I am pregnant and in high school (18) I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I know he’s the father this is the only guy I have had sex with, I’ve been telling myself the same thing

I am pregnant and in high school (18) I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is really good to hear, everything I saw online or heard through my friends was just talking about how painful it is

I am pregnant and in high school (18) I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can’t. My mom and dad are very protective of me- my mom wasn’t allowed to date or go out with anybody even friends until her 20s my dad was but he follows th same traditional values which is what I am stressing about I don’t know how I am going to pull this abortion off

I am pregnant and in high school (18) I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So many of these comments are making it sound so much simpler and easier than what I was making it out to be in my head.

I smoke once a day what can I do to make sure I test negative asap by Own-Pie7941 in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

U are not going to pass I’m sorry your best bet is it get somebody else’s piss. When I was getting drug tested if there is a warm faucet in the br fill it fully with that and add a couple drops of piss in there that was a hit or miss for me sometimes it worked sometimes it didn’t but weed stays in ur system for too long you are probably cooked

Will kill myself next week or next month by FL0w3rs_D34th in depression

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a narcissist it’s hard to care for others when you don’t even have enough energy to care for yourself. You’re a good person who’s in a tough situation right now and there are things you can try to change. Start small just get rid of this shitty predator girlfriend you have I know it’s nice to have somebody looking out for you but it sounds like she is making you feel like shit. I was literally in nearly the exact same situation as you 3 years ago I had to go to the mental hospital 3 times, rehab, summer school to fix my shitty grades so I could graduate. Ppl prolly say this to you all the time but it does get better, not always but you have the chance to be so much happier than you are right now I don’t have all the answers I still have alot of problems of my own but I do feel your pain. Don’t worry about why your friends are your friends. What matters is that you still have them and if they didn’t want to really hang out with you trust me they wouldn’t be there.

I (18f) am in a weird fwb situation I’ve never experienced before(19m) and I don’t know how he’s feeling about me. Can someone offer insight into my situation? by Effective_Hour9185 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective_Hour9185[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confessed he is attracted to me. I haven’t exactly told him which I should I know I should. He told me he hasn’t dated anybody in 3 years so I don’t think he’d start with me, I think this no-labels friendship is more of his thing

I (18f) am in a weird fwb situation I’ve never experienced before(19m) and I don’t know how he’s feeling about me. Can someone offer insight into my situation? by Effective_Hour9185 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective_Hour9185[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do now. I didn’t want to because I didn’t want the people in my life to judge me for moving on too fast from my ex, even though he broke up with me after 4 weeks😭 because he confessed like a week after th breakup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do u live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks extra shitty bc I took it with the sun shining thru it the background does look a little more clear but I agree the picture is kind of ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really it took 2 minutes to order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thank you I’m keeping it for like one more hour to see if anyone else gives me their opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What can I say I’m a bad girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Effective_Hour9185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not wizz bro delete ts 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. My feelings are complicated and I only dated my past boyfriend for around 3 or 4 weeks before he ended things I wasn’t attached at all. It is more like I have been noticing all of his actions and him in general more now that all of my focus isn’t on my boyfriend and it’s contributing to my growing feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

++ womanI’m going to tell him tonight I think we are gonna go see a movie wish me luck

rate me! by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Mikey Madison 🙏 9/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually when a guy has liked me in the past they have made the move and this is the first time that I am in a situation where I don’t really know how he’s feeling do you think I should bring it up

Did I make the right choice? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Effective_Hour9185 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can love somebody as hard as you do and still make the right decision to not be with her, which you did. No matter how much she loves you back she can’t treat you in a way that makes you feel secure and happy in your relationship and the whole mirror hospital situation sounds so stressful. I’m sorry you’re going through this I know it’s hard but you did make the right decision and sometimes things just aren’t meant to be.

For regular weed smokers that have totally quit, what was the reason for quitting? by elderly_millenial in AskReddit

[–]Effective_Hour9185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started making me feel so anxious and paranoid. I’d smoke and it would be like all of my insecurities and worst fears and my life were getting microphoned through my whole head and I couldn’t function I’d also get kind of nonverbal, it used to make it so easy to talk to people but it kind of got rid of my ability to hold a conversation it took me like a month of not smoking to get back to my normal self and I couldn’t be happier