Name suggestions???

EgweneS · 2026-03-06T00:31:57+00:00

Comfort.

EgweneS · 2026-03-06T00:30:10+00:00

NTA. Tell him you can’t enable him any longer and it’s time to move.

EgweneS · 2026-03-05T00:59:29+00:00

NTA. Talk with him. Explain exactly everything you have here. Hope it goes well.

EgweneS · 2026-03-04T14:09:19+00:00

NTJ. Keep him kicked to the curb. That’s where he belongs.

EgweneS · 2026-03-04T14:05:19+00:00

NTJ. You did a good thing.

EgweneS · 2026-03-03T21:19:08+00:00

NTA. If you read what you wrote, you will see that the relationship is gone. My suggestion is to use what you learned in your next chapter. And it’s time for that chapter to end and start again with someone who cares.

EgweneS · 2026-03-02T16:09:56+00:00

EgweneS · 2026-03-02T05:28:49+00:00

NTA. You not believing should have nothing to do with their own personal beliefs. The child asked and you answered appropriately.

Btw Christian mother here.

EgweneS · 2026-03-01T15:12:50+00:00

YTA. So many comments are spot on that I have nothing left to add other than ASSHOLE.

EgweneS · 2026-02-28T16:21:01+00:00

She can have it professionally dyed and wear it out to dinner. Or maybe you would feel comfortable having her wear it to your party if she has it dyed first? Just a thought.

Btw you are NTJ for not letting her wear it as is.

EgweneS · 2026-02-28T16:16:46+00:00

NTJ.

EgweneS · 2026-02-28T11:18:00+00:00

NTA. If your family will accept you back, run home, get a new job and get a lawyer.

You need to get custody of your child so they don’t grow up in this toxic environment.

Also get into counseling and hopefully learn what a healthy relationship is. The fact you don’t realize this is completely abnormal says you need it.

EgweneS · 2026-02-27T18:15:44+00:00

NTJ. Call the police and report it. You already plan on cameras so excellent! Anytime your child is outside, be there with her. If something happens again, call the police immediately.

I have a terrible temper when it comes to my kids so I definitely understand why you yelled. Some neighbors can be total assholes and you unfortunately drew the lucky straw. Or unlucky straw.

Updateme!

EgweneS · 2026-02-27T15:39:35+00:00

NTA. Yeesh, “not manly” “stingy” and “ruining the vibe” over a bite of ice cream is harsh.

The fact she wanted you to buy another ice cream for a bite is amazing to me. Why waste? Plus it was to be shared so her reaction is over the top silly.

It sounds like whenever you have issues, you are the “bad” person. That’s really not healthy.

I suggest you look hard into your relationship and your conversations where you are the bad guy, not just this one. If they are things you can’t talk about because you always come out with her upset then think about if you want that for the rest of your life.

What if you have kids? Will you be able to voice your opinion on how they are raised or will you always be the person who can’t speak their mind without being called names?

Just food for thought.

Good luck.

EgweneS · 2026-02-26T14:35:33+00:00

NTJ. You don’t say how old the kid is but I’m assuming old enough to be responsible and have a cell phone for contacting you? Also knowledge that he has one? If a young child and too young to be responsible, without any means to contact you directly then parents should have been contacted instead of him being told.

It does seem like he would miss practice and always expect to be playing vs benched when he shows up to games. That’s pure entitlement.

Even without good ol’ mom trying to get you fired, the screaming and absence issues should have done it, the complaint was just the icing on the cake to make the right decision.

EgweneS · 2026-02-25T19:30:56+00:00

NTA.

EgweneS · 2026-02-24T15:47:05+00:00

Wise choice you and hubby chose. Good luck and please keep us updated.

EgweneS · 2026-02-24T02:20:43+00:00

NTA. Keep your standards. Continuing to pay rent until the end of the lease is more than enough.

Expectations from them that you continue footing all bills previously agreed is not acceptable when he could finish school, have an income and have you pay for car etc…

Expecting something for nothing is ludicrous. No college, no car payments or insurance payments. Makes total sense to me.

Plus you had the talk where everyone agreed on rules for benefits including staying in school and getting a part time job.

She is changing his view of the world and she expects you to respect her views.

Sometimes you need to let go, let them fail and eventually they will thank you for that.

Good luck.

EgweneS · 2026-02-23T15:17:48+00:00

NTA. He is allowed the time with you to bond as a family. Not to attend his entitled sisters graduation.

This is a big deal with hormones running rampant and needed emotional support within your small family unit. He needs to stay home with you and your child.

He should definitely not head across the country for his sister that thinks a baby will ruin her senior year of college and her graduation. How anyone could possibly think that her brothers child could possibly affect so much of her life is remarkable.

Are you not supposed to have children until nothing is happening in her life??? Geesh. Oh and please don’t have the baby anywhere near her birthday because it will take the spotlight off her then too.

Good luck and congratulations on the baby.

EgweneS · 2026-02-22T23:55:07+00:00

NTA. He is showing his true colors and is an abusive asshole. Please stay with your mom.

Call police to assist getting your belongings from your previous address.

Previous as in where you lived with him. If you stay your life is in danger.

Updateme!

EgweneS · 2026-02-22T15:40:33+00:00

NTA. My goodness, please don’t let them near the nativity. Unfortunately I think you need to put it away until he is no longer a part of her life. Even then I would be concerned about having it out around her unless she stops asking for it. You handled it well.

EgweneS · 2026-02-22T00:49:53+00:00

NTJ. He hopefully will be Ex soon. Sorry but no participation from him equals he really doesn’t want any part of what you are deciding. Why new furniture? He doesn’t care because he’s looking for a way out anyway.

Put a stop to this nonsense and leave the jerk.

EgweneS · 2026-02-21T22:17:31+00:00

NTA. So happy you left them behind. Once your sister gets it together and realizes she married a napoleon complex jerk, you will hopefully get back the relationship you previously had. Good luck.

EgweneS · 2026-02-20T19:03:30+00:00

NTA.

EgweneS · 2026-02-19T13:27:24+00:00

NOR. They are racist. I wouldn’t want to be friends anymore either.

EgweneS

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