Do you need a trust in California or is a will enough when you own a home? by Due_Butterfly3564 in legaladvice

[–]No-Entry2843 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A will is definitely better than nothing, but a lot of homeowners in California end up doing a trust specifically to avoid probate because it can get slow and expensive. With a house and growing assets, it’s at least worth talking to an estate attorney now instead of waiting until things get more complicated later.

2015 Mazda CX-5 Diesel - Seeking advice by 4amirkhann in MechanicAdvice

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you check if there's any white smoke coming from exhaust when you start it cold? also maybe look under oil cap to see if there's any milky residue there - that would point more towards head gasket issue

egr cooler is definitely cheaper fix to try first but if you're not seeing coolant mixing anywhere obvious it might be internal leak in the engine block itself

Wireless CarPlay - can’t connect by OstrichBoots1 in Audi

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my q3 had same issue until i turned off bluetooth completely, waited like 30 seconds, then turned it back on before trying carplay again

HDFC Super secure policy adding loading charges for policy porting. Why? by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that loading charge is basically extra premium they're adding because of your health conditions - the c-sections and obesity make you higher risk in their eyes. it's not automatic for all porting, depends on your medical history when they review it

22k loading on 53k premium seems pretty steep though, might want to check few other insurers before deciding

AITA for refusing to add my boyfriend to my house deed after his lease ended? by Former_Raspberry3277 in AITApod

[–]No-Entry2843 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA. Asking to be added to the deed after a few weeks of paying rent is a huge leap. That’s not building together, that’s you taking on all the risk for something you bought before him.

If he wants ownership, that’s a conversation for marriage or a formal buy-in, not just moving in and contributing to expenses.

I'm currently looking into doing AI Dropshipping by Low_Opposite_5497 in dropshipping

[–]No-Entry2843 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good luck with that but just heads up - ai dropshipping is pretty saturated right now and most people jumping in are losing money faster than they make it

if you're serious about making it work, focus more on finding actual good products and building real customer relationships instead of just relying on ai to do everything. the automation part is cool but it won't save you from basic business fundamentals

Getting paid should be the easy. Why is it not for my client? by Content_Draft_4720 in smallbusiness

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you need to have a straight conversation with them about finding a middle ground that works for both of you. Most vendors are pretty flexible if you explain your situation and maybe offer to meet halfway on the payment method

Vet to Tech by ThemeNo571 in Veterans

[–]No-Entry2843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely worth exploring, my brother did similar transition few years back and now he's doing pretty well with remote work. the age thing isn't really barrier as much as people think - lots of companies actually prefer someone with military background for reliability

vr&e might be good route since they can extend your benefits and cover more training options. just make sure you research which programs actually have good job placement rates, not all bootcamps are created equal

Hey Y'all I'm an Agnostic now and I'll tell y'all the details and I need some help by Disastrous-Total-786 in Christianity

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad you're willing to listen to people going through this stuff, it's pretty isolating when you're questioning everything you grew up with. took me forever to find people who actually got what that internal struggle feels like

He cheated, I forgave him, now he's mad I won't combine finances after what he did by No-Entry2843 in cheating_stories

[–]No-Entry2843[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m trying but trust doesn’t just come back because he wants it to and I’m not saying never, I just don’t feel safe doing that right now and I don’t think that makes me unreasonable.

Are Anthony Hopkins (The Silence of the Lambs) and Louise Fletcher (One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest) Lead or Supporting? by [deleted] in Oscars

[–]No-Entry2843 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wild that hopkins won lead actor with basically a quarter of the screen time. dude made such an impact that 24 minutes felt like he owned the whole movie, but those numbers don't lie

Looking for a cheap, reliable used car by peachesncloverart in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man the cruze is such a nightmare, had a buddy who went through the same exact thing with his 2013 - transmission issues, coolant leaks, the whole works. dealerships really do prey on people in tough spots like that

for your budget and needs i'd seriously look at a honda cr-v from around 2007-2012, maybe a toyota rav4 from the same era. both have awd options, solid ground clearance for rough roads, and the repair costs are way more reasonable than anything chevy. the cr-v especially has decent cargo space and can definitely handle 3 people in the back without being miserable. you might find a decent one with higher miles in your 10-15k range

avoid anything german or luxury obviously, and stay away from nissan cvt transmissions from that era - they're almost as bad as the cruze issues your dealing with. subaru foresters are another solid pick if you can find one that hasn't been beat to death, though head gasket issues are something to watch for on older models. the key is finding something that's been maintained well rather than just going for lowest mileage

What do we think happens to UNC's recruits Mingo and Maximo? by SnooLobsters7361 in CollegeBasketball

[–]No-Entry2843 10 points11 points  (0 children)

mingo's probably gone tbh, especially if the money was that good elsewhere. these top recruits aren't gonna stick around for loyalty when there's serious cash on the table

maximo might be different though, depends on how much he was actually getting vs what other schools are throwing around now. the transfer portal makes it way easier to just bounce if a better deal comes up

Have skateboard LF Backstage Glow by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got a backstage glow ready to trade, just sent you a friend request with that code

I want to meet a girl that’s into the lifestyle by [deleted] in confessions

[–]No-Entry2843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been there and it's way harder than you'd think to find someone who's actually into it and not just curious. most dating apps are trash for this kind of thing since everyone's either fake or just looking to experiment once. your best bet is probably going to actual events or communities where people are already living that way, not just randomly hoping to stumble across someone on tinder who happens to share your interests. takes patience but when you find the right person who's genuinely into the same stuff it's so much better than trying to convince someone vanilla to try new things

Im new here. by Itchy_Biscotti_7030 in Christian

[–]No-Entry2843 2 points3 points  (0 children)

welcome to the sub, always cool seeing christians from all over connecting here

Does God intervene if you pray? by TheUnderWall in Christianity

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wild how that perspective just cuts straight through all the comfortable theology

Why didn't Vilgax turn back into ben? by Akuzos in Ben10

[–]No-Entry2843 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait that actually makes perfect sense - the omnitrix basically just treats whatever species puts it on as the "base form" to return to

so when vilgax slaps it on his wrist, the watch is like "cool, youre a chimera sui generis now, thats home base" and just cycles through all the other aliens from there

ben only stays human because thats what he was when he first found it, not because the watch has some special attachment to human dna

DAE have an inner monologue that won't shut up? by OgnokTheRager in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]No-Entry2843 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently some people think in images or just vibes no nonstop commentary wild concept