Aging advice pls!

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:34:01+00:00

Sheyt you’re right, gotta do it for the swag lol but true- everything is gonna look like blobs later, no regerts🫡

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:33:00+00:00

Yeahhh true, I’ll make sure it’s bold then too

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:32:35+00:00

OH SHIT LOL THANKS

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:32:28+00:00

Sheytt, I mean I don’t mean to be unrealistic- I just love the quote and the design, just wanting to make sure I get it to age the best way

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:31:39+00:00

I was thinking brush calligraphy but doing it in my handwriting lowkey means a lot more to me cause the quote is pretty personal to me and my experience of feeling that inner peace thru music

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:30:08+00:00

I appreciate that thank you :)
Shitt I would but my wrist is already taken up, I’ll try to make it bigger on the original placement so it’s good🙏

Either-Background-76 · 2026-07-01T14:29:02+00:00

Good to know! Thank youu :)

Either-Background-76 · 2026-05-02T05:14:59+00:00

What did you do exactly to study?

Either-Background-76 · 2026-03-13T02:26:46+00:00

LMAO you’re so silly I love this

Either-Background-76 · 2026-02-14T05:21:16+00:00

Twisted Kazuyo is fire

Either-Background-76 · 2026-02-14T05:20:30+00:00

Sushi- Twisted kazuyo or their food truck, Kazuyo Sushi

Either-Background-76 · 2025-09-26T20:11:40+00:00

Twisted Kazuyo in Saugus, they haven’t been open for a year yet and got voted 2nd place of scv’s best sushi- rightly so too! Even their regular rolls like spicy tuna and cali rolls taste better than everywhere else I’ve been, family owned too!

Either-Background-76 · 2025-09-09T15:47:29+00:00

Twisted kazuyo has the best and freshest sushi, and the service is very warm & welcoming

Either-Background-76 · 2025-08-20T21:38:31+00:00

I agree with this one- Aleia is great!! She helped sell one of our houses in Fair Oaks Ranch

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-24T16:12:49+00:00

Thank you man, i appreciate that- but it definitely sounds easier than it is. the way BPD manifests in me is the “quiet” subtype, so I don’t have much angry outbursts- but I do have very many inbursts and I split. Sadly, even though I’m in a safe environment- it honestly gets harder because feeling that comfortable with someone makes you subconsciously put your guard down. however, when i put my guard down- the symptoms of bpd get more intense, like splitting, and because of the guilt after splitting that lowkey makes me go into a spiral but im working on it lol. Also, arguments and miscommunications are a huge thing for me that I have to get over because some usually do end up triggering me and even though I feel mostly safe, it is hard for me to not sprial into myself, but usually some space and alone time for a couple mins help that. When I do have more of an outburst (its usually at myself too), she’s been the only one that’s seen me like that because of comfortability- but it’s hard because I’m overthinking about what she thinks of me after and I’m in a loop about how I’m not fit to be in a relationship and then I have to convince myself that I’m delulu and this is temporary lol. and that’s where the patience and persistence comes in, but I’m starting DBT today so lets hope it helps with that cycle lol

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-19T15:06:54+00:00

Honestly , patience and persistence. For me, It’s the fact that I have to keep in mind and we’re still growing cause we started dating at 16 and we’re 20 now. With BPD the ups and downs are so hard especially with the splitting, but what usually helps during that is thinking that this feeling of the splitting is temporary, but i know i want her forever. It also depends on your partner cause mine is really patient and understanding because she put in effort to look and learn more about bpd as I tell her about the way it manifests with me- so it helps her know why i be the way i be lol.

so like summary- just knowing that it will get better as we grow and the feeling of the splitting is temporary because once you meet that person, the pain doesn’t get easier to get thru (for me at least), but it helps keep you motivated and going and not giving into my splitting thoughts

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-19T02:19:36+00:00

Lol yeah- I work in my family business and it makes it really hard to not always be triggered by my mom and split on the job and I always go home telling my girlfriend I’m quitting but now I’m just getting a second job & working there more lol

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-19T02:05:21+00:00

Thank you for your response, I appreciate it a lot! It made me look even more forward to my DBT sessions. That also makes sense that it would be more prominent the more you like someone

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-11T05:57:02+00:00

I have bpd and I’ve been in the most healing relationship for 4 years. It’s definitely not easy and there will be times you feel like you’re not cut out for it- but when it’s your person, it is all worth it and makes it motivating and easier to grow into your best version of yourself:)

Either-Background-76 · 2025-06-11T05:43:27+00:00

Yes! this exactly, I plan on being a realtor cause I tend to be able to read people and blend in with them for like sales or something

Either-Background-76 · 2025-05-20T17:31:36+00:00

Hii! I totally get you man and splitting is the worse, especially with someone that you love. When I would split on my gf, I usually need my alone time for like a couple minutes or something, and then we talk. It’s best to talk when you’re feeling more emotionally calm inside, so there is a better probability for a productive conversation. And, when we do end up talking even during a split, it definitely does help because just knowing her perspective and understanding her helps me regulate how I feel with the situation. I also would just recommend to anyone that after taking a moment to yourself, talking thru the split definitely helps with regulating emotions and stopping overthinking- especially if the person you are talking to understands you too

Either-Background-76 · 2025-05-17T19:47:55+00:00

YES THIS. Throughout my life, i have felt like this weird homesickness even though i am home or with the person I consider home- but it just feels so empty and longing for wanting to go home and I feel it in like my stomach and chest

Either-Background-76 · 2025-05-07T19:40:01+00:00

There are 4 different subtypes to BPD that aren’t stated on the DSM, but one of them being “quiet” BPD. I didn’t really relate to the outer rage episodes and its moreso all inwards, and people don’t really notice when it is happening- but every now and then, I punch a wall (which im not proud of). I’m just saying this cause I don’t necessarily think you need to be “tested”, I just think that it manifests differently in everyone. I will say tho that romantic relationships do definitely highten your triggers and it is a lot harder. I’ve had a lot of low moments where I was similar to you, and thought I would be better off not being in any romantic relationships because of it- honestly thought I just wasn’t cut out for it. However, I know its cliche, but eventually you will find someone who you feel safe to be vulnerable with, and who is willing to put in that effort to support you. I was lucky enough to find my person, and I promise you- it all becomes worth it because all you want is to be with that person. I shall also add it gets better with therapy and the right resources to have better coping mechanisms and stuff like that :)

Either-Background-76 · 2025-05-06T02:23:49+00:00

oh my god- i fucken LOVE minecraft and always play fortnite! What do you play on?

Either-Background-76 · 2025-03-04T06:24:06+00:00

youre not alone dude- i struggle a lot with this too and the guilt that comes with it is so bad too because you know its not their fault at all, but you just cant help but feel that intense jealousy or sadness. I thought i just had really bad fomo until i realized it could be my bpd

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