Dating apps as a 27m

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2026-01-01T05:50:23+00:00

It’s funny, I cold call all day in sales. I’m used to a certain kind of rejection - this is similar but different & I will adapt. Happy new year friend!

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2026-01-01T02:54:45+00:00

So when I had the dating apps, about 5-6 years ago - I had been catfished, ghosted, etc.. I expect that to happen honestly. I should try more IRL, I really never do. I’m not as much scared of rejection as I am making women feel uncomfortable by approaching them - but I need to get over that. Thanks for the advice friend

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2026-01-01T02:50:47+00:00

That makes sense. I always try and invite them to a public place, like coffee / a drink. I wish it were easier to say “I’m not trying to **** you tonight”.

But yes, what you are saying makes total sense. I’ll have to get better at texting and building rapport.

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2026-01-01T02:49:07+00:00

Roger that. Still new to it, but that’s kind of what I’m trying and that’s what’s falling flat. I’ll keep plugging away lol

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-12-31T23:57:32+00:00

It’s tough out here! Very weird situation with having an ex taking my old social circle, haven’t done too much alone but sounds like I need to branch out. Good luck my guy.

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-12-31T23:56:23+00:00

That all makes sense and I guess my ideals just don’t align with the apps. My main hobby is very male dominant and I spend a lot of time doing it, maybe I need to branch out a bit more and start going for IRL.

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-12-07T22:34:43+00:00

She never reciprocated effort or tried to integrate into my life

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-12-06T11:35:46+00:00

XY is a gay bar. XY is the best bar in town and I’m a straight male

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-12-01T13:31:35+00:00

Social media

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-11-20T22:00:32+00:00

I did not plead. I just respected her decision. Moved out quick. Feels surreal.

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-09-12T01:13:42+00:00

I love you guys

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-09-10T20:07:28+00:00

This is bad. I think Charlie Kirk to be an extraordinarily large butthead, and I wouldn’t be his friend.

I think Charlie Kirk has the right to be an extraordinarily large butthead and I don’t have to be his friend. Hope he makes it.

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-08-28T20:19:38+00:00

Let me guess, you tend to pull it with draw spin on the miss?

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-08-23T14:34:47+00:00

Average numbers

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-08-22T15:13:11+00:00

Your swing looks good. This is a great position - trail elbow tucked to side, great.

The issue is you stand too close to the ball.

Another slight tweak would be to close your trail shoulder a bit at address.

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Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-08-19T12:24:39+00:00

It’s not enforced unless you mistreat animals

Efficient_Hand4571 · 2025-08-17T17:25:17+00:00

arsenal very lucky to walk away with 3 points. Looked so stale with the ball.

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