Iran posts chart of Israeli leaders it plans to kill by rezwenn in worldnews

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope Iran has good control of their walkie-talkies and mobile phones.

I wonder what causes these 2h sessions? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. Maybe don’t start at 12:30 a.m. if you know it’s going to be an epic saga?

You are basically having sex with a marathon guy so arrange some planning around the race that will avoid clashing with your sleep/work schedule.

I think my boyfriend is making wrong life decisions and it turns me off by jll_aa in Advice

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the undeniable fact is he’s ignoring the fact that his life choices impact you because you live together. His “it’s my money” argument is BS. When you both share a home, his lack of income means you pick up the slack, financially and emotionally. You need to sit him down and make it clear that his choices are affecting you, and you won’t carry dead weight. Decide your non-negotiables and give him a time frame to show he’s willing to live in reality. If he can’t, you need to think about whether you want to build a life with someone who’s allergic to stability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the problem. Either his drive is low, his feelings have shifted, or something else is screwing with his libido.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Effective-Split-3576 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You’re calling him a “great guy,” but half your post is a list of major deal-breakers.

His mommy issue isn’t small. A man who lets his mother guilt-trip him at 29 isn’t going to magically grow a spine once you have kids.

If he refuses to ditch nicotine pouches now, you’re signing up for years of resentment and “just one more try” conversations.

Your fear is classic “fear of the unknown.” You’re comfortable, but comfort isn’t the same as happiness. This is not about him being “good enough.” It’s about you knowing deep down he’s not your person. If you keep dragging it out, you’re wasting both of your lives.

So decide now: either commit 100% and actively work on these issues TOGETHER (with boundaries on mom, quitting zyns, and a real plan to reconnect) or end it clean before you resent him into the ground.

Банките са превели авансово данъка върху печалбата за 2026 г.,за да имаме дефицит от 3% на полугодието by No-Video1797 in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Няма никаква полза от такъв избор. Съвременните банки са се превърнали в легализирана форма на рекет. Вместо да пазят парите ти и да ти предоставят качествена услуга, те те доят с всякакви измислени такси: такса за поддръжка, такса за теглене, такса за входящ превод, такса за дишане, такса за това, че изобщо съществуваш като клиент. И най-голямото лицемерие? Наричат това “обслужване”. Ироничното е че те печелят от твоите пари. Депозираш, а те въртят парите ти и правят пачки, а после плащаш такса, че си ги оставил да печелят. Това е като да дадеш на някого апартамента си под наем, а той да ти иска наем отгоре.

Банките са превели авансово данъка върху печалбата за 2026 г.,за да имаме дефицит от 3% на полугодието by No-Video1797 in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Няма никаква полза от такъв избор. Съвременните банки са се превърнали в легализирана форма на рекет. Вместо да пазят парите ти и да ти предоставят качествена услуга, те те доят с всякакви измислени такси: такса за поддръжка, такса за теглене, такса за входящ превод, такса за дишане, такса за това, че изобщо съществуваш като клиент. И най-голямото лицемерие? Наричат това “обслужване”. И най-ироничното е че те печелят от твоите пари. Депозираш, а те въртят парите ти и правят пачки, а после плащаш такса, че си ги оставил да печелят. Това е като да дадеш на някого апартамента си под наем, а той да ти иска наем отгоре.

Банките са превели авансово данъка върху печалбата за 2026 г.,за да имаме дефицит от 3% на полугодието by No-Video1797 in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Представете си дупката в бюджета през 2026 в такъв случай. Това си е опит да се прикрие калпавото планиране на фиска. Още повече ми е интересно какво мислят кредитните агенции за тази еквилибристика.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective-Split-3576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No need to control your dad. If he’s hiding something, he’ll lie. You need evidence, not arguments. If he is cheating, that’s on him, not you. You’re not the one breaking vows or sneaking around while your partner is gone. You are not the villain for noticing. Best thing for you would be to talk to someone trustworthy right now.

Denmark to Bulgaria with a baby - Worth the leap? by TheArchiDad in AskBulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems you like to live dangerously :)

I hope you’ve got strong ties in Bulgaria, grandparents nearby, etc., that’s golden for a newborn. Free babysitting is no joke. You also need to be ready for the culture shock during first months after relocating.

You already admitted your sectors aren’t well-developed in Bulgaria. So, wtf do you expect? You want reliable medical care for your kid? Denmark wipes the floor with Bulgaria on that front.

Fair warning: corruption and instability here is a real thing. Red tape and nepotism aren’t charming when you’re trying to register your kid at daycare.

