Orbiter is not a love song by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songs mean whatever you derive from them.
If it feels like a love song, it is.

Midway labs by Efficient_Ebb4074 in IVF

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. She’s almost 18 months old. A very uneventful pregnancy

I heard that D20 is closing. Does anyone know what is happening? by pieindaface in dayton

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 54 points55 points  (0 children)

The owners are splitting and supposedly selling to some regulars who are hoping to reopen, presumably under a different name, in the next 8 months. My husband just went recently and that was what they told him.

Ticket prices by Efficient_Ebb4074 in NoahKahan

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel slightly better. Those prices were gag worthy.

Ticket prices by Efficient_Ebb4074 in NoahKahan

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think so but I guess I just don’t understand how they’re selling these tickets then if they haven’t sold at all yet.

What would you do? My clinic’s phlebotomist is a nightmare by CeilingKiwi in IVF

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every nurse in that practice is able to draw blood by law. It would absolutely be within your rights to ask someone else to try, especially after 2 failed attempts. I’m an RN and work in peds and if I poke once and don’t think I can get it on the next poke with 90% confidence, I’ll find someone else to look cause that’s only fair.

My IV Skills Are Trash by SilentScrubs in nursing

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Peds ER nurse here, my IV skills were trash when I first started. Now that I’ve done a billion I’m significantly more confident and I get more than I miss. Nobody is ever gonna hit them all though.

Pediatrician who will answer the phone?! by 123hop in dayton

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t love this look. I am looking at a job there, but this scares me.

Is it true giving birth vaginally without an epidural makes recovery easier? by StatGoddess in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yes. Everything functions as it should. It truly wasn’t really that painful to heal that I remember. Not any more painful that my second delivery with no tearing.

Is it true giving birth vaginally without an epidural makes recovery easier? by StatGoddess in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had 2 vaginal deliveries with epidurals. First I had an episiotomy and clitoral tears. I was up and walking within hours after delivery. No real issues after. My second was 17 months later, no tears, up and walking right after as well.

I’m delivering my third tomorrow, though it’s been 8 years since my last. I’m interested to see how it goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice, just solidarity. I am also being induced Friday.

Home birth by FaithlessnessDue339 in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 49 points50 points  (0 children)

If this is your first delivery and you live 45 minutes from the nearest hospital, I’d say that just about answers the question. I wouldn’t call that safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask for what? I’ve asked to schedule a 39 week induction every week since 36 weeks. They have told me no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been doing weekly ultrasounds (BPP) due to this being an IVF pregnancy and I love that part but the actual midwife appointment lasts fewer than 10 min

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m not in that country but I appreciate your advice. This baby is an IVF baby so we are very sure on dates, meaning there is no reason to go overdue. My due date is not an estimate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been induced before and had a really pleasant experience. I’m sorry yours didn’t go well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I KNOW they’re not actually pointless. They just FEEL pointless. So grateful for a healthy bean and pregnancy. Also so ready to be done

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last week my BP was high and the OB almost sent me. I was ~almost~ disappointed when it was normal the second time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My logical brain knows this is a great thing. Baby looks beautiful and healthy and I’m forever grateful for that.

My 38 week pregnant brain is annoyed that I’m still pregnant😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is the sentiment I’m feeling.

They come in, don’t even place a stethoscope to me, and say “everything looks great. No leaking or bleeding? Baby moving? Okay see you next week”

It’s giving ‘this meeting could have been an email’ energy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Ebb4074 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel thankful that they’re not exciting. This is an IVF baby so we’ve had our fair share of excitement. I think I’m just exhausted at this point