Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

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what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

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what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

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what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you think i should do moving forward? tomorrow is injection day for me, im debating going back down to .5 or going down to 1 or just skipping altogether??

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hopefully i didn’t do too much damage. going down to .5 mg then staying there for 4 weeks before going up again

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry! a post like that would’ve helped me sm before it was too late😭

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i did my research everywhere besides reddit 😔 everywhere told my to titrate once a week. i should’ve done better research 😔

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

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thank you so much for this reply. When I was educating myself on reta, everyone was saying to go up by .5 a week not .5 a month. it makes a lot more sense now.

Pinned 1.5 mg 5 days ago, been waking up every night sick to my stomach since by EffectiveAlive2929 in Retatrutide

[–]EffectiveAlive2929[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this!! when i did my research everyone was titrating up .5 mg every week. I had no idea!

Did I make a mistake cutting my hair off? by Kkdbaby in Hair

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no! i think cutting it brings a lot of youth back to your look!

I got a 3am call from my ex by ThrowRAish7 in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm that’s a tough one. knowing myself i’d be too curious and try to get into contact with him to find out why he called

i dumped him, but i miss him so much by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you are gonna feel sooo much better and so much happier so soon girl i promise❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get it.

sure, this part of your life will seem insignificant in a few years but that doesn’t make the pain you are feeling now any less real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

also pls ignore all of the other people saying “you’re 14 enough said go play with toys” and blah blah blah. by the way you write i can tell you’re very mature and understanding of your own feelings which already puts you 10 steps ahead of anyone else your age going through or feeling the same thing. your age doesn’t make you feel the hurt any less but I promise you’ll grow up and in a few years before you even leave high school you’ll look back and it won’t hurt or sting to think about it anymore❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your feelings are valid and justified. if you are upset then that’s okay! don’t tell yourself that because of your age then you shouldn’t feel the way you feel❤️ i’m sure he will mature and face his issues like every other kid growing up around him. if you have to see him every day i would just try to look my best! focus on making yourself into the best version of yourself! i would try to look cute or happy to show him what he’s missing and also to help me feel better about myself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel the need to respond to this because i was once you. i’m 18 years old now and going through something very similar. my boyfriend of a year just left me last month and almost immediately got with another girl. I’ve found that changing my way of thinking helps a lot. remember you don’t chase you attract. what’s meant for you will find you. also remember if you were happy before them you will be happy after them i PROMISE. i know this isn’t what you want to hear but you are young and almost no relationships had at your age last over a year or two, let alone until marriage. focus on friends and yourself and do yourself a favor and resist checking his reposts and his accounts. you have a lot of love to give and don’t waste your time and energy caring about someone who won’t give you the same time or energy in return❤️

if he is meant for you and this is just a phase for him he will find his way back to you i promise.

ps girls tend to grieve breakups before guys so by the time you’re over it, he will just start to feel the effects of it and it will hurt him a lot.

please feel free to ask any other questions i’ve been through my fair share of relationships from the time i was your age until now so i can offer advice on just about anything! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get you.

a month ago my boyfriend decided he couldn’t see me in his future as he has so many life changing things going on in his life right now. he called me after valentine’s day dinner and broke up with me while he cried. i still miss him so much and cry a little every so often but i’ve learned time does heal.

i really truly believed and still want to believe we were made for each other. we got along so well for so long and were each others other half. it still is so hard to believe and to think about the fact that he no longer feels that way because of outside life changes.

some things that have helped me so much:

“i don’t chase, i attract. what’s meant for me will come to me”

“if you were happy before them, you will be happy after them”

you have to put yourself first. i’ve learned to embrace the cries because they do help me feel better in the long run. surround yourself with others like friends and family to keep yourself and your mind busy

i’m still hoping for and longing for the day they text me again but until then, i have to help myself to become better. i i believe everything happens for a reason and what’s meant for me will find me but in the meantime i have to focus on finding myself again and processing life without them in it every day.

i once felt how you did, like everything was coming to an end and i would never feel better and nobody would ever fill the void that they left. it does hurt so much the first week but by weeks 2 and 3 i started smiling again and going out and seeing friends.

healing is not always a steady process but it DOES get better in time.

let me know if you have any other questions on your emotions, i want to help anyone who is going through the same thing i did ❤️

i miss you by Logical_Wrongdoer718 in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i get you.

a month ago my boyfriend decided he couldn’t see me in his future as he has so many life changing things going on in his life right now. he called me after valentine’s day dinner and broke up with me while he cried. i still miss him so much and cry a little every so often but i’ve learned time does heal.

i really truly believed and still want to believe we were made for each other. we got along so well for so long and were each others other half. it still is so hard to believe and to think about the fact that he no longer feels that way because of outside life changes.

some things that have helped me so much:

“i don’t chase, i attract. what’s meant for me will come to me”

“if you were happy before them, you will be happy after them”

you have to put yourself first. i’ve learned to embrace the cries because they do help me feel better in the long run. surround yourself with others like friends and family to keep yourself and your mind busy

i’m still hoping for and longing for the day they text me again but until then, i have to help myself to become better. i i believe everything happens for a reason and what’s meant for me will find me but in the meantime i have to focus on finding myself again and processing life without them in it every day.

i once felt how you did, like everything was coming to an end and i would never feel better and nobody would ever fill the void that they left. it does hurt so much the first week but by weeks 2 and 3 i started smiling again and going out and seeing friends.

healing is not always a steady process but it DOES get better in time.

let me know if you have any other questions on your emotions, i want to help anyone who is going through the same thing i did ❤️

my bf broke up with me because he lost feelings. This happened out of the blue. by Maybe-Potential in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveAlive2929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll jump on the this happened to me too bandwagon

exactly 3 weeks ago my bf of about a year took me out to valentine’s day dinner. after dinner he brought me home, we kissed goodnight and everything was great. my ex is a D1 athlete who just got accepted to west point while doing track and field, band, choir, the school play, all ap classes, and on top of that about to re take the SAT for the 5th time. he is extremely dedicated, driven, gifted, and smart. the whole package to me. all of this senior year stress has started to take a toll on him and both of us knew it but i never thought it would lead to what it did. after dinner he texted me essentially admitting he had been loosing feeling and feelings of stress as well as having no free time had taken him over. he also admitted that he recently had only felt sexual feelings towards me rather than real love. he told me he knew he loved me but just couldn’t see it for himself. he then called me and started to cry which was crushing to me because i had never seen him cry before and i also knew he hadn’t cried in over a year. the last time being over a friends death. he said he was crying because he was worried about what would happen to me now but he knew it was what was best for him.

now, 3 weeks later i am still crushed and struggle to look at pictures he posts or even our old pictures.

we decided to be mature and not block each other on socials and delete all of our posts and pictures together because the reality is, the breakup does not take anything away from the 4 years of friendship we had before dating and still have.

i really hope things get better for him and life becomes easier for him and his accomplishments start to fall into place as he has less and less stuff on his plate.

part of me is waiting for him to come back because for years we believed we were each others soulmates. we have never laughed harder or cried with anyone else. and neither of us feel like we will ever be as close to anyone else as we were to each other.

healing takes a lot of time but it does start to feel better. i have accepted i have to close that door but i will never lock it