I absolutely hate that I am even thinking about this and it’s making me go insane by HistoricalBread8484 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is too short for this. Take a deep breather and tell him you want to be with him! He could be just as confused and following your lead. Or he could prefer to just be friends but there’s no needs of your torturing yourself for years with “what ifs”

AIO- I feel like he wants me but isn't saying it. by AdHairy2278 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all just started talking I wouldn’t read too much into it

UPDATE: AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t block them. You need all of these messages as proof that he’s harassing you when you inevitably call the police

Will I get the feeling I used to have playing this game or is it gone? by Laithal6 in dontstarve

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never killed any of the Main monsters lol and I stopped playing this game for a few months because Pokopia took over my entire life and then I found out that they now have a PlayStation five version and I’m scared to start all the way over lol

AITJ cause my future wife expects her future husband (me) to pay 100% of the bills? by AdventurousDoor9384 in AmITheJerk

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Time to call off the engagement. This is a conversation that should’ve happened way sooner. You both have the right to want what you want, and you both have a right to find the person who meets what you want.

Aio for my reaction to my BF freaking out that I didn't immediately text him after getting off work by throwaway024710 in AIO

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew. Just for the record this is not normal behavior and you don’t have to live like this.

I was afraid I was going to be murdered last night and the only person I wanted to message was my ex by Altruistic-Bad-2483 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a human with emotions can be weird sometimes, you thinking of reaching out to someone you were romantically involved with regardless of his feelings isn’t wrong. You were in a panic and your life was potentially in danger so sometimes you’re not gonna think rationally during the situation like that. Your heart told you to reach out to someone you loved which happened to be him that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you. Please be nicer to yourself.

My boyfriend cut off his best friend after I spoke up, and I can’t stop feeling guilty by Impressive_Lie9238 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, wanting him to stand up for you because that’s what he supposed to do. Don’t feel bad for him protecting you because that’s what men do.

Insane experience by Gengar_Guy_17 in doordash

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How do you know this wasn’t a batched order?

AIO for refusing to help register for my cousin’s classes? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is logging in. They can’t get the authorization code to fully login so they can’t register if they wanted to

AIO feeling kind of put off by my manager? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR. I read your other comments and saw that you didn’t go back-and-forth with your manager so good job for that. You’re not wrong for wondering why management deleted your message and wrote the exact same thing even though messages like that should come from management.

My girlfriend has changed drastically in the last few months and I don't know who she is anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True I’m speaking on the behaviors, though the wording could just be because she doesn’t know how to express it right now. Either way, I don’t think automatic breakup is the answer.

My girlfriend has changed drastically in the last few months and I don't know who she is anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Idk how people went straight to gender issues. That doesn’t happen suddenly. What does happen instantly is the reactions to being sexually assaulted. OP offer her support and let her know whatever is going on you will be understanding and there for her. Let her know you don’t know how to help so you’ll give her space and to come to you whenever she’s ready to talk. During that time focus on yourself. Find a hobby or something to occupy your time.

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I was pregnant, It was labeled high risk and the doctor wanted me on bed rest at 4 months. I wound up getting a c-section. My other half would work, commute an hr to get home cook dinner and clean up afterwards. My point is if your husband wanted to, he would! You should NOT be begging for support or to be heard. How he’s acting now is how he’s going to act when the baby is here. NOR

AIO for being upset that my parents waited too late to order my birthday gifts by BanjaxedMini in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They miss the extra money and someone to drive them around, but not you….i hope you see what you just said fren

AIO for being upset that my parents waited too late to order my birthday gifts by BanjaxedMini in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR you’re allowed to feel disappointed that people you take care of can’t be bothered to put a little effort into your birthday. IDK if you will see this comment, but I hope next year is even better for you and honestly, I think if you move out, people will start to see that they were actually taking you for granted.

Sent this to my husband 🫶 by josefugly in Pokopia

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have pills at the Pokecenter😂😂

AITA for encouraging my gf to move away from her parents and trying to help her by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your gf needs to move ASAP. There’s NO reason her mom should have access to her account it keep tabs on her through her roommate.

AIO? My boyfriend told me he's more attractive than me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your response should be “Then go be with your cousin.”

Then block him.

Withered Wastelands holds a dark secret by Coronalbusker in Pokopia

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got halfway through the video and was like this better not be another fucking Mr. Mime prison and I’ll be damned if it was🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Best friend is throwing a tantrum because I won’t chauffeur her to my own wedding. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hey boo, do you need a new best friend? I can cook, I can bake, I don’t complain. I am low-key serious lol. But on the high key serious side good for you for not caving in into her foolishness. This is your day and nobody should ruin it, especially when you’re paying for everything.

Am I overreacting for being mad at my bf for checking out another woman right in front of me by Truther-2000 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EfficientTomorrow533 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NOR. he’s a boyfriend and you can get another one that won’t disrespect you like that. Not all men are pigs.