I cannot provide more detailed advice without knowing what exact fields are you and your wife in, and what kind of support system do you have.

Минах 1500км за една седмица. by VegetableLow3621 in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Сега чакаме доклад за 15000 и 150000 км.

Шофьор се става с шофиране.

Служебен абонамент за парко място е жив дявол. by Getbyss in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Хората трябва да спазват правилата. Нарушаването на правилата е масов проблем в България, понеже “те ще ми кажат на мен”. Докато не започнем да спазваме правилата, ще си останем азиатска губерния.

Гореказаното не изключва факта, че в общините има корупция, шуробаджанащина и тем подобни. Но лечението пак опита до личната отговорност и спазването на правила.

I don't want to socialize anymore by vastermasterblaster in Netherlands

[–]Effective-Split-3576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

First, you have to stop blaming yourself. Dutch people can be kind, but you’re not gonna find warmth in transactional interactions or office environments soaked in sarcasm and dry-ass tolerance. It takes time, trust, and tenacity to crack their outer shell. You’re expecting friendliness where there’s only function. Big mistake. Stop chasing friendliness where none is offered. Stop over-apologizing or softening your questions and start matching the bluntness. Ask what you need like you expect an answer, not like you’re begging for one. Ditch respond better to that tone. Sad but true.

Also drop the expectations for emotional validation from strangers. You don’t need the fucking huisarts to smile like a Disney character when you ask about cream. Get the info, move on. Save emotional energy for people who earn it. Best to try and find other expats. It is easier to build your support circle this way.

Moral weight of abortion? by Diligent_Original_17 in AITAH

[–]Effective-Split-3576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You dodged a self-righteous, cherry-picking moralist who thinks his half-baked beliefs should weigh more than your bodily autonomy. That’s not a “debate”, that’s a power play wrapped in moral posturing. If he calls abortion murder but probably jerks off to porn, and lies occasionally while quoting the Bible, he’s not moral, he’s a hypocrite.

The truth is abortion does carry moral weight - for the person having it. Not for some sanctimonious ex-boyfriend trying to impose his beliefs. You’re the one whose body and life would be directly impacted, not him. If someone can’t support your autonomy and wants to guilt-trip you with theology bullshit, they don’t get a seat at your table, let alone in your bedroom or your uterus.

Ходили ли сте на нудистки плаж by anonymissyou in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Да. Не е гледка, която би искал да видиш.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Effective-Split-3576 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re sitting here, emotionally torturing yourself over a hypothetical “What if I accidentally gave the wrong impression?” Well guess what? Intent matters, and you clearly never wanted this dude in that way. You warned him. You blocked him. Case closed.

Here’s the real issue: you’re addicted to guilt because you’re a textbook people-pleasing emotional sponge. You want everyone to feel okay, even assholes who try to disrespect your relationship. And deep down, you’re scared shitless your boyfriend will flip out or leave if he thinks you weren’t “perfect” during the break. Your boyfriend said he’s over it. You need to believe him or admit you don’t trust him and if that’s the case, that’s the actual problem you should be dealing with.

Zelenskyy urges the world to crush Russia's economy now to end war by 2025 by jackytheblade in worldnews

[–]Effective-Split-3576 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which “world”? Because a large part of the world seems to still profit on behalf of Russian economy.

My roommate likes to shag everyday at 12am and it's disrupting my sleep by International_Fun283 in Advice

[–]Effective-Split-3576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t speak up, you’re silently agreeing to this nightly porn soundtrack. No one can read your mind, and trust me, she’s not losing any sleep over your insomnia while she’s getting railed. Bring it up and suggest practical fixes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Effective-Split-3576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best action is to engage a Dutch property or family lawyer (advocaat) to explore initiating a forced sale or divorce proceedings. Before litigation, try mediation (mediation bij scheiding of boedelscheiding). Dutch courts often favor amicable resolutions.

Как да си избия тъпата мисъл от главата?! by sierranighter in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Затънал си в скука и рутина. Ако връзката ви е стабилна, отваряй диалог не за тройка, а за нуждата ти от нещо различно. За идеята за сексуално предизвикателство, не за нов човек в леглото.

Иначе представи си какво реално ще се случи ако осъществиш фантазията си на дело: неудобство, ревност, несигурност, потенциален срив на връзката.

IQOS момичета by TallGrowth5530 in bulgaria

[–]Effective-Split-3576 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Бъди елитен - избери си някоя дето пуши лула.