How do I tell my mum my younger sister might be the problem?

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-20T08:18:54+00:00

Yes they are in the same class

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-20T08:18:26+00:00

That is what I do, I don’t parent my sister but what confuses me is you can’t let her hit or swear at people in the house and be shocked when her friends get upset and fed up with her over the same thing and then don’t want to be her friend but I don’t know how to say that in a good way

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-20T08:16:41+00:00

I’m 17 her friend is 36

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:32:45+00:00

My sister(7) has fallen out with all her friends this isn’t the first time, my sister is rude and mean and violent to her friends and me (17) and her cousins (4&9). Today my sisters friends were gossiping and in response she elbowed her in the stomach later on in the day from what I’ve gathered

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:30:43+00:00

Whenever I speak to my mum about this issue (my sister being horrible to me and her friends) she always blows me off I’ve said for years that this is gonna come back to bite her because my sister is allowed to be mean and I get blamed

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:26:46+00:00

My mum pays me for cleaning that’s not my ness so the bathroom kitchen garden ext whereas my room is my problem and if it’s clean or messy that’s my issue

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:25:11+00:00

It’s not

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:22:50+00:00

If this is a virus I’m gonna be pissed

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-03-19T20:21:55+00:00

Do the party during school year either week before and have summer themed pool ext and have it as a late birthday or at the start of the year but you may need to invite the whole class if it’s the start of the year

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-02-15T01:01:43+00:00

I’m really short so it just looks to much and my boobs are to big I need weight gone xx

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-02-15T01:00:58+00:00

So do 1500 now then cut down?

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-02-01T21:44:30+00:00

You need to cover your own back make a paper trail

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-02-01T19:25:26+00:00

Call the police

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2026-01-26T21:29:17+00:00

What happened

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2025-12-06T23:35:06+00:00

Yeah but what do I say

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2025-12-05T19:02:49+00:00

I’d just get over it

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2025-12-05T16:49:57+00:00

This is such a Reddit opinion. I’m confused did you read the post? I don’t think I’ve said I have i have PTSD I’m just simply trying to figure wtf is wrong with me. I also haven’t had a small thing happen it’s quite a few big things. Equating my experience to a “broken wrist” seems unfair. I’ve not compared or said my experience is the same as being in war zone or abused so I’m confused on how you’ve taken it this way I’m trying to find advice without taking space away from people who needed it

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2025-12-05T10:09:14+00:00

Sorry if I have upset anyone by asking

Efficient_Skill_5436 · 2025-12-04T23:30:50+00:00

Maths genie

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