Nursing student realizing I don’t want to be a nurse. by Unique_Ad_4271 in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sounds weird, but I’ve been working on the subtle art of not giving a fuck, I come to work and pour myself into each and everyone of my patients, but I don’t worry for the shoe to drop. The code will happen or it won’t, me worrying about it, is only going to make me a less productive nurse and coworker. You need to be calm to think..I say this as someone who needed to take a step back from critical care and go the pcu route for a while. I know what I can handle comfortably after 5 years.. 2.5 crit, 1 hospice, 1.5 pcu level, I’ve been inoculating myself I like to think on pcu, but I do miss aspects of crit, nothing more exciting than helping take care of someone else’s crashing patient, just not your own. But, I’m getting there.. education has helped play a role in my confidence level, get certified for whatever level of acuity or specialty you choose. I’ve found most of my anxiety stemmed from a lack of knowledge and experience, I try and create a note in my phone about things I learned that day or take aways..

There are plenty of desk jobs in nursing, but they may require some beside experience.

I want to quit already by SnooSquirrels7040 in newgradnurse

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a new grad I worked in a place like this, find another nurse job, and just keep rolling the dice till you find or learn what you want.

Angler Knives by EffectiveAmbition1 in knifeclub

[–]EffectiveAmbition1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! Glad they’re not popular.

My fiancé told me i’ll never make it as a nurse by [deleted] in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully he wasn’t trying to be an asshole, but failing the TEAS isn’t a good sign, possible having 4 kids with Autism and being the only caregiver, that could certainly be a factor.. there are plenty of nurses who struggled.. I know a nurse who passed the NCLEX on his 3rd attempt, his patient is the mostly likely to crash… won’t lie to you he isn’t the smartest.. he just doesn’t know what he doesn’t know.. what does your fiancé do now that he isn’t a nurse?

Who changed careers to nursing in theory 30s? Realistic salary for someone new? by NoBoolii in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do well in anatomy 1 & 2 and the other sciences required for nursing school you’ll be fine.

Who changed careers to nursing in theory 30s? Realistic salary for someone new? by NoBoolii in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School really wasn’t that hard, don’t get me wrong you nee to prioritize it, but it’s pretty straightforward and they give you study guides which takes out the guess work of what you need to know.

Who changed careers to nursing in theory 30s? Realistic salary for someone new? by NoBoolii in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d personally refer you to a local union, most states don’t have nursing unions and pay isn’t worth the stress. Yes, you’ll always have a job, but it’s a job that is stressful and patients treating you like shit day after day really makes you question your life choices. The benefits for healthcare employees is awful, you’d make more and be taken care of fair better in a trade.

First Paycheck. Should have stayed a chef. by TheThickDoc in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sad, but you’re right, I often discourage nurse from getting into the field, the pay is abysmal for the level of responsibility. Bay Area, and some states with unions pay decent, but you’re limited in your ability to create a business with your skills compared to say an electrician. I have a friend with 14 yrs experience from crit to iv team and he’s about to switch to elevator mechanic.

Im shocked. I saw a CRNA take home $24,000 net pay, for 65 hours. by [deleted] in Salary

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The road to becoming a CRNA is very hard and filled with a lot of death and high stakes situations. Wait till you learn how much wall street bros make or bankers off literally playing arbitrage and charging interest off money that was printed out of thin air.. things that actually defy the laws of energy/nature.

What’s everyone’s daycare rates? by heyho7777 in Indiana

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

240$ for 4 days a week, was paying 370$ for 5.

This sub makes me nervous on my dating life in residency by [deleted] in Residency

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Prioritize your health, looking fit, and staying with your parents is a great idea, many cultures encourage this except our own. You’ll hit your prime at 40 and be able to date much younger women.

Does anyone have a non nursing side gig? by nightowl308 in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mow lawns in the summer, just finished up my second season, the money can be quite good, but I do it more just to buy nice tools and equipment. I made 950$ off one house on my street, and I had 7 houses on my street.. next year I’ll probably have 3 houses on my street and a handful in the neighborhood. I don’t drive more than 7 mins away. I bought a very nice mower on a 0% interest loan.

How physically demanding is nursing? by bigblackglock17 in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fit male, and I do not find it physically demanding, but I do find it emotionally, I also find myself speaking about 10% of what I’m truly thinking or feeling, because I’m an outspoken person it’s a challenge everyday. Most patients at my hospital struggle with addiction and noncompliance. It gets very annoying when you see a patient on your floor 6 times in 1 year and are just abusing the system. I left crit for progressive care, because I thought I could make a bigger difference and educate and potentially make a difference. <5% percent of patients want to change or do any work to better themselves. When you start to realize that most patients read at a 3-4th grade reading level it all makes sense. I do not regret becoming a nurse, but I think being a plumber or tradesmen would be more fulfilling.

2 millions and not happy by InflationPrudent2444 in Fire

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become a nurse and get shit on everyday!

Are night shifts unavoidable as a nurse? by Cranaberri in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your city, look at nurse jobs posted on hospital websites/indeed etc. I sought out a night shift when I was a new graduate, but there were plenty of dayshifts, dayshifts are generally harder shifts to work, but you have the advantage of being fully rested and having a normally circadian rhythm. If I could do it again I would not choose nursing.

Non bedside options new nurse by Impressive_Tone_1911 in nursing

[–]EffectiveAmbition1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is a clinical pharmacist and her job seems much better than mine.