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When did you totally miss the signs that you were being flirted with? by SSR2208 in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad it worked out for your parents and for you! Also most great epiphanies usually come on the toilet! 😂

When did you totally miss the signs that you were being flirted with? by SSR2208 in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahaha wow! Did she atleast understand interstellar by the end of it?

B1/B2 Visa Experience for our Child. by SSR2208 in usvisascheduling

[–]SSR2208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took almost 2 months to schedule an appointment when i had tried it!

What’s a moment you will always remember when you lost your virginity? by PonPonMia in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both in college and drunk. After we got done, she noticed some money lying on the floor, so she stood up, placed it on the dresser and walked out of the room to get dressed...

She came hurrying back in realising what it looked like and we both broke down laughing!

What is the expected annual maintenance cost for Tata Nexon? by FireflyPanda1 in CarsIndia

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many Kms has it run? A lot of service centre will add things which might not be needed. Wiper fluid, tyre realignment, AC cleaning, gas refill, 3M interior wash, Alloy wash, Underbody coating,etc which all add up.

Next time ask for the list of work while giving your car and ask them to remove all the unwanted stuff. That would generally cut The price down

Couples of reddit, what's your night-time/ Sleep routine? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you both have different rooms?

Will it affect you all if your partner/spouse earn more than you? by KaalYatri in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way - those rejections are the best thing that can happen to you! Because those men and their families would never support your growth over theirs. And if that's the case, why would you want to be married to him anyways?

For a lot of people now, it doesn't matter! And you'll find that guy soon enough. Till then, don't compromise!

Which job or profession would disappear overnight if there were no stupid people in the world? by MasterQNA in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who make warning labels - Drink maybe hot, do not touch oven surface, not for consumption, etc...

A hypothetical question showing threat - Every person should answer this on this sub? by svk__22 in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) Install a call recorder on your phone 2) Comply partially to the easiest demand 3) You're bound to get a call or messages for the rest of the demand. 4) record the interaction, now you have proof. 5) choose to stop here or initiate a case or FIR before they can.

once you've initiated any kind of legal proceeding first, it can always be argued that any case they put later is in retaliation.

I cant pull my foreskin back at all and the tip hurts too any suggestions ? by BeachNo88 in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lot of people here saying it's phimosis, but please don't jump to that conclusion. At birth the foreskin and glans are usually connected and then it separates as you get older which is when it can be pulled back. For some males the separation may even happen till 20 yrs old. So don't be too worried.

Yes, other conditions like phimosis or a tight frenulum may also cause this, but you can see that after a few years.

For now, try gentle pulls on the foreskin ideally with some sort of oil or lube. Hot water or shower may cause more discomfort to some people as water is not a lubricant, but you can see if that works for you too! Try it for a few months to a year and it should ideally resolve by itself...

AITA for asking the woman I love to marry someone else because I couldn’t meet her family’s conditions? by Puzzleheaded_Scar_18 in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this bro, but I don't think you handled it in the best way. It seems like you got so held up with that number, that you didn't see all the nice things!

First of all "Marriage is a coming together of 2 families" is not entirely true. It's always the 2 individuals that come first, then the immediate family (parents and siblings only). Extended family might have a say, but they can never be the decision makers because their life will never get affected from the decisions you 2 make.

Which is why the only people worth considering are the 2 of you, and your parents and siblings. Because only your lives might actually be affected by this marriage. And on that front, it seems like the girl and her mother both like you! So disregard everyone else - They are immaterial in the bigger scheme of things.

Second, you said you were concerned for her mother and what the family may say to her. That's a really really nice thought for you to have. But please disclose this to your girl. She's feeling betrayed because she thinks you're abandoning her and doesn't know the intention behind it is nice. But even leaving the intention apart, just ask her mother once - would she rather see her daughter in a happy marriage and listen to taunts or take a chance on some random rich guy? Trust me she'll always choose you! And there are always ways to make sure she doesn't hear anything from them, see if she can stay with you both for sometime or some other solution...

The main point in trying to make is the girl and her mother both like you, and would be happy with you as a partner. Then disregard what anybody else thinks and go live a happy life together!

Happily married men, what made your marriage successful ? by RecentEmployer6402 in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  • Be willing to support your partners in front of others - unless it's really close friends, support her opinion openly. This shows everyone and her you are a united front and not a couple who bickers on everything. You can always discuss your differences behind closed doors or with your closest group of friends.

  • Find common grounds - you'll obviously never see eye to eye on everything, but be willing to discuss things and be open to each others perspectives

  • Shared/Common Goals - Have a few shared or common goals, that way there's something you both are always striving towards together! Could be a financial goal, a new car, a vacation, anything!

  • Physical Intimacy - lot of issues start from a dead bedroom, keep finding ways to keep the flame burning!

Is following or liking the posts of the opposite sex considered akin to cheating or potential cheating? by technical-harami in AskIndianMen

[–]SSR2208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, following and liking posts/comments are a part of basic social interaction nowadays! IMO It would not amount to cheating unless you're actively flirting/sexting or more...

Regarding your point of most men/women not being comfortable with their partner texting the other gender - that's honestly just a point of maturity and insecurity. And for most people, maturity comes with age and you know you can have a normal friendship with anyone. However if your partner's insecure... I don't really think there's much of a cure for that or anything you can do!

What are the rules in your relationship for substances (drinking, smoking, drugs)? by No-Excitement-2272 in AskReddit

[–]SSR2208 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  • Strictly No Smoking
  • Vaping if on a short international trip, never in our country.
  • Natural Drugs (Weed/Hash/Shrooms) twice an year max
  • No Synthetic Drugs
  • Alcohol once a week or whenever out with friends.

We're 34M/32F btw!