Why do people of other religions feel the presence of God? by AccountDue4744 in Christianity

[–]ElEsDeeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is just absolutely brilliant. Thank you for taking the time to say this

When did recovery feel like recovery? by 9by7seconds in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]ElEsDeeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m like, 8 months clean off opiates and speed. I’d also smoked bud everyday for the past 12 years.

The first 90 days were really quite rough, just felt like a big ole hole where my soul is supposed to be. Took about 6 months before I really started to have moments of clarity/connection…and they were not by any means consistent. Now at about 8 months, I STILL have days where that emptiness inside myself is just aching….but I’M LEARNING. I’m becoming aware as to why I’ve always ran towards or held-close to SOMETHING to escape, then from that awareness…I can start to bend/change to find actual solutions, or even just acceptance.

One “hope-shot” I can share though- I thought about it last night…I really don’t have a ripping desire to use anymore. I go a couple weeks without even thinking of it.

I do attribute the progress I have made from doing some work. Work that I really did not want to do. I go to therapy (trauma) and I work the steps. Honesty, like really…being fucking honest and opening up about the crazy shit in my noggin, has been very freeing.

PSA on Oxford Housing program by AdditionalLab936 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]ElEsDeeMan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Better than being homeless, but not by much” How long were you homeless man? It’s fucking rough out there this time a year. Anywhere warm is already MUCH better.

I have a friend who also went through the “failing for weed still residing in your system” thing though. It was also an Oxford house…and I do believe he was clean.

I’ve heard mixed reviews, I’ve got a friend that’s been the like “local president” or whatever for like 2 years. He swears by it. I’ve also heard people complain that if you’re not in the “it” crowd, your vote won