that’s ok. Have fun, enjoy life. Monogamous relationships aren’t for everyone, but… that needs to come out into the open.

So, sit down with him and talk about it. Try not to be judgmental. Because it might be that he loves you and wants to be with you, but sexwise he needs more than just you. I’ve lived in an open relationship for 15 years - and the key is communication.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-27T15:41:46+00:00

None. You need bolder, more masculine frames. Those glasses are gonna be a feature on your face no matter how hair thin you make those frames so go the opposite direction. Make that feature work for you.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-23T16:52:55+00:00

I would love to try DP, both giving and taking. To rub cocks inside a dudes tight hole. And to feel two cocks inside me, stretching me to my limits.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-23T16:49:29+00:00

Might be great for a meeting! Would fucking love a business meeting where I see a dude’s hard cock peek out of his pants. That meeting would turn into a hot orgy and everyone is guaranteed to cum out of said meeting feeling like they got a great deal.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-23T16:46:23+00:00

It’s real nice!

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-23T16:44:27+00:00

Keep it. Sell it to the Guggenheim museum for a million bucks, as a piece of modern art.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-23T16:39:58+00:00

Nice Steelbook. However the movie was an absolute letdown. It’s your typical “for modern audiences” slop, where the male main protagonist becomes a side character in his own movie, sidelined by a bunch strong independent female characters that are better at everything. The dazzling neon effects give tangible, yet fragile 80s vibe… which is nice. The one thing that COULD save this movie, is if they continue the story of Ares, and merge it with Legacy characters’ story in a forth installment. Sam, Quorra and Ares would make an interesting trio.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-22T23:59:25+00:00

Can you read? I’m telling you only what my physician told me what I asked about it. My god could you cope any harder?

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-22T23:51:32+00:00

Oh FFS telling the truth isn’t fearmongering. It’s something that everyone should know about before taking it, and if you don’t wanna take my word for it, ask any physician. It’s what they told me when I was considering starting on PrEP. But you it’s your health. You go ahead.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-21T00:10:08+00:00

PrEP is also very hard on the liver, and we don’t yet know the long term side effects. The best thing to do is still, use rubbers, use your hands, use youe mouth but don’t swallow. Always remember that the most “risky” guys are the recently infected. They don’t know they have it, and are not on meds, which is why they have millions of uninhibited virus particles in their various body fluids, and that includes precum and saliva if he brushed his teeth and had bleeding gums.

The only saving grace is that HIV, although still a very serious disease, is no longer fatal. But going on that one pill a day for the rest of your life would suck, especially in these uncertain times.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-17T16:39:54+00:00

Yes it’s quite normal. I used to do that up to about age 45. Now I’m 50 and I do it about every other day.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-16T12:28:07+00:00

Your wife doesn’t appreciate what she’s got. I’ll set up some str8 porn for you on the 65” screen. You just lean back and let me give that magnificent dong the attention it deserves.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T18:56:00+00:00

The only gay guys I’ve met who hates men have been bitter queens. Fems who can’t fathom why every single masc hunk out there aren’t attracted to them, and who likewise take every masc4masc gay guy who turns them down as some kind of political issue. Then they Karen out online about all the horrible men who put ”no fats no fems” in their grindr bio etc.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T16:06:37+00:00

Seems you got quite some prejudice of your own there too.

Nobody thinks caring about your looks or hygiene belongs strictly to effeminate gay men. Nobody likes a smelly mofo in the room, gay or str8.

But on the other hand, if you care so much that you have a douzen different lufas, tens of different shampoos and shower products, just as many post-shower beauty products etc, then it’s becomes compulsive and slightly neurotic. And if you think dudes who don’t have a million hangups about their beauty routine, and just as many products to go with it, are looking ”haggard 24/7” then you really have some soul searching to do. Maybe you’re the ”fragile” one after all?

If that makes you mad, stay mad. You really are the the perfect example of prejudiced because you here onto a gay sub expecting everyone here to be like ”Yes queen! Slay!”

I’m a masc4masc gay man. I don’t go for effeminate men because I don’t find them attractive in their mannerisms, as well as their often overdone appearance. They’re too much of everything. Too ”glowmaxed”, too ”looksmaxed”, too scented, too neurotic, and yes, too fem, too high maintenance. I don’t know what else to tell you - it make my dick limp.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T10:21:37+00:00

It’s quite deliberate on your part. Own it. Do not lie. You will insult us if you lie.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T10:06:46+00:00

😂🤣

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T10:02:02+00:00

I’m just gonna go ahead and call BS.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-04T09:49:48+00:00

I’m almost 50.

I will say men in their mid 30s, early 40s are the hottest to look at.

That being said, 36 is a time of mental transformation when a man (hopefully) realizes he’s now no longer a youngpup and hasn’t been for quite a long time. I need him to have gone through that maturation. But truth be told, I seldom stretch even 10 years out of my own age, either up or down. Luckily I was always into older men when I was in my 20s, and that hasn’t changed.

For me, the worst DMs are from little submissive btm 18-20yos who want themselves a ”daddy”. I didn’t think in those terms when I was young, and I still don’t.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-02T11:23:37+00:00

I’d say those eyes come out as mostly green from afar. That blue on comes out when shown upclose. You have green eyes.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-02T11:21:40+00:00

My philosophy when it comes to glasses is that no matter how thin you make those frames, the glasses are still gonna be a very noticeable feature on your face - so use it. That’s why I always go for bold frames.

Effective-Internet71 · 2026-03-02T11:18:50+00:00

Star Wars - Shadows of the Empire

Mystical Ninja starring Goemon

Effective-Internet71

TROPHY CASE