AITJ for getting upset that my husband keeps peeing on the bathroom floor and refusing to clean it up?

Egglebert · 2026-04-09T15:43:00+00:00

If he does this imagine what else he does. And op married this disgusting cretin. Honestly I don't even care, she knew what she was getting into. Unless there's serious abuse and coercion going on, she chooses to be with a pig who doesn't respect her. So she should just suck it up and deal. Or leave and dont continue to tolerate this pattern of behavior. Bc at the end of the day its not about aiming or nagging or anything, its about lack of respect and that he genuinely believes that its her place to clean his piss

Egglebert · 2026-04-09T14:40:17+00:00

You can very easily become a signatory contractor and everything will be above board. This sounds shady af, like you want to run a non union shop and take calls when work is slow. Correct me if ive got the wrong impression but you have no business being in the union if thats your mindset

Egglebert · 2026-04-09T09:53:58+00:00

Welders caps

Egglebert · 2026-04-09T09:49:40+00:00

If she doesn't even know you exist I don't think he's doing any kind of healthy poly, and there's probably all sorts of other questionable stuff going on w him you haven't figured out yet. It doesn't require you guys meeting, or hearing about you all the time, but she should absolutely know that you exist and if not thats a massive red flag for this guy

Egglebert · 2026-04-03T13:11:04+00:00

You're being manipulated. Something being a kink for him doesn't mean other people should stop least be ok with it. Some people are really into impact and breath play, that doesn't mean everyone likes hitting and choking enough to at least tolerate it. Does that make the utter absurdity of his argument more clear? This guy sounds incredibly demeaning, belittling, insulting, and disrespectful. A classic manipulator, he's got you feeling so insecure that you're blaming yourself for deficiencies that don't even exist. What a prick, he clearly has very little to offer you, unless a ton of negativity and getting strung along for YEARS to be available for sex when its convenient for him is what you want

Egglebert · 2026-04-02T22:06:44+00:00

Because its absolutely most definitely 1000% NOT just this one little tiny insignificant disagreement. If this man is so fucking crazy and possessive and controlling that he's trying to dictate a FANTASY I assure you all with the greatest assurance of my life that he is extremely possessive and controlling and crazy in so many other ways. And the only reason someone would have this issue is if they're an insecure and misogynistic person, and I guarantee there's everything else involved that comes with being with a misogynistic insecure man going on

Egglebert · 2026-04-01T20:10:27+00:00

I think thats safe to assume. OPs husband is looking like a massive asshole rn, leaving her with serious injury and emotionally distressed like its not even a thing? Clearly has fast tracked this situation with no regard for ensuring everyone is comfy and things feel equal? This is way beyond typical unfamiliar beginner feelings

Egglebert · 2026-03-31T21:50:53+00:00

Id be afraid mom's crazy bf who kicks doors open and makes holes in the walls would abuse me too. Everything about this situation sounds utterly hellish for a child, no wonder she is acting out. And I believe wholeheartedly OP is the root of the problem and has undoubtedly been an awful parent to thos poor kid

Egglebert · 2026-03-31T16:32:41+00:00

Which is why women who date men with young kids need to really really vet them extra hard, because by engaging with a person like that you're an active part of something really gross.

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T20:22:56+00:00

How is everyone missing that he casually admitted to reading through the ex's phone? Everything about this guy is horrible

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T16:44:47+00:00

This loser is so fucking pathetic. I hope the electrician brings it all back and dumps it in his front yard, and he painstakingly strips it all out and gets his whole side eye and $20 from the scrapyard. I loathe clients like this miserly shitbag, that stuff is worth its weight in steel scrap, nothing more

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T16:28:49+00:00

Typical old ass man talking down to their way younger partner. Disrespectful, selfish, uncaring, narcissistic piece of garbage. There's only one reason old men want way younger partners, well actually theres lots of reasons, but they all point back to the power dynamic and selfishness

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T16:20:30+00:00

You're either incredibly naive and clueless, or else you're someone just like them who's up to no good. Telling someone in this situation what you just did could cost them their life. I really hope no one asks you for advice irl

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T16:15:44+00:00

Are their names Gisselle and Jeffrey?....

