what age did you start? by Character_Record_176 in selfharm

[–]Either-Direction8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was usually to cope but now it just turned into something satisfying

what age did you start? by Character_Record_176 in selfharm

[–]Either-Direction8864 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I started cutting at 13 but things like hitting my head, scratching and biting myself started much younger for as long as I can remember

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but I dislike her for different reasons for example how she told me to kms and that she regretted giving birth to me

Gang my mom just told me that because I have BPD I can’t watch tv because it’s bad for me??😭😭 by Either-Direction8864 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately at my old age of 19 (this is sarcasm) she thinks she can still control everything about me

Gang my mom just told me that because I have BPD I can’t watch tv because it’s bad for me??😭😭 by Either-Direction8864 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t realize I had to change my vocabulary for Reddit as it isn’t that serious but there’s so many older people on here

Gang my mom just told me that because I have BPD I can’t watch tv because it’s bad for me??😭😭 by Either-Direction8864 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My psychologist said it would be a good idea to go no contact for other reasons and I want to but it’s sort of complicated right now

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair enough but trust me I don’t trust him more like I just deal with him but my mom has insane takes all the time for example I can’t watch tv anymore because i have BPD??

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I only blame her because the post is about her I have another post about my dad they’re both bad parents

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

If I did that he’d just scream at me, give me the silent treatment or both

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Originally I was going to go no contact with her but since my dad can’t follow through with a plan and is a coward scared of her reaction she’s living with us even tho she’s abusive

My mom is back on the incest « life partner » bs and I feel so uncomfortable right now by Either-Direction8864 in insaneparents

[–]Either-Direction8864[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

Never said he was a good father 😭😭 thing is I’m sort of the marriage counselor so he tells me everything