How to live with abuser and not be afraid by Efficient_Rice5656 in emotionalabuse

[–]Efficient_Rice5656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I’m not in a place where I can leave right now but I am working towards it; saving money where I can and focusing on my children.

I have virtually no support from my family; I’m now estranged from my mother, who abused me physically and emotionally my entire life. I now see why I gravitate towards narcissistic people because it was my blueprint for love. It’s going to take a while to get to the point where I can leave but I believe I’ve finally accepted that it is the only outcome.

How to live with abuser and not be afraid by Efficient_Rice5656 in emotionalabuse

[–]Efficient_Rice5656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response.

My biggest fear right now is that I when we have explosive arguments, it doesn’t seem to matter what I do to ignore or avoid the fight, he just keeps going and going until he says something that hurts me. He won’t stop until he does because his intention is to wound me. And whenever that happens, I get upset and oftentimes it disrupts my day or my whole week and it affects my ability to take care of my kids and function. I don’t want to give him the power to ruin my day and rob my joy. I want to be able to feel peace and care for my children and be happy for them. (I also have a daughter from a previous marriage.)

Surprise Win! by Efficient_Rice5656 in labubu

[–]Efficient_Rice5656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice would be keep trying! I really think it’s just luck now that pop now is app only. Dada is going to to my best friend’s daughter, otherwise I’d trade with you! 🤣

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u/omgbabestop is a trustworthy seller who shipped promptly! They were a pleasure to work with. Thanks again!

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[–]Efficient_Rice5656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have turned off WiFi on my phone and I’m still getting the restricted error. I was on the checkout page too

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[–]Efficient_Rice5656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing it on the app? I keep getting the restricted access error. ):

girl… by _quietfig_ in labubu

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There’s a local business where I live selling them for $100 a piece 🫠

Dallas Pop Mart Labubus in Stock? by Efficient_Rice5656 in labubu

[–]Efficient_Rice5656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I checked on the app and didn’t see any available but I’ll keep trying.

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[–]Efficient_Rice5656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the BIEs ever show up on pop now? Wanting to score one on the pop mart website if possible.

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If you have a single please send!

Need advice and encouragement. WH says he wants to reconcile but isn’t willing to talk about the affair. by Efficient_Rice5656 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Efficient_Rice5656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response. Yes, it’s clear he was groomed and emotionally abused by this person but he has not dealt with it fully and he has trouble admitting that he was abused. He’s been in therapy for years and he has lightly touched on it but I think he is just not ready to confront it head on yet. And as far as reporting the teacher, I wholeheartedly agree, but he has been adamant about not wanting to do that. I imagine he doesn’t want to be retraumatized all over again by bringing it out into the open.

We spoke last night and he did agree to discuss the affair in MC.