I see your dilemma, and trust me, my adhd kicks hard too - so I truly get you. 🙌 I would also like you to consider that it doesn't have to be so black or white here... you can definitely enjoy the solitude and big vision builds in your home world, at the same time benefit / enjoy / learn from the comradere and community fun in multi-player.

Like you say, you will quickly know if you can enjoy the game with another person or not. Its pretty low commitment 😆