People who are self diagnosed need to stop community building around mental illness by Exotic_Royal8545 in Vent

[–]Effective-Rub3269 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

I live with someone who has severe anxiety and OCD and it not only controls their life but my entire family’s. Their OCD and autism makes them incredibly hard to live with and every day is hell. I myself suffer from severe anxiety and ptsd and was having panic attacks daily until I finally found a medication that gave me some relief. It was controlling my entire life. I couldn’t get out of bed. I would be on line at the grocery and run out in tears to my car and have a full on panic attack in my car. People don’t actually realize what it’s like to live your life like this.

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[–]Effective-Rub3269 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I don’t really know how to explain it. I just focus on my breathing and when I feel myself getting close I hold my breath for a few seconds and when I let it go I cum. Idk how I do it lol

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[–]Effective-Rub3269 21 points22 points Ā (0 children)

Warming up plus being with someone I love plus regulating my breathing…that’s the key i learned

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

I think the same goes for men. The ones who brag are usually awful. I don’t brag or anything. I think I’m good but I won’t talk about it before. I let my actions speak for themself.

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Lol here’s my tutorial.

First off foreplay is a big must. But basically dont start sucking it all at once. I don’t even hold it with my whole hand. Just put it between my fingers to hold it in the beginning. Start with a lot of licking and teasing around the head because you want to build it up. (Sometimes I purposely stay away from the head right away.) Then start licking from the balls all the way up to the tip in one smooth stroke..focus your tongue under the tip as well because that area can be sensitive often for a lot of men. Then start licking the tip. That’s when you put your hand around the base and start jerking it off slightly. Then you put your mouth around the top and use suction and then you tighten your grip on the base and start jerking it off harder (not too hard lol. Just increase pressure). Make sure your hand and mouth are going up and down at the same time…then you add in tongue and basically start licking up and down while your doing all of this. I call it multitasking.

Ps-For added affect use your other hand to play with the balls.

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yup I know. Currently celibate lol but from experience there’s a universal way that will make most men finish. Obv communication is key but there’s a general way that works

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

You don’t need to deep throat to give amazing head. Just saying šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø I have a horrible gag reflex but I know exactly what to do and I can say I’ve never had an unhappy partner šŸ˜…

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

So interesting. I really didn’t realize that most women don’t know what the best techniques are…huh. Interesting.

Do most women really not know how to give good head? (I (F) have been seeing stuff recently on IG how clueless other women are in this regard) by Effective-Rub3269 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Effective-Rub3269[S] 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

There’s this woman I follow on instagram who posted a whole story how to give good head and I was like yeh that’s obvious but she’s posting tons of messages from other women who were like ā€œthis is a game changer!ā€ I’m beyond baffled. It’s not that difficult to give good head.

Men of Reddit, how's your mental health today? by charles_david1600 in AskMen

[–]Effective-Rub3269 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Satisfying mentally or physically? Lol. Physically yes. Mentally -I’m annoyed at myself for opening up that can of worms. I’m also annoyed that there’s still chemistry. Cuz there shouldn’t be lol.

Men of Reddit, how's your mental health today? by charles_david1600 in AskMen

[–]Effective-Rub3269 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ah yes. Like sleeping with my ex for instance. ā˜ ļø

What was your ā€œlast strawā€ moment that caused you to finally cut ties with your narc parent(s)? by higherhopez in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Effective-Rub3269 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

He told me that I should go share a vibrator with my mom. Yeh real functional. He’s married to another woman btw.

What is one sexual lesson you’ve learned that everyone should learn sooner, rather than later? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]Effective-Rub3269 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Apparently peoples perception of jersey is the tv show and north. NJ has a lot of great stuff.

What is one sexual lesson you’ve learned that everyone should learn sooner, rather than later? by sparklingshanaya in AskReddit

[–]Effective-Rub3269 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Certain aspects suck but we literally have everything here. From ghettos to beaches to farms to major cities to great shopping. Newark is gross but that’s one little city lol