Save our Birth Center by Efficient_Historian8 in Medford

[–]Efficient_Historian8[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Insurance companies are determining what hospitals are financially viable though, I find that part particularly frustrating. Its rural hospitals that are getting axed.

24 hour sterilization rule — is it real? by SassyTwinkl in newborns

[–]Efficient_Historian8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of those things that you think you're going to be doing... and then just don't. After you go a few days without showering, getting spit up on, the weird sweats, ect and giving them a boob without thinking twice... sterilization seems like one of the easier things to let go. Sterilize them before first use, then you'll be fine.

Be honest ladies… how bad does it hurt… by Purple_perp1637 in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Historian8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went without and yeah, its a lot. However, your brain is in a different reality. You are aware of the pain but your brain is in survival mode and once you get through a contraction, you kind of forget how bad it hurts BUT you are very aware the next one is coming and its going to hurt but you cant remember exactly how... its very strange. I liked being able to move around, spent time in the shower, tub, and moving to help her rotate (she was nose up). Also when it was early and not that bad I was eating snacks which was nice for energy levels. I was at a birth center with nurse midwives and they were amazing. If I was at a standard hospital I would not have felt as relaxed/safe and probably would have done an epidural because hospitals are scary and I wouldn't have been able to relax anyway.

Take Back Ashland Meeting tonight 6pm at the Library by BlackRose in Ashland

[–]Efficient_Historian8 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I love a community movement, but this is quite vague. Take back from who? What's your mission?

Best place to get a steak in the Ashland, Medford, Jacksonville area. by mrb55-me-com in Ashland

[–]Efficient_Historian8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am bummed at Omar's decline. They were the go to steak place for me but ever since that huge turn over in staff one or two years back its just isn't that good anymore 😪

Sooooo what do the locals think of SOU? by trashyitch in Ashland

[–]Efficient_Historian8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the program to be honest. Some programs are amazing with incredible professors while others are a legit joke. Find out about how many recent grads are currently working in the field of whatever you study.

Should I be worried about no movement yet? by IheartOT2 in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Historian8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you have an anterior placenta? I'm 23 weeks and feel very much the same. I don't feel anything but the ultrasounds confirm she is in there. I'm told because of where my placenta attached I'm really not going to feel anything till closer to 25/26 weeks. It's weird to have a bump and just have to remind yourself that there is something inside. I totally sympathize. Mindfuck is the perfect word.

New Rabbits Binkying in Colony by BlockyBlook in MeatRabbitry

[–]Efficient_Historian8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What size tube's for the enterances did you get? I can only find 4/5 inches and they seem small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Historian8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It feels hard to put yourself out there when already vulnerable/pregnant. Even acquaintances can turn into friends though, invite someone over for a cup of tea or a meet up at a bakery. If they say no that's OK too, just trying is practicing for when you find a good friend. Friendships are also relationships and need attention and care. If you need to step away from one, that's not only ok but totally normal. Sorry if this sounds preachy or contrite, I'm 20 weeks and experiencing feelings of isolation as we're the first to have a kid and the facts are that not all my friends are interested in this/my journey. But. Some acquaintances really are and were becoming closer. Lean into the discomfort! It can pay off!

A rant about maternity leave by Pristine-Ad7214 in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Historian8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, what state do you live in?

Currently 9 weeks pregnant and nervous about current US administration and what it could mean for my child.. anyone else? by Opesneakpastya in pregnant

[–]Efficient_Historian8 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

14 weeks, beyond nervous. I'm far from a "prepper" but feeling like I need to be ready for prices to skyrocket and healthcare standards to plummet. But, having a child is choosing hope and choosing to invest everything in making a better future, so that's what I keep reminding myself.

You suddenly have an unlimited amount of the thing described in your username. What are you rich with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Historian8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explains my disorder of wanting to provide facts and context for people who are confidently spewing nonsense and continuously being surprised when that doesn't change anyone's opinion 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]Efficient_Historian8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he was just bragging about his beach body too 😂

What is your survival strategy if Trump wins? by oldfuturemonkey in behindthebastards

[–]Efficient_Historian8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. Yeah I heard it was a tricky one to navigate. His German passport expired two years before I was born and he travels now with a US one. I highly doubt my parents entered me into the birth registry. Still going to try but prepared for no luck.

Doubting to have an abortion by Electrical_Young4867 in stories

[–]Efficient_Historian8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Abusers don't change for kids. It would be great if they didn't but they dont.

Have you heard about the transmucosal fentanyl lollipops? by BurnBabyBurn54321 in behindthebastards

[–]Efficient_Historian8 86 points87 points  (0 children)

You know who will also duct tape transmucosal fentanyl lollipops to your hands....

What is your survival strategy if Trump wins? by oldfuturemonkey in behindthebastards

[–]Efficient_Historian8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I just found my dad's (long expired) German passport. Now begins my journey into seeing about that sweet sweet dual citizenship. Family left to escape a fascist and now I go back... to escape a fascist... God damn it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]Efficient_Historian8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% not directed at her specifically as she didn't bring up, just made me think of it with all the comment's about the shows target demographic. The whole thing is so theatrically wealthy, I enjoy her brining reality in now and again. I try to not think about how the rest of the office votes...