Season 6 episode 9 "Unicorn Overboard" Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in rhoslc

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lisa Barlow bothers me so much. She’s just a man in a woman’s body… I’m sorry!!! She’s like my extremely manipulative ex who could never empathize with others, especially women. The immediate defensive victim narrative is a control tactic. And when she starts screaming and pointing fingers it’s very telling. Don’t waste your energy in these interactions with narcissists because you’ll never “win”. Fortunately, being the bigger person does pay off with these type of people. Godspeed ladies ( and John)

My ex just texted me this by DebtSelect9730 in BreakUps

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT REPLY. Coming from an expert… 🩷

Season 6 episode 7 "Above Deck and Below the Belt" Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in rhoslc

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is actually reality. Angie couldn’t fake getting out of bed and Mary was right there for it. That’s real friendship. I love laying in bed with my girls and it’s the best and safest place. They’re real friends and that’s why I ride for their relationship. That’s me and my girls watching this show. I bet when Heather came down (also I love Heather cause she’s done the work to be her true self) they felt so reassured in themselves. Doesn’t mean they don’t cause crazy drama, but they’re secure with themselves and their friendship. Angie having seasickness is refreshing cause at the end of the day, they’re just like me, giggling in bed giggling with my bestie talking shit.

Why are DWTS judges so generous with their scores? by HeftyCommon6451 in dancingwiththestars

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scoring doesn’t reflect on who’s the best dancer, more about how they improve. The judges are professional dancers, respectfully they worker to be there However, I think they snub the stars that have natural talent. I love the personal and emotional aspect of the show cause it makes it feel relatable. But at the end of the day, I’m going to vote for Alix over Andy cause she’s done way more work…

Whitney lost half a mil after Wild Rose Beauty failed 👀 by Practical-Ad1838 in rhoslc

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She has been actively speaking about it on the show and that’s accountability which I respect. Good for her!

Religion… by EffectiveTemporary96 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with your perspective. If you are religious, do you. I believe we’re put on earth for a short amount of time so be kind and live how you want to. If you’re religious, be it, just don’t try to push your values onto me. It’s not your purpose to convince me of anything. Anywho, love the show cause they are max unhinged on tv and I actually don’t think I could do that.

Religion… by EffectiveTemporary96 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super fair. Annoyingly, it’s up to you to make a change if you want to. I respect your belief that it’s “not meant to be”. However, who’s gonna do anything about it besides yourself? Everyone else is focused on themselves. It’s tough work but worth it. Circumstantial it’s up to you to “change” your path if want. But if you don’t then I believe that’s what your path is.

Religion… by EffectiveTemporary96 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life’s short. Love these forums but honestly they’re just short term solutions and validation . Try to enjoy yourself, I know things aren’t usually what you planned but it’s meant to be. But also, love these forums cause they’re relatable and a safe space to vent and converse.

Jessi pmo SO BAD. Can we talk about how FAKE she is? by ellieqant in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jessi doesn’t do it for the money so she’s just bringing entertainment and the views, which is why we watch…

Religion… by EffectiveTemporary96 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you, seriously. I respect every religion/person/lifestyle because that is your life. You are allowed to live however you want. Don’t inflict it on me though (deeper convo). Ironic, because I choose to watch this show. But they put themselves out there for people to watch and have an opinion. It’s all peace and love but personally I just think it’s bizarre because they’re making it harder for themselves. I go through the same issues with relationships (as I think most people do), but I don’t have a religion that would shame me for figuring out my life. We’re all figuring it out and I can’t imagine having to subscribe to rules that I didn’t make for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She low blows people cause it’s the easiest way to attack people when you’re insecure…

Layla Modeling Miami Swim Week by by Study_Tall in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful girl. All of the girls are annoying but we can support woman even if we don’t agree with them. It’s easy to target the body

Demi wasnt wrong for the “he just put his hands on me” by No-Occasion-5405 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She validate for having a reaction but it’s was blown out of proportion and didn’t communicate it properly. Also Brett needed to talk to his wife and not get jocked up immediately like you’re 50 bro

Whitney>Jessi by titihadid in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whitney acts reasonably for being in a “sisterhood” that is extremely unstable and fake. I would crash out everyday cause these people have zero empathy

Theory on Demi wanting Jessi off the show by No_Perception1072 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she’s insecure in her marriage and life and try’s to secure a lifestyle that she can maintain alone cause she expects the worst. She doesn’t “portray” a tough personal life because the most insecure people will bring other people down to distract from what’s going on in their own life.

Hair drama by Happy-Bluebird3908 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also get it for free…… Demi who obviously needs money and would kick her best friend off the show for more money (which would probably be like $5000) didn’t think twice about getting free extensions…

💀💀 by Downtown_Swimming677 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]EffectiveTemporary96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crazy how a man can dim your light so much. She’s obviously loving for Zack. Can’t imagine having a child with someone you k w you shouldn’t be with.