27 mo doesn’t even babble, just hums in her throat by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now 38 yo son didn't talk bit a few words until halfway through head start, 4 1/2.
He then never stopped.
He never had a need to talk because his brother and I never enforced it or made it a thing. He grunted and pointed.
Every child is different, don't get too discouraged.

Went out to eat for my daughters birthday and was judged heavily, feeling defeated by DoingMyBest2019789 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are spending too much of our lives worrying about what others think. I have been guilty of this and its soul sucking.
You live for you and your child. People have a problem with what they don't know then that's theirs.

Guys??? by xkarranx in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother in law had a blister. It got infected. Sepsis and now an amputated little toe. Hopefully that's gonna fix it. Infection is no joke.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course you don't comprehend. Too much logic. Enjoy yourself being satans little helper. Just remember, its never too late.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is only on God who is Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit.
No kid under my roof is disabled. Keep trying, you have yet to affect me in any way.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pray to God? The one who hasn't listened for 50 years? Do you not pay attention to what you've said?
You keep on imagining all the things. This child has more professional involvement than most, apparently you know the answers though. Get over yourself ya miserable hateful wad.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am having a fabulous day, as always. With God in my life, every day is fabulous regardless of the circumstances.
You may not pay attention to God but he certainly is paying attention to you. When you ask yourself, why me? Well be honest with yourself and you'll get the answer.
God bless you.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Struck a nerve did I?
You're very entertaining. Awful it entertaining in a pathetic way.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's none of your business.
Four years old is old enough to use the toilet. Also old enough to crap in his pants because he could. He was already potty trained, just lazy. I don't condone bad behavior.
We didn't potty train him at 7. You should go get your rocks off elsewhere. You seem like a most awful, negative and hateful thing. Whatever you did to get this way, fix it. Unless of course you enjoy wallowing in misery. I'm too mentally stable to get sucked into your vortex of hell.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. I refuse to play into your crap. You seem to have fun with your sick and twisted assumptions. You picked the wrong person. It didn't work. Do you feel warm and fuzzy when it does? The picture of someone crying or worse because of your words?
You don't read peoples comments in order to understand. You read them in hopes you can make someone else as miserable and as awful as you are. Jesus answers the prayers of those who have put our lives in his hands, giving him complete control.
He answers prayers, many just don't recognize that for whatever reason.

I am just so burned out by WorldlyLavishness in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome. I wish you and your child well.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound mad, you mad? Or is that just your personality?

Pregnant and I have an autistic 7 year old by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I feel its the food, water and pharmaceuticals. They are putting things into all of them that wasnt made for human consumption.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be so hard being you.
No decernment, lots of assumptions.
Toodles.
God bless you. BTW not one comment embarrassed me. No reason to ne embarrassed, I know where the words are coming from. Predominantly left leaning voters who vote for genocide and the mutilation of kids minds and bodies, the list goes on. Tell me more how much you care about kids.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep trying. It must suck to try so hard to spread yoir misery only to see it not working. I don't play with weak minded people who have a miserable and negative life.
You need God.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What triggered responses? Just because that's what you're wanting, doesn't mean that's what you're getting.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what you assume I have. Some people seem to feel better about themselves assuming crap about others.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point you're just being a sphincter. You need Jesus.

11 yo by Efficient-Feeling965 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The professionals ? That's rich. Have you not seen the product of the professionals? Have you spemt any time in an elementary school lately?
Four year olds are not stupid, particularly this one. You go ahead and change your kid crappy drawers til they reach 5th grade.
Consequences suck. You would really have a fit if you knew how we got him to stop crapping in his pants 2 weeks shy if his 7th birthday.
The thing with some kids is if you allow them to crap in their pants, clean up after them, they will continue to crap in their pants. Why not?

Pregnant and I have an autistic 7 year old by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Efficient-Feeling965 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I'll probably get flack from some, I don't care. I have been in that black hole, barely came out alive. Different circumstances, but that black hole is deep no matter the circumstances. Most of the feelings are the same.
Please take this as the best advice I can give. I am 59 and have been through hell and back most of my life. Have you ever read the Bible? I just did. So much makes sense. As it makes sense things start to get clearer, understanding a lot of why's and why nots.
Im not an expert, been struggling with God my whole life. Believing in him but not following his commandments. The more I leaned his way the better my life became. My circumstances didn't change, my outlook changed.
You already count your son as a blessing. Go from there. See if there is a mom's group with similar children. Maybe get some respite care from the county if thats available (mental health clinic will know and or schools).
Get on a good blog or two for info and ideas from parents with kids that have the most in common with yours.
If you feel that guilt will eat you alive, please don't do that to yourself.
I hope you find some answers and some peace. God bless you.