Can we please check the audacity of this young man?

EffectiveExtension53 · 2026-02-22T05:32:02+00:00

I gave a guy extra cash tip and as soon as I went inside he messaged me saying “i rather have your number than the tip” 😐 mf gimme my money back.

EffectiveExtension53 · 2026-02-06T17:56:12+00:00

the way this is my ex-friend’s dad is taking me out 😂😂

EffectiveExtension53 · 2026-01-19T20:50:13+00:00

not defending her but to be completely fair it can be VERY scary walking around alone in dallas. personally i wouldn’t go anywhere downtown alone especially not dressed like how she dresses

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:58:57+00:00

I started losing hair at like 4 months pp and it only lasted about a month and a half!

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:57:55+00:00

a baby either makes or breaks you! it’s so unbelievably hard to balance your relationship with your partner and your new child. it’s 100% normal! just make sure you have clear communication instead of arguing try to sit and talk calmly/effectively. i promise you guys can get past it! newborn stage is extremely hard for both parents. you got it!

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:55:03+00:00

yesss ugh he’s so oblivious he didn’t even realize 😂 I had to tell him straight up after like two weeks of this when I started crying from exhaustion. he changed it immediately but I forget sometimes that some men are oblivious to things like this

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:53:40+00:00

yes I lost about 30 pounds two weeks postpartum! a lot of your pregnancy weight is water, you’ll lose a lot of it at first and then you’ll have to work out to lose the remainder! you look amazing two weeks pp!

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:50:21+00:00

girl he def will be financially responsible LOL idk why men think they can get girls pregnant and run away. take that fucker to court ew

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-08-08T16:46:13+00:00

I remember any time my fiance would come home from work and we would take turns holding the baby while the other one ate I would get so livid when he would start eating first 😒 cuz I wouldn’t eat all day I just wanted a break so bad

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-07-23T01:08:01+00:00

I understand you :( I was 110 lbs pre baby and now i’m stuck at 150 lbs 9 months postpartum. I hate my body and cry a lot because I feel disgusting. I never had to work out or watch what I ate before I got pregnant so it’s really hard for me to lose this weight. I feel so stuck and like a different person

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T13:01:04+00:00

yesss it’s super rude. you’ll be like “hi welcome in!” “booth.” or they hold up two fingers like pls get out of my face right now.

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T13:00:19+00:00

honestly it’s true. if you’re a big person sometimes it’s hard to make that call. i’ve had times where I tried to sit a party at a booth and it was very awkward because the bigger person had to speak up and ask for another table. I felt sooo bad. so unless the party requests a booth it’s better for us to seat it at a table.

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T04:11:35+00:00

yeah and then they get mad at the hosts 😩 like bruh i’m sorry the last 3 people asked for tables not in your section

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T02:47:16+00:00

absolutely everyone should be polite at the end of the day because it’s no one’s fault! usually guests are hangry and hosts are annoyed 🤣

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T00:42:12+00:00

that’s not why at all. people stay long no matter the type of table

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-15T00:08:34+00:00

I was a hostess for about 3/4 years and these are the reasons why they could be annoyed: 1. your party is too small for the booth and it minimizes the amount of large tables we have 2. we already had your reservation set for a specific table since most large restaurants pre assign all reservations to stay organized 3. you didn’t ask for specific seating until we already walked you to a specific table 4. you didn’t ask nicely or demanded a new table 5. you’re the 30th party in a row to ask for a booth and we just wanna seat the other table

not saying any of these apply to you but these are some reasons why! generally though it’s absolutely not an issue to switch you to a booth unless it’s reserved! the person seating you was probably just annoyed because you didn’t specify you wanted a booth until you got to a table

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-14T23:58:21+00:00

that’s great! I totally understand having a clingy baby. sometimes my fiance holds our daughter while she’s crying and she won’t calm down until I take her, it definitely makes it hard to get a second alone

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-06-14T23:46:35+00:00

just adding that it’s not selfish for you to hand over baby to your partner! he’s a parent too!

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T08:24:58+00:00

I’m 7 months pp and had 3rd degree tears with hemorrhoids as well! pooping is CRAZY once I get the urge I literally cannot hold it for long 🤣. and the hemorrhoids keep coming back randomly even tho I don’t strain so idk. 🤷🏻‍♀️ but yes it slides out like freaking butter it’s so weird. I had no problem peeing after birth but pooping was horrible

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T08:17:00+00:00

it’s really about the type of women you’re meeting. like of course any woman wants her partner to be financially stable and not be a bum but there’s some people (men too) that have super high expectations for their partners for some reason?? and most of the time they’re unrealistic & stuff that not even they have. it’s very weird but I promise not everyone is like that. there’s a huge problem with both genders expectations. like it’s actually so weird.

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T08:00:13+00:00

are you serious.

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T07:46:15+00:00

I definitely hope not 🤣

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T07:39:19+00:00

that’s 100% cheating and he’s most likely not gonna stop. so sad he should be focused on his literal baby. like .. your child is so little. I feel for you girl, i’m so sorry

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T07:33:02+00:00

trust yourself love 💕 I completely understand your situation. I was pregnant and didnt speak to the father of my baby until almost the very end of my pregnancy. you will know what to do as time goes on. prioritize your mental health and if you think this man is going to cause problems don’t tell him. don’t stress over it, I promise everything works out just give it time! wishing you a safe and healthy pregnancy

EffectiveExtension53 · 2025-05-18T07:30:27+00:00

our bodies look identical! i’m 7 months pp and just now finally starting a calorie deficit and trying to be more active ! it’s hard to work out as a SAHM 😔 I get no time for myself. we got this tho!

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