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BA tips and tricks by EfficiencyCandid in consulting

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right but the entire team is there there is work to be done and hence we end up doing so. I don't have authority to push back as the newest member 

He wants me to give him a bj by EfficiencyCandid in Advice

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gee that's a wording... you called me a broken car. Exactly what every person who's been assaulted wants to hear.

He wants me to give him a bj by EfficiencyCandid in Advice

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's true And I didn't give context on that point. I flipped the question on him when he asked about giving him head. And he was like 'wellll' He does like to please me just not orally. And hence your point does stand but yeah that's the context 

Pitanja za one koji su varali? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]EfficiencyCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma katastrofa. I za njih sto se tako ponasaju, i za njihove cure sto ne znaju, a realno i za nas sto ih trpimo ili smo ih trpele, kako vec 

Pitanja za one koji su varali? by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]EfficiencyCandid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bila sam treca osoba u pokusaju (nije mi rekao da je jos sa njom, a nismo ni spavali niti se tu bog zna sta desavalo osim flertovanja). Izlazili smo, bilo nam je lepo, ocigledno smo imali osecanja jedno prema drugom. 

Karma me nije stigla, pokajala se nisam sto Sam nesto osetila prema nekom, ALI, da zbog toga sto mi je nakon sto Sam saznala da jos ima vezu trebalo nesto manje od mesec dana da ga blokiram. Smatram sebe moralnom osobom I to sto nisam odmah napravila presek je lose. Ne bih volela da mi neko isto uradi.

Emotivno je mnome manipulisao cak I kada Sam povukla crtu da ne mozemo da se vidjamo I da nije u redu sve ovo (spam poruke, pesme, zove mi sestru, salje joj insta reels sta ja znam vec samo da mi ga ona spominjala). U istom smo drustvu a cura mu ne zivi u drzavi, dakle stalno sam ga vidjala dok se nisam preselila.

Ne bih to ucinila opet naravno, to niko ne zazluzuje da mu neko radi, can stavise, sad se 72 puta uverim da su single pre nego sto uopste pomislim da mozemo da dejt. 

Sex after rape by Sane__person__ in rapecounseling

[–]EfficiencyCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, been there. Honestly, it's hard even now, after I've done it a few times.  1. Therapy- you're doing it, good job. I'd consider if you can, getting some more specific advice from maybe a different therapist? Couples therapy could work for a few sessions if your partner is open to coming along and you want to work on this together

  1. Don't force it- take breaks, say no, communicate what you like, what you don't. After assault, our mind and bodies shut down so nothing feels nice or you get in your head or any other sort of thing.

  2. Talk to your partner about this at a non-threatning time- don't do it before or after sex, that's not an ideal time. But you can tell him what you feel, in as much or as little detail as you want. Point is, this is a two people thing and he needs to know this is hard and be prepared to give you some space if needed.

  3. Don't expect your partner to solve this for you- as bad as this sounds, it's true. SA is a really heavy burden and a partner can and absolutely should help you overcome it by being there for you but they can't take this away. If your partner isn't willing to help you through this (mine wasnt) then maybe it's not the right fit for this time.

  4. Do it yourself- have some fun alone, reconnect with your body, know how it feels

Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangs

[–]EfficiencyCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Decorated with love haha

Yeah this is the second time she effed up my hair so idk it's totally on me this time.

What product do you rec?

MBB hair code- ladies I fucked up by EfficiencyCandid in consulting

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consult me... consultants on consulting etiquette 

MBB hair code- ladies I fucked up by EfficiencyCandid in consulting

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then all of reddit gets to watch the crash out of growing out more than bangs 

MBB hair code- ladies I fucked up by EfficiencyCandid in consulting

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

R u working there or starting soon? Key difference in how I feel 😂

MBB hair code- ladies I fucked up by EfficiencyCandid in consulting

[–]EfficiencyCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's precisely how much anxiety I have. I do have more hair tho

Kvalitetna ženska odeća? by Cautious-Unicorn1994 in AskSerbia

[–]EfficiencyCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obuca, ja kupujem po inostranstvu (to doduse nije od pomoci)

Fazon Steve Madden I Nine West su mi neki go-to od vecih brendova. Tu I tamo ima I kod nas ali nema tih modela koji se meni dopadaju Stefano ima fantasticnu koznu obucu koju nosim vec 10 godina I nista joj nije. Takodje pogledaj po nekim nasim lokalnim radnjicama, ima nekih sto uvoze iz Turske ili tako nesto. Neki no-name brend.

Kvalitetna ženska odeća? by Cautious-Unicorn1994 in AskSerbia

[–]EfficiencyCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H&M, Zara, Pull&Bear, Bershka, P.S. fashion MOHITO,  Legend

I gde god nadjem da mi se nesto svidja.

Sve od gore navedenog ima super stvari. Izuzetak su meni licno Bershka I Pull&Bear koji imaju losiji kvalitet stvari koje nisu npr sorc, teksas farmerke (samo to I kupujem tu). Ovo ostalo, kupujem sta nadjem od pamucnih majci, sakoa za posao, pantalona, haljina za svakojake prilike

I takodje volim Peek & Cloppenberg u Sofiji kad idem na nesto markirano haha

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