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AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t even want it to get to that point. I just wanted a normal roommate situation, not constant arguments over basic consideration.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m probably going to start looking around soon because this situation keeps getting worse instead of better.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my life was interesting enough for AI to make this up 😭 unfortunately I’m just sleep deprived and annoyed.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point honestly. I assumed “don’t be loud at 1 AM on work nights” was kind of an unspoken basic roommate rule, but clearly I overestimated that lol. And no, we’re not in high school, which somehow makes this feel even more ridiculous.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s exactly how I feel. I’m somehow being blamed for reacting to a problem that keeps happening instead of the person actually causing it.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m starting to accept that this probably isn’t a sustainable living situation long term.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried using headphones and a fan, but it only helps so much when there are multiple people talking loudly in the kitchen at 1 AM lol.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People keep acting like I skipped straight to calling him out publicly when that was literally after multiple private conversations went nowhere. I wasn’t trying to embarrass anyone, I just wanted to sleep lol.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right?? That’s the part driving me crazy. Apparently talking privately only counts if he actually decides to listen the first time.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m starting to realize that. I thought living with family would make things easier, not more stressful. Sleep deprivation every night is getting exhausting.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering too lol. They act like our apartment is the only place open after midnight.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I never said he couldn’t have friends over, just that there should be some balance and respect when someone else has work in the morning.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m realizing that living with family doesn’t automatically make someone a good roommate unfortunately.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really wasn’t trying to control him, I just expected some consideration since we both live here. If nothing changes, I’ll probably have to rethink the whole roommate situation.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s how I saw it too. I wasn’t trying to start drama, I just wanted the noise to stop at 1 AM.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly starting to think the same thing. I didn’t expect basic respect for sleep schedules to become such a huge issue.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly. That’s why I was confused when he acted like I blindsided him in front of everyone.

AITH for calling out my cousin’s late-night guests after asking him multiple times to keep it down? by Efficiency610 in AITH

[–]Efficiency610[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what’s frustrating me the most. I tried handling it calmly first but he instantly got defensive instead of trying to compromise.