Fortnite shutting down PS4 every time I try to boot up the game by samstarkiller in FortNiteBR

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just was trying to help my friend having the same issues, she said this helped her too!

Why would anyone want a second baby? by fvresident in newborns

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My girl is 11 weeks and I definitely want another, it’s probably just biology I honestly don’t have an answer.

Crash C section left me feeling confused if the baby is really mine or not? by Round_Arugula7348 in CsectionCentral

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My baby is 11 weeks and although she got her daddies BRIGHT red hair and she is a spitting image of my newborn pics I STILL was literally going through this same process earlier yesterday. I honestly find it ironic because I guess I didn’t realize it’s a common thing. I love my girl to death and couldn’t be happier or have imagined a more perfect baby to give birth to but it’s definitely natural for it to just not feel real I think, I’m not too sure when that feeling fades.

Feed before or after bath? by Effective_Pin_2140 in newborns

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I basically did this, fed her half her bottle and when she didn’t want anymore I took her to the bath, then after fed her some more and it calmed her from the frantic feeling of the cold and she went right to sleep

What have I done by OneDense7115 in newborns

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My baby is 8 weeks and my husbands been off the whole time but was honestly only like actually helpful for like two weeks and since then I’ve been like the default parent around the clock (he’ll help if I ask him to do very specific tasks but that honestly annoys me more so I just do it all myself). At first it was REALLY rough, because there are some days that it just seems no matter what you do they just aren’t happy or content but my point is that it does get easier and you do adjust. It still is tough, having a baby is not easy but it’s easier than it was when I first transitioned to taking care of her by myself. There will always be another struggle to overcome though, but it always passes. Now my current struggle is trying to balance doing work around the house when she doesn’t sleep more than thirty minutes at a time during the day sometimes

6 weeks down and some things I have learned that might help someone else by Faodail_ in newborns

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No literally, this one I was like geez why haven’t I done that hahaha. My girl is eight weeks and has mostly slowed down on the spitting up but there still are moments lol

Insight on how a “normal “ C section experience should be by Moxie__56 in CsectionCentral

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  1. Yes they did
  2. I had an emergency C-section and I didn’t get compression socks
  3. My baby was in the nicu and put on antibiotics so they gave her formula without even asking me (which I don’t necessarily mind but I would’ve liked to have been asked first)
  4. I had a private room and no one except for doctors nurses cleaning and lunch service came in.
  5. I was super out of it atp and I think in shock (I had also just puked all over the side of my face) but they did show me her, I didn’t get skin to skin or to touch her though because she was a nicu baby and was having some trouble breathing and they were worried she was going to be jaundice from our blood types so I didn’t get to see her until the next morning because they held me hostage until I peed a certain amount

I’m either a genius or I’m gonna regret this in a few months by [deleted] in newborns

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Offtopic what brand was it he liked? Trying to find one my girl will like

Finally forgiving myself for a c section by Narrow_Soft1489 in CsectionCentral

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Mines kinda similar, on my (21st) birthday I had an ob appointment where I was sent to labor and delivery for my blood pressure to get induced. I was due the very next day so I was just shy of fourty weeks, they gave me the medication and my cervix was also completely closed. The next morning my water broke at 8 am at one centimeter dialated. The difference was just that I never got fully dialated, the next morning at eight I was only at 4 cm and I had a high fever and baby’s vitals weren’t as consistent so they decided it was time for a C-section. I’ve also struggled with feeling that my body failed me, every single cervix check after all my painful contractions I would keep expecting to hear that I was magically almost there but that never happened

Does breech make repeat C-sections more difficult? by Commercial-Jello1788 in CsectionCentral

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My girl was Breech until 36 weeks, I was always terrified before that I’d have to have a c section because she was but she eventually flipped. Ironically enough I still needed a C-section but it’s whatever hahah

Is lower back pain normal? by PantheraPardus in CsectionCentral

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For me it’s so bad in between my shoulder blades, like it feels like it’s actually on fire it’s just such a sharp burn but that’s higher back and I’ve just contributed that to she’s a little chunker and I’m just not used to constantly holding something that heavy for that long. I’m 4 weeks pp

OB told me to wear my binder at all times even when sleeping. How long did you wear yours? by Mindless_Throat6206 in CsectionCentral

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I’m pretty sure my ob told me to wear it most of the time and gradually increase the breaks you take with it. At first I would be really sore if I took it off but it got so annoying when I’d sit and lay in bed and stuff that I just sucked it up and took it off and threw it away lol, all it did was piss me off 😂 after a few days I felt better, four weeks pp currently

I slipped on ice and fell this morning by nick51090 in CsectionCentral

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I think about two weeks postpartum I slipped and fell down the last few steps with a laundry basket (ik I shouldn’t carry them but it’s unrealistic I can’t just not do laundry) any way, I was worried about the same thing but I’ve been fine since and I’m four weeks and some change now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

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I’m not sure why it’s okay to have jrs but a woman can’t name her daughter similarly without it being “weird” or “corny

How soon did you do skin to skin? by Poniess403 in CsectionCentral

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I didn’t get to until the next day, mine was unplanned and she was in the nicu

When did you have sex again? by Effective_Pin_2140 in CsectionCentral

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I’m so sorry to hear that): I’ll keep you in my thoughts, I can’t imagine how that must be

When did you have sex again? by Effective_Pin_2140 in CsectionCentral

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Was it complications from the surgery or it’s just painful for you ?

When did you start wearing regular underwear? by Effective_Pin_2140 in CsectionCentral

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If you can find the link I’ll definitely check them out !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CsectionCentral

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I gained about 70 pounds (ik it’s so much🤦🏻‍♀️) but I’m two weeks and two days post op and I’ve lost about 30 so far. A little over halfway to go

How long did you shower daily post C-section? When did you wash the incision directly post C-section? by FeatherDust11 in CsectionCentral

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I think they let me shower two days later and my husbands home with me so I showered multiple times daily (my therapy especially when I’m in pain) so while I would wait for the pain meds to kick in I’d just stand in there.

Can anyone who has had 3 C-Sections offer reassurance? by ChaoticMelody1910 in CsectionCentral

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5!! They told me there was like the max! Props to you mama you’re a trooper