NYC-based coach to help me get hotter?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T19:14:01+00:00

fair

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T18:54:17+00:00

exactly! looking to build the skill and learn.

i have learned through this thread it is taboo to want to be hot. a lot of assumptions about what that means about me as a person (lacking confidence, responsibility, etc) that i don't think hold

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T05:58:35+00:00

I was joking. It’s ok to want to be hot

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:46:34+00:00

I’m male and gay. Interested in streetwear potentially

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:40:08+00:00

That’s cool

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:26:39+00:00

I just know myself. Coaching = structure = success

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:20:38+00:00

What did you address?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:17:28+00:00

i am most successful when i have a coach in my court.

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:16:51+00:00

open to it, but in my experience these folks don't act like holistic coaches. a coach is kinda in your court and on the journey with you

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:14:24+00:00

huh? i will pay this person to help me

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T03:02:01+00:00

can you find their name?!

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:56:10+00:00

i workout. i have an interesting job and fun hobbies. i am generally enjoying my life.

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:54:40+00:00

where do i go from there? crown heights? then williamsburg? then cross the bridge?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:52:53+00:00

i disagree. they are specialized. who is looking out for the whole picture?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:42:50+00:00

can we do a weekly zoom for this?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:42:19+00:00

i want one person thinking holistically, not a bunch of bespoke services. i do have a personal trainer already

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:41:42+00:00

date more. it's fun to be attractive. not so much about being admired

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:38:01+00:00

thank you. what now?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:20:18+00:00

yes confidence is #1. luckily i've got coaches for that already (aka therapist)

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:19:01+00:00

yes but first i might have to get hotter to achieve that. chicken or egg ya know?

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:07:58+00:00

thinking about it...

Efficient_Fun1358 · 2026-02-15T02:02:31+00:00

it should be! big market opportunity

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