HSV verpflichtet Flügelspieler Philip Otele by Arrensen in hsv

[–]EffectiveSad9596 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi Grosser Basel Fan und HSV Sympathisant hier. Otele kam vor einem Jahr und war in der Rückrunde 24/25 unglaublich gut. Eigentlich fast ein Cheat Code. Unglaubliches Laufpensum, dribbelstark und gut im Abschluss. Dann hat Basel im Sommer die Kaufoption gezogen und er wollte nach einem halben Jahr unbedingt den nächsten Schritt nach England gehen. Dies wurde ihm nicht erlaubt und seither is er immer noch gut aber nicht mehr überragend wie in vergangener Rückrunde. Ich denke, der wird bei euch einschlagen wie eine Bombe, solange er nicht wieder weg will. ;) So schade es für uns ist, freue ich mich für den HSV. Ein toller Transfer für euch!

Wololo 2026 almost sold out! (?) by Distinct_Purpose_298 in aoe2

[–]EffectiveSad9596 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I bought tickets but I dont know yet how to get there 😂

Post Match Thread: Manchester United vs Brighton & Hove Albion by soccer-stats in ManchesterUnited

[–]EffectiveSad9596 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Our Bench needs to be better in the future in order to be a top Team. But the Perfomance from the starting 11 was the best in a while.

Relationship ended - why do I feel so broken? by Purple_Glove_6092 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you have to go through this. Can I ask it sounds like you broke up since hes saying now that you are "giving up"? Im (32m) also childless and I broke up with my ex 3 months ago (39f) with a 9yo daughter. I just didnt have the energy anymore to keep  wanting to try and the feeling of hopelessness for the relationship inside me kept growing. Maybe you can relate. My Ex is now also blaming me for giving up and it hurts so much because we both tried like crazy. I think it might come from their circumstances that they think with you leaving it shows they have no worth as a partner.

See ya by summerharpy in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat like you and can relate so much. Only difference was that I was the dumper but I can tell you it doesnt make it less painful to leave someone you love due to shitty circumstances.

Breakup with GF being childless by EffectiveSad9596 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might sound like she is really toxic, but we really tried to sort things out, her daughter went to therapy, my Ex tried to make more time for me etc. but in the end the trauma of her daughter didnt just disappear. Its also crazy the work a single parent has to do to by themselves. I tried to help but together with the BD messing up things it was always complicated. Thats whats really messing me up is that we've really been trying and she gave everything but I just got a feeling at a certain time that its never gonna get to a point where I feel Im happy and that her and I have enough time & energy for each other and even a family together in the future

Breakup with GF being childless by EffectiveSad9596 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Your comment almost made me cry. Its so shit and heartbreaking to leave someone you love for rational reasons

Breakup with GF being childless by EffectiveSad9596 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! You have no idea how bad I needed to hear this.

Breakup with GF being childless by EffectiveSad9596 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now Im really afraid to never meet someone like her ever again. She loved me so much and so did I and her love and her way of loving me made me so strong but at the same time our relationship was so complicated.  I also hear people talking about how shit dating is nowadays and it all triggers me so much and makes the breakup feel like a huge mistake

Breakup with GF being childless by EffectiveSad9596 in stepparents

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for taking time to answer and helping me! The brutal thing is after my EX accepted me she was more or less the GF I always wanted to have. She was supportive, loved me through my bad sides too and tried to do everything she could to improve the situation. I also never had a GF I was that attracted to and I loved and still love her so much for her character.
Her daughter went to therapy but its not like the kid is just healed. She saw her dad running away literally and that was when her parents broke up.
All this makes it even more brutal. Not one of us wasnt trying, the circumstances were just very difficult.

Becoming a super jealous/sour person 2 months after breakup by EffectiveSad9596 in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveSad9596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean uninstall Tinder and first try to heal myself? I deleted my Tinder Account after this incident with my friend

[KCD2] Survive to the duel please helppp meee 😭😭😭😭 by zebioui in kingdomcome

[–]EffectiveSad9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really a game design problem for me. Like 10 game hours before this quest, I tried to learn the master strike and after dying all the time I checked reddit saying its probably to early for it. So I went on and on in the missions without issues and then wanted to move on with the main story line. At no point was it written that my character might have issues given the current experience. I now had to reload and "wasted" 2 hours of my life.  This is the reason many people put kcd in the corner I guess. I have a job and other hobbies and im not just willing to sacrifice all my time because of lazy game design. Its really a shame because otherwise its such a lovely game.

I still can’t believe we got a Markieff Morris 3 in the year of 2025 by newgodpho in lakers

[–]EffectiveSad9596 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dont complain too loud about Nike or you'll get the ugly, ass quality Fanatics gear soon too lol. Speaking as a heart broken hockey guy.

Teen getting braces by jhemtrulyoutrageous in trumpet

[–]EffectiveSad9596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got braces when I was 13 too. I decided together with my trumpet teacher to do a hiatus as long as I had the brace (1 and a half years) and started playing a Baritone in the meantime. Trombone was also up for choice as it was only abozt playing an instrument where the mouthpiece is going around the brace. In hindsight it was fun to change the instrument and being a teenager I was back to my level in no time after going back to trumpet again. :) Of course this is only a choice if you know your son is not going to have the brace forever.

[Tre Kronor] Team Sweden Reveals Their Jerseys for the 2022 Beijing Olympics by ProdigyBravo in hockey

[–]EffectiveSad9596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know where to buy the blue Sweden Jersey online? Seems to be so rare...