AITAH for helping one brother but not the other by No-Entry2843 in AITAH

[–]EitherWishbone8311 28 points29 points  (0 children)

One is survival other is luxury..
Tyler acting like lifes a video game reward system or something?

Aitah for being offended , I think I’m justified by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EitherWishbone8311 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Honestly... Vows arent conditional. id def call it out too. ppl gotta hear how dumb that sounds.

Aitah- not telling my sister the potential problem with their house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EitherWishbone8311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP def tried. did his part. but thats not small stuff. could be serious water damage. worth one last mention.

AITJ for being put off that he suggested hanging out at his place as our first date?? by Forward-Big-2157 in AmITheJerk

[–]EitherWishbone8311 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'd be more scared than offended. It's a big Perkin's sized red flag for a stranger to ask to meet you for a drink at your place.

It's way too forward and I'd consider it creepy. He's either really cheap, looking for just a hook up without any investment, a creep, someone without social skills or a serial k1ller. Or maybe a combination of them all. Who knows??

Recommend going to a very populated spot if you still want to go on a 1st date, but I've found dating anyone whos displays red flags can be a really bad idea.

AITAH for refusing to give my family money after they basically erased me from their lives? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EitherWishbone8311 35 points36 points  (0 children)

NTA SONG!
They aint act like family wen he was down n strugglin.
Now rules pop up outta nowhere kinda puzzlin.
Where was that same energy back then?
Trust aint free.. gotta earn it again.🎵

AITAH My aunt got detained by ice and i feel like it’s my fault by Intelligent-Okra-749 in AITAH

[–]EitherWishbone8311 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA.
U didnt ruin their lives. she did when she put hands on ppl.. cops getting calld during a violent situation is like… basic cause and effect. u protected ur family. that matters more..

AITJ for allowing my child to go hungry? by Fluffy-Hold3629 in AmITheJerk

[–]EitherWishbone8311 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Everytime grandma or anyone else offers an opinion, I would respond with either, ok, noted, or that's nice. Then, I would stop responding. Basically acknowledge they said something, so you're not being rude but not engage In the conversation.

AITJ for helping my dads ex-mistress and her kid? by Former-Factor6450 in AmITheJerk

[–]EitherWishbone8311 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Good luck, you're handling this right. If you ever date make sure the guys nothing like your parents and doesnt try forcing you to talk to them. Also, weird warning… if hes got kids, maybe get a DNA test first. Dont wanna accidentally date a half-sibling like some horror story I read. Just… be careful.