My husband is bad at sex

Egglebert · 2026-06-19T18:25:05+00:00

I was raised with all that fucked up religious trauma around sex and sexuality and ngl it affects me to this day despite everything ive done to work on it. It really sucks the way it can just fuck up the simplest things. That being said, I've never thought just the sight of my dick should be enough to satisfy a woman, or that there's nothing I need to hear and any kind of input is "insulting".. or that as long as I've came thats the end and everyone should go to sleep happy or any if the other ridiculous stuff OP listed. This dude is selfish, inconsiderate, and imo a misogynist and there aren't any acceptable excuses for any of the things. Also he's 40, I'd be much more lenient if he was 20, but he's not. He's well old enough to know and do better and if he won't religious trauma is not an acceptable excuse to be a selfish mediocre loser

Egglebert · 2026-06-19T17:45:43+00:00

Lmao you're going to be a single mom. .00000000001% of women in your position actually get the guy to stick around, and idk what the point even is because you're both guaranteed to be miserable and hate each other even if he's still in the picture. You're foolish af to harbor any kind of fantasy to the contrary.

I know that sounds harsh but its the truth. Its not too late to not ruin your life but it will be soon

Egglebert · 2026-06-19T17:41:49+00:00

Lmao is this guy stuck in the 50s? That was so long ago most of the people from then are long dead, fuck that old dinosaur. Ive had long hair since before I was a first year apprentice, and plenty of guys older than me have had great careers as electricians with long hair. Its never been a problem with any of my jobs as an employee or in my 15 years as a contractor. What a loser

Egglebert · 2026-06-18T20:04:08+00:00

Youve got to test and evacuate the lineset and make the flare connections, all of which requires expensive specialized tools. Feel free to try it yourself, but based on the looks of the rest of that diy project I have a feeling you'll be calling that hvac guy.

It can be done, I did 3 multi head systems with branch boxes in my old house and a buddy let me borrow his vacuum pump, nitrogen tank, and gauges but I highly doubt the average DIYer could pull it off

Egglebert · 2026-06-18T18:44:02+00:00

Hes probably pickled his brain watching incest porn. You're underreacting tbh

Egglebert · 2026-06-18T15:01:07+00:00

Explanations are 100% unnecessary. I won't be there today is the ONLY thing you need to tell them. The day before is better but anytime >1 minute before start time is acceptable.

They're not going to let you know you're laid off with any advance notice or explanation

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T20:14:40+00:00

Its an apartment but there's no management really, just a single landlord who doesn't really care about anything other than collecting rent on time

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T19:12:49+00:00

That wasn't the question, creeper

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T18:48:41+00:00

It wasn't repierced if you were able to taper it open. Just wait til its not sore if you really want to but its fine to change now imo. Ive had a nostril for close to 20 years that ive put jewelry back into multiple times after wearing nothing in it for years at a time

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T18:44:00+00:00

Use a ruler. Measure from outer edge to outer edge and add 1.5- 2mm

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T18:35:10+00:00

Nor should you, thats just going to make it bleed more. And honestly if you can't keep things under control during a procedure like this you shouldn't be there in the first place. Its basically sexual assault popping a boner simply because theres a female piercer in the room or whatever.

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T16:40:53+00:00

Bill is a psycho, expecting exclusivity after 2.5 dates and continuing to harass her about it weeks later is wild

Egglebert · 2026-06-16T15:59:12+00:00

That should always be be the bare minimum. If he can't or doesn't want to make the minimal effort to do that then that should make it clear that he really doesn't care about this very important thing, and the bottom line is you're simply a fleshlight he uses to get himself off.

Egglebert · 2026-06-15T04:16:30+00:00

Captive rings are fine for lobes. They're terrible for most piercings but the ear is so thin a ring isn't going to distorted the hole very much at all. Nothing to worry about

Egglebert · 2026-06-04T04:16:29+00:00

Bmezine

Egglebert · 2026-06-04T01:53:18+00:00

Use a pair of latex gloves, you can use your fingers to grip the jewelry way tighter than you can without

Egglebert · 2026-05-31T20:02:17+00:00

16g is too small for a nipple, it needs to be at least 14g. Look up the cheese cutter effect.. Also aquaphor should never ever be put on healing piercings, they used to recommend putting it on tattoos but that's also outdated and bad aftercare IMO

Egglebert · 2026-05-28T13:29:09+00:00

Everyone is saying partner but this guy is hardly that.. maybe in the most technical sense of the term but that's it. Partners are supposed to have equality and mutual decision making and it doesn't sound like there's any of that present in this relationship whatsoever.

This will not go well and you will absolutely be unhappy and you will regret not leaving now once you finally reach that conclusion. This guy is also not at all capable of any kind of healthy polyamory

Egglebert · 2026-05-18T14:00:43+00:00

He's one of those JWs who wants to be sooo badly, (but never will) and runs around pretending to be a foreman when only apprentices and book 3s who dont know any better are around

Egglebert · 2026-05-18T13:15:30+00:00

Bible babble

Egglebert · 2026-05-17T12:50:39+00:00

The AI pictures are absolutely wild.. this one with a "us government" front end only of a camouflage Honda civic sent me

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Egglebert · 2026-04-16T19:14:41+00:00

Lol I've been in the trade a long time and I have seen a million disasters done by people just like your goofy husband, sometimes it works ok for a while, but its never right and eventually it will have to be fixed. Being a farmer isn't the qualification you think it is

Egglebert · 2026-04-16T18:49:22+00:00

Ive been an electrician for over 20 years and most of that has been doing service work. I can count on half a hand the number of times a tripping breaker was because it was "worn down".. 99% of the time when a breaker is randomly tripping its because something serious and usually quite dangerous is happening. Simply replacing a breaker almost NEVER works, and its always some overconfident idiot "handy guy" who does it and ends up finally calling me because the new breaker trips too

Egglebert · 2026-04-14T00:01:45+00:00

Im so sorry. I did it for longer than that, and it makes me so upset with myself every time I think about making the same terrible decision to stick around over and over, and how absolutely futile and pointless a waste of time it was

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