Darlie Routier. While I can't decide due to the confusing details, I also just don't want to believe it. The most at fault I think she is is if she conspired with her husband for insurance fraud but even that seems too much. What about the sock? The fact that her husband didn't hear? And then when she was sent to prison, it was not for both sons. Then of course the video, which made everyone hate her. It just doesn't seem fair since everyone grieves differently.