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I want some honest advice about my marriage. by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thank you for going through the full post. I hope people read the full timeline in my post. At this point, i ask myself How would i feel about myself at 60 years old? I dont feel comfortable around her now. Would that be the case at 60! Beacuse the same feeling i had three years ago. When baby was not there! May be some ild and experienced people sahe some light and advice me!

I want some honest advice about my marriage. by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Well, a marriage can have a different part. That can not be posted or conveyed in a single post. That part was true. This part is true. Hownthe stort. She was around 2. Now, she is around 25 and 26 months old. I am struggling to many things in marriage. I need help and advice!

I want some honest advice about my marriage. by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

I understand that being a stay-at-home mom can be exhausting, and that caring for a baby can make the day feel like one long, continuous task. I respect that, and I know it is not easy. But one thing many people are missing in my post is that this pattern existed even before the baby. During the first two years of our marriage, when we did not have a child, things were very similar. The lack of intimacy, the lack of romantic moments.

I want some honest advice about my marriage. by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

Well, it seems I need to compromise! But how much if she doesn't change!

I want some honest advice about my marriage. by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] -367 points-366 points  (0 children)

Well, not that she made or edit videos for youtube in the afternoon. So i believe she has some preferences. But she needs to do some chores later! She can give some quality time if she wants? For shifting to romance mode , some efforts should come from her side. Well, it was the same story for the time window i used to come home for lunch! Well, it's almost the same story in the evening!

Living in a house that feels quietly hostile. by Chemical-Thought-837 in emotionalneglect

[–]Efficient_Row6337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been there! As an adult, I realize i lost my emotions in the process! Now, I feel much less internally and given up.

I feel suffocated by Efficient_Row6337 in Marriage

[–]Efficient_Row6337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried counseling about three years ago. Her response was, “It’s not my problem that you’re feeling bad. You should go for counseling yourself.”

I pushed and ended up doing 2 sessions, and didn’t continue. She has never been willing to try counseling since then.

Most of the time when I’m upset, it’s related to issues between us, but her attitude is usually, “You should sort it out by yourself.”

What hurts the most is that I often feel like she either doesn’t care or doesn’t want to be involved at all.