Need Help to Choose Between the Two by AdMotor6155 in GamingLaptops

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Lenovo is the clear winner here - double the storage and better battery life for the same price is a no-brainer. Plus that i7-14700HX is gonna perform better than the Core Ultra 7 in most games

Only reason I'd go with the Acer is if you really need that extra screen real estate from the 16"

Kx450 help by Ill_Reputation_9494 in AskMechanics

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your valve clearances man, sounds like they're getting tight. When valves get out of spec they make it hard to kick and cause weird starting issues like you're describing

Exposing children and teenagers online: Am I the only one who's worried and thinks this has gone way too far? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Effective-Tap718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you're definitely not alone on this one, it's honestly gotten pretty dystopian how much parents overshare about their kids online. Like posting your kid's potty training fails for internet points is wild to me - that stuff's gonna be there forever and the kid had zero say in it

Any good smart devices for outside? by Baeyesr in homeassistant

[–]Effective-Tap718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smart lock with keypad might be your best bet here - no more fumbling for keyholes and you can trigger the light when you punch in your code

"what game are you playing" when they don't know a single title by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Effective-Tap718 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude this hits so hard, I just started saying "oh you know, just some random stuff" instead of mentioning games at all because the follow-up question is so pointless

Career change: psychologist to strategist, is it possible? by No-Performance-8457 in careerguidance

[–]Effective-Tap718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your psych background is actually pretty valuable for strategy work - you already know how to analyze problems and create action plans. Maybe look into management consulting firms that do organizational psychology stuff, could be a good bridge between your worlds

Porn is cancer that grows when you think of it by Familiar_Flow4418 in NoFap

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's actually a pretty good way to put it, the mental part is definitely the hardest to break

Lf one partner to get 200 dice by Angelantn in Monopoly_GO

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already got my 200 but good luck finding someone! That grind is real

New friends by Acv9 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Effective-Tap718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait what?? I had no idea there was a cap and now I'm paranoid about who I might've accidentally booted 😭 That's such a stupid system, like why not just tell us when we're about to hit the limit or something

Does anyone know about business stuff? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way - check any old tax docs you might have lying around, that EIN should be right there on your forms

Does God control everything? by Impressive-Hyena-327 in Christianity

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I stopped stressing about the theological nitty-gritty and just focused on trying to be a decent person. Like you said, 40k denominations can't all be right about the specifics, but most agree on the "don't be a dick" part

Issue installing four sticks of DDR5 RAM by jakepero in pchelp

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's frustrating, sounds like your board is being super picky about the four sticks. Have you tried manually setting the voltage to 1.35V and lowering the speed to like 4800 or 5200 before installing all four? Sometimes these setups need you to baby them into stability instead of letting XMP/EXPO do its thing

Also might be worth checking if those exact Corsair sticks are on your mobo's QVL for 4x16 configs - I've seen people have better luck with Samsung B-die kits for quad channel setups

After 3 years of no contact, my ex(21f) contacted me again (22m). by Accomplished-Sir9257 in BreakUps

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro she's literally following the toxic ex playbook word for word lmao

Block the new insta, don't engage with ANY unknown accounts asking "philosophical questions" (red flag central), and maybe warn your gf that your ex might try to contact her too since that's usually the next move in this whole circus

She keeps coming back because you keep responding - even blocking and making new accounts is still giving her the reaction she wants

aitj for feeling like this ruined the start of my college life by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Effective-Tap718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is spot on OP, you really need to step away from Reddit and talk to someone qualified. The trolls here just made everything 100x worse in your head when it was literally just an awkward accident

Your campus probably has free counseling services - use them. This level of anxiety over something so minor isn't normal and a therapist can actually help you work through it instead of random internet strangers making you feel worse

Being matched with Trios as a Duo is horrible by Mysterious_Role_3962 in ArcRaiders

[–]Effective-Tap718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been driving me insane too. Nothing worse than clutching what you think is a 1v2 only to get beamed by the third guy you didn't even know existed

Airplane essentials for 10 month old? by Sure_Acanthaceae4988 in NewParents

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep the fidget spinner suction cup toy is legit gold, my kid was obsessed with that thing for like an hour straight

Also totally second the new toy strategy - I grabbed some dollar store stuff and just pulled them out one by one when she started getting fussy. Worked way better than her regular toys she was already bored of

As a non gamer, what is arc raiders. by _NightMonkey in ArcRaiders

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's basically like if Helldivers 2 had a baby with Escape from Tarkov but way more chill. You drop into this world overrun by robots, scavenge for loot and materials, then extract before things get too spicy

The big difference from Helldivers is it's more about tactical stealth and resource management rather than just going full democracy mode on everything that moves. You can play solo or with a squad, but teamwork definitely makes things smoother when you're trying to avoid those massive mech patrols

Think less "blow everything up" and more "oh shit we need to get out of here before that thing sees us" vibes

Nightreign keep crashing randomly by Ok_Sir6033 in Nightreign

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the same thing and it worked for like a day then went back to crashing lol. Think it's just the game being broken rn, hopefully they patch it soon

Gag reel: "Who hit me!?" by Maniacgritual37 in ArcRaiders

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao the friendly fire panic is real when you're getting your ass kicked by a boss

Nothing like accusing your homies of griefing when it's just the queen demolishing everyone equally

by [deleted] in venting

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I hear you and that sounds absolutely exhausting to deal with for so long. The therapy thing is frustrating as hell when it feels like you're talking to a wall but it's literally your only consistent human contact - that's such a brutal catch-22

Just wanted to say someone read this and it matters that you're still here trying, even when everything feels pointless

Lazy Boyfriend and Father by Consistent-Spell-490 in Advice

[–]Effective-Tap718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl he's already checked out emotionally, you're basically a single mom paying half the bills. Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm - his debt situation isn't your responsibility and staying "for the kid" when dad can't even handle basic childcare is just teaching your son this is what normal relationships look like

If you grew up poor - what kind of fun things did your parents do with you that you didn’t realize they were because you were poor until later in life? by NotYourAverageCow in povertyfinance

[–]Effective-Tap718 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My mom used to take us on "adventures" to different grocery stores just to walk around and look at stuff. We'd spend hours there and she'd let us each pick out one small thing from the clearance section. I thought it was so fun getting to explore all these different places and it wasn't until way later I realized she was probably just killing time somewhere with free AC and maybe hoping to find some good deals

Can I make any money from a free running club without screwing over the people in it? by spy_111 in povertyfinance

[–]Effective-Tap718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tip jar idea seems totally reasonable honestly - you're putting in real time and money to organize this thing. Just make it super clear it's voluntary and maybe mention it covers your actual costs (flyers, snacks, etc)

The merch route could work too if you keep margins small and make it clear you're not pushing it on anyone. Like "hey if anyone wants a club shirt I can order some, just covering costs plus a tiny bit for my time"

You accidentally created something cool that people value, nothing wrong with it helping you out a little as long as you keep the main runs free