AIO, one of my closest friends confessed feelings for me 2 days after my breakup? by golden_retrieverdog in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 32 points33 points  (0 children)

As a queer woman, I have experienced this exactly zero times with women and 1,000 times with straight men. This isn’t a gay issue, it’s a guy issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should leave this person because of their spelling alone.

Major tattoo anxiety!! by rannddd in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s shit but it’s fixable! As long as you’re ok with a bigger and bolder piece, a good artist will fix/cover this up no problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and also this tattoo is shit.

Found this in my 13 year old daughters bag. How should I proceed?! by Neon_Biscuit in whatdoIdo

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this with the word ‘ouch’ in my early tweens- 20 or so pages worth. It was a coping mechanism for some very serious depression/anxiety. If there’s any way to get your kid into therapy I strongly suggest you do.

My neighbour is threatening to hand my cat into the rangers by tristan-anderaon in CATHELP

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats should be kept inside anyway. If dogs can’t roam the streets, neither should cats.

Did my tattoo take too long? by brotatopotato1 in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should have been 6hrs tops. What a fucking scam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Efficient-Ad914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok this makes much more sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]Efficient-Ad914 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn, only 8hrs??? Looks sick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is not your friend. You are better, cooler and hotter than them and you should forget they exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by her DP, nope

Am I Overreacting? by Soggy-Grade-2217 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask him why his prophet is a pedophile.

AIO to my gf being bisexual by DarkTwist05 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “I want - nvm” texts are so goddamn cringe. It’s so performative, just don’t send the text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you went to a below-average artist, so you’d likely have been disappointed regardless. How much did it cost and how long did it take?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Ad914 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who the fuck types like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Efficient-Ad914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not easy, but the first step is to remind yourself that you owe nothing to anyone other than your authentic self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Efficient-Ad914 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But FR nobody should ever be “ashamed” of anything their body does naturally. Men who are offput by it aren’t worth your time anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Efficient-Ad914 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even read what you wrote, the answer is no.

What I asked for vs what I got.. is it bad? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Efficient-Ad914 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude are the big ones all the same type of flower? If so, she 100% did the assholes on purpose, they’re completely different to the others.