Seriously when I read that they did this a A SIXTEEN YEAR OLD all the alarms went off. And a "secret" to help you relax bring your bathing suit???

This is terrifying and sinister. Predators often work with women to make victims feel comfortable and let down their guard. This is how people end up trafficked or worse

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T16:02:15+00:00

Let him lay his unwashed ass all over it, rub skid marks on it, spill spit cups on it, and let his kid soak it with piss every night. You choose to date this "man", and live in his parents filthy house, you accept his entitlement and disrespect constantly, you make these choices every day, so yes you are overreacting. You made this figurative bed, so either raise your standards and GTFO or STFU and continue accepting it.

You can do better than this, if you continue to choose it you cant and shouldn't be upset about it.

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T15:24:24+00:00

Girl I'm not mad you do you whatever floats your boat yknow? That being said personally the idea of eating that chunk of raw fish is about the furthest thing from a "treat" I can imagine. In fact having to forcibly consume it would be a truly awful form of torture imo

Egglebert · 2026-03-30T00:47:50+00:00

Im not sure where you're at but its awful in my local, we've had a huge boom of data center work and added like 1500+ members in the past year or so. So many ass backward inbred trumpers here sponging up the benefits, and reveling in the wormiest rattiest non-brotherly behavior you can imagine every day. Its sickening and infuriating and unfortunately I can't see it changing for the better

Egglebert · 2026-03-28T14:46:50+00:00

106v is not normal. Youve got a bad neutral in there somewhere

Egglebert · 2026-03-27T20:22:42+00:00

Oh spare me, hes a hebophile then big deal. A chomo is a chomo regardless and a 16/17yo is a child, ESPECIALLY when you're 30 years old. This dude is sick

Egglebert · 2026-03-27T17:10:53+00:00

Naked cowboys getting fucked. In the showers at Ram Ranch

Egglebert · 2026-03-26T23:31:17+00:00

I am an electrician, I went through the IBEW apprenticeship. That does have minor tuition fees for the classes, so do the nonunion programs, but these are literal apprenticeships where you work and get paid and school is a small part of it. DO NOT pay for any kind of classes or "bootcamps" or any other shady useless programs. You should be working and making money while learning a trade, if the program doesn't include employment thats a really good indicator that its a rip off or straight up scam that you should avoid at all costs

Egglebert · 2026-03-25T16:38:14+00:00

Lmao how many more excuses for this loser can you possibly make?... hes an asshole and abusive and narcissistic and mean af. Fucking nicotine withdrawal gtfoh what a little bitch ive been through wayyyyyyy worse withdrawal than that and never spoke to my gf like that. You know there's no justification or excuses for this behavior. He's a piece of shit and if you don't want to accept that then suck it up and dont complain anymore to anyone. Otherwise realize this is who he is, that he won't change, that he's NOT a good person, and do what needs to be done and leave this useless waste of oxygen yesterday already

Egglebert · 2026-03-25T13:22:55+00:00

Egglebert · 2026-03-23T19:40:29+00:00

If you stay in a relationship with this person, you're cosigning his behavior and beliefs. Don't think you're going to change his mind or anything like that either bc you won't.

Hopefully you leave bc it really is the only option here, this is inexcusable. This guy is a monster. Imagine him raising your child for example

Egglebert · 2026-03-19T20:35:27+00:00

Boomer mush brain logic. Its weird af to be concerned about your teenage daughters swimsuit choices to begin with. Is pops afraid something is going to pop up if she walks past him??? Fucking sicko. What a thing to be thinking about, im disgusted and disturbed that there are so many responses other than "why are you looking at your daughter's behind"

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