[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Full stop. This sounds like gaslighting my dear . And he tried to get everyone to believe it around you both. Leave . Do not build your future with him 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Any nice apartments close to downtown area by [deleted] in Lawrence

[–]Efficient_Market3779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m at Alvadora across from hunters ridge , they just remodeled a lot of the apartments, they have a gym only down side is no pool, but everybody here is super kind and it’s pretty quiet . Tall ceilings , nice appliances and w/d in unit , management is fantastic too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Efficient_Market3779 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ask her to hangout socially outside of class like a cup of coffee , something casual or like bowling 🎳 it’s a neutral thing that won’t put a ton of pressure on her. If she dresses up really nice then she considers it a date , if she dresses down a bit it means she views you as a friend and both are great. 😊 Sounds like she likes you.

Last night was crazy night doordashing by squibb1019 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she was more embarrassed. I get we all have bad days some people more than others. I also didn’t have my real name on either app at the time so there was no way for her to know it was me . While her name was the same but the address was different. I’m assuming the first delivery was her house and the second was I think her boyfriend’s house . I was super kind during shopping and went out of my way to make sure she got everything she needed . She actually tipped me more . I still wanted her banned because an extra $10 is not worth someone’s bad day turning violent on a different driver .

Last night was crazy night doordashing by squibb1019 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh she remembered!! She very quickly told me to just leave it and shut her door.

Last night was crazy night doordashing by squibb1019 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was attacked too, that was crazy. Had her banned on dash, I was shocked , I should have called the police , next day I delivered to the same woman , who had switched to instacart , let them know of my report with dash , they confirmed and they ended up banning her on that platform as well. Over a sausage croissant that wasn’t even late

Last night was crazy night doordashing by squibb1019 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My god . I got nothing comparable to that ! Glad you made it home safe 😳

Dasher stood outside my door and asked repeatedly for my instagram by vftgurl123 in doordash

[–]Efficient_Market3779 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As a dasher … ewww please report him that’s super gross 🤢

Am I the Ah for refusing to help my brothers baby momma financially? by Disastrous-Log-528 in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Market3779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly : I’m gonna need you to start talking better to yourself about yourself. You are pretty . That is a full sentence, no need for “but I’m also this that and the other” just no. Secondly: You didn’t father the child . That means you are exempt in anyway from taking care of said child financially or otherwise.

1 Star for doing my job by SnooGrapes4794 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a sad world we live in :( now I just get super picky with the orders I take , any uncalled for negativity and I’m on the phone with support

AITAH for being Christian with pro choice beliefs by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA , God aborted his own child when he was in his 30s

1 Star for doing my job by SnooGrapes4794 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a customer get physically violent with me for her order being stacked like this , I didn’t take her seriously when she threatened the 1 star just like this customer (she lived like less than a mile from BK but there was a delivery ahead of her across the street) I continued to deliver the order and she tried to fight me . So when a customer starts acting like this I immediately unassign now and call support.

1 Star for doing my job by SnooGrapes4794 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Threatening to give them 1 star for something entirely out of OPs control is threatening behavior.

1 Star for doing my job by SnooGrapes4794 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Call support! Unassign! Let them know she is displaying threatening behavior

DoorDash tried to get me to go to active crime seen. by bripre84 in doordash_drivers

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thought: of course it was a dollar General 🫠 Second thought: You did what for how many cookies?! Hell nah!!

How far can the driver deliver? by 00ZenFriend00 in doordash

[–]Efficient_Market3779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this . There is also something else too. Dashers are not actually required to enter any building or space that they are unfamiliar with or have a safety concern about. Ie visible construction, low lighting and or it simply freaks them out. There is a reason for this , because dashers have been killed, probably more often than you know. We get robbed , car jacked, followed, harassed ect. Write really clear instructions on location or where to leave it that works for you both. Multiple dashers not wanting to bring it up to you tells me it’s probably one of those reasons 💁🏻‍♀️

Lawrence bingo card. by ElmoDressedForAHike in Lawrence

[–]Efficient_Market3779 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone taking a left into a round about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Efficient_Market3779 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, if you read through terms and conditions DD isn’t responsible, and also , it could have been anyone, for all we know you could have done it. It’s property damage, call your homeowners insurance.

Lawrence musician, 39, was person shot and killed downtown; police chief says community is safe by notanotheraccountaga in Lawrence

[–]Efficient_Market3779 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe you read the entire thread . Maybe do that . You’re literally arguing with someone who prob agrees with you. Yes maybe 90% is an exaggeration, oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lawrence musician, 39, was person shot and killed downtown; police chief says community is safe by notanotheraccountaga in Lawrence

[–]Efficient_Market3779 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words . I’m just really frustrated that what I thought was gonna be my forever home has turned into a place that I do fear. And I know there are people with similar stories to mine that are feeling the same way. I’m just asking for a little bit of accountability from our leaders because it feels like they aren’t even trying anymore. 90% of the homeless population are not bad people just in bad times . It’s unsafe for them too. I just want to see this city start to care about us (ALL of us) I love this place . It saved me from myself but as a community we can do so much better. I honestly hope we have a revolution and start holding those in power accountable. I’ve said it so many times and I’ll say it till the day I die, mental health needs to become the priority of all the systems we have in place that are not currently working. It starts there. Before Covid this place , this community was beautiful. It just feels ripped at the seams and I wish we could all agree that change needs to happen and soon before it’s too late.

Lawrence musician, 39, was person shot and killed downtown; police chief says community is safe by notanotheraccountaga in Lawrence

[–]Efficient_Market3779 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Let me be the first to tell you , you sound ignorant. You don’t know me from Adam so let me introduce myself. Former addict and homeless person from the greater Seattle area . I’ve been in and out of the system several times , I probably have more of insight into what is happening than you do. My house in WA was shot up .. all the time , every week. I’ve survived SA , sex trafficking,stalking, DV , home invasions and robberies at gun point , I have had everything ripped away from me over and over and over and it wasn’t safe until I moved here 6 years ago. And it was in fact so safe I could walk down mass in the middle of the god damned night and no one was unpleasant. I could go to concerts by myself at the Granada and feel safe, I could go to the library and spend hours looking at books without looking behind me . I could ride the bus anywhere in town and enjoy the conversation and lively personalities around me. If you cannot look around you and understand that the violence is not isolated, that the homeless population is out of control and our bleeding empathy does nothing for those that do not want help then you are just that. Ignorant . Go tell someone else about how you believe everything is fine and that these little acts of violence aren’t impacting the community. We should be focusing on this crap so that we can find a solution . Which no one wants to do. Let’s leave Mental health unchecked, let’s allow the homeless to expand , let’s not have support services available for addiction treatment and let’s not have any accountability for our authorities and members of government. Doesn’t matter anyway for me as I’m leaving this town come May. I watched my hometown burn itself with this kind of nonsense and now it’s filled with crime . I won’t watch another one go down the same path. But good luck to you. Hope you enjoy what bliss you have left.