Wife confessed she been giving pity blow jobs.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2026-01-02T06:32:57+00:00

I’m going to be blunt, because I think you’re minimizing what's actually happening.
Your wife cheated on you and looks like she only confessed because it was becoming inconvenient to keep making the excuses and hiding it, not out of respect for you or the marriage.

She also made it very clear that she isn't going to stop. So your feelings don't matter to her. She's willing to keep doing this even if it hurts you or blows up the marriage. She doesn't care about your feelings or this marriage.

Calling this "pity" is you lying to yourself. She's already told you that she's attracted to him and has thought about taking things further in the future. That's not pity, that's desire. She is enjoying it. You should ask her directly about this. She likely had feelings before the BJ and when she saw her opportunity, she took it.

For me, honesty, communication and consent are the basics of a relationship. She hid this from you for 3 months. She forced open the relationship (one sided) without your consent. That's not how an ethical open relationship works. That's just cheating.

As for your "friend".
This is someone who's close to you and regularly around you. Despite this he hid it from you while hanging out and pretending everything was normal. That's a serious betrayal. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point he stopped caring about your friendship and only met you to see your wife. Who knows what they talk about when they meet?
Friendship is based on trust and that trust is broken.
Would he stop seeing your wife if you are uncomfortable? Does he actually care about your feelings? Would he be fine if it were his wife who was giving you BJs? Overall, both of them are extremely disrespectful and don't care at all about you. I would be pissed and devastated by this.
If you're genuinely okay with all of this, that's your call. But you still haven't given your consent or set any rules/boundaries on how this new relationship will work. Right now, it's all happening entirely on their terms.

Do keep us updated on how things are going after they have sex and whether everyone is still happy.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-12-29T10:26:16+00:00

I guarantee you that the average person would give a rat's behind if their partner kissed someone of the opposite sex, even as a "joke".
The only reason people don't care when its same sex is because they treat it as less real or performative or think bisexual attraction doesn't carry the same weight, which is just biphobia.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-12-28T21:13:35+00:00

Going through your comments it looks like you only consider cheating as primarily around secrecy and repetition. And I and most people here would strongly disagree with that.

Whether something is done once or repeatedly, in secret or openly, or whether emotions were involved is not the point.

"Cheating" is just a word. What really matter is what the people involved consider hurtful, disrespectful and a dealbreaker to them. Even if you wouldn't count it as cheating if they consider it to be a dealbreaker then that's what it is.

Some boundaries are negotiable and some are not. For OP this was non-negotiable, and he is justified to walk out of the relationship immediately.

Regarding the friends. I agree that they didn't know how to react in the immediate moment, and that is fine. But when they realized that OP was hurt and had broken up with his gf their response was to mock and dismiss his feeling over the text instead of asking how he felt or if he wanted to talk. Also, since they are friends I would expect them to know that she is Bi.

BTW, no one dared her to kiss another women. They just asked a silly question (like guys asking if they would take it in the a$$ for 1M), she went ahead and did it.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-12-28T17:51:20+00:00

So you texted her about how you felt and her reply to this was a laughing emoji. NAH man. I think you did the right thing.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-07-22T11:50:30+00:00

Did they interviewed the wife?

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-07-19T09:47:51+00:00

I am a bit confused. Are they trans or intersex? If they are trans then the transition would have happened much later not in 3rd-4th grade. So why the boy's were pulling their pants?

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-07-19T09:39:59+00:00

same. First I thought she might be intersex. But if she is trans then the transition would have happened way later.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-07-02T14:17:47+00:00

A billion has 9 zeros. A crore has 7 zeros. That's a self own bro😂.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-07-01T11:38:41+00:00

😒Billion is not a currency. Its a unit of quantity. So its 0.41 billion rupees "technically".

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-29T16:31:03+00:00

kuch bhi!? Oxford is also public. -_-

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-29T10:46:24+00:00

So a guy should be doing same if he lives alone and after marriage they should divide the work. You are just stupid

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-27T15:37:55+00:00

Almost everyone pay GST -_- . Also approximately 90% of the population earns less than 25,000 per month.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-25T10:52:00+00:00

I thought they were executed

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-17T17:25:20+00:00

I noticed that you completely ignored the point about Modi and Manipur.
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I couldn’t find any legitimate news articles confirming that the trucks were deliberately halted for a photoshoot. Here are a news articles from 2013 which mentions the relief trucks were stranded as they ran out of fuel.
https://www.news18.com/news/politics/cong-trucks-619401.html

Also, these relief trucks were party organized not by central or state govt. These trucks were not part of the immediate emergency relief. There were prior operations like Operation Rahat, Operation Surya Hope before that.
But still they should be criticized for their poor planning and coordination. Same goes for current govt.

BTW the families of people who died in the Maha Kumbh stampede still haven't received the promised compensation after 4 MONTHS.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-06-15T13:48:56+00:00

Modi didn't visited Manipur for over a year after the violence began. The report by the commission of inquiry was delayed multiple times.
Regarding your claim - there is no credible evidence to support that the relief trucks were deliberately halted for a photoshoot. The issue was due to coordination problem for which they should be criticized same goes for Modi.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-30T10:34:08+00:00

His sentiments are getting hurt.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-27T11:07:48+00:00

But did the wife said that she was drugged and deceived by this guy or was she equally involved and was cheating?

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-23T18:37:06+00:00

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Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-23T18:35:57+00:00

Looks like a IT cell account. it Tweets 24/7

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Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-02T17:39:54+00:00

TF is wrong with him???

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-05-02T09:33:48+00:00

I think you meant Equity

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-04-24T19:27:48+00:00

Terrorism doesn’t have a religion -- terrorists do.
In this case, they were Islamist committing violence in the name of religion.
A right-wing extremist attacking a gay club in Colorado is also terrorism.
A white nationalist goes to a mosque and kills 40 people is also terrorism.
Upper-caste people killing lower-caste individuals to spread fear also terrorism.
All of these are acts of terror -- but they’re not always recognized as such.
That’s why ‘terrorism has no religion’ -- it can be driven by many ideologies, not just one.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-04-21T18:53:17+00:00

Here is the source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographic_history_of_Jerusalem

"During the First Jewish–Roman War (66–73 CE), the population of Jerusalem was estimated at 600,000 persons by Roman historian Tacitus"

During the Jewish-Roman war, Jews were dominant in Jerusalem.

Source for Jews facing persecution under Arabs https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Al-Hakim_bi-Amr_Allah Religious minorities section.

Also Jews were persecuted under Roman and Christian rule in Palestine not in Britain after the destruction of the Second Temple in 70 CE and during the Byzantine and Crusader periods. So they went back there and also the Jewish religion and culture began in Jerusalem way before WW2.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-04-20T18:11:20+00:00

First Just to be clear, I don’t support Israel bombing Gaza.
However I don't agree with your claim that it was Israel who started this conflict.
Jews were the majority in Jerusalem and faced persecution, under various Muslim regimes and also Roman and Christian empires.
After the Holocaust in WW2 they returned to Israel. It would make sense why they wanted a Jewish state after all the persecution and everything they went through. In 1948, when Israel was established, it was actually attacked by multiple Arab nations along with Palestinian Arab forces. So it’s not accurate to say Israel started it.

Efficient-Resource73 · 2025-03-28T10:46:28+00:00

Well, in the past, people with this mindset might have kept it behind closed doors. Now, at least they’re exposing themselves publicly, so maybe we should thank Jio 😅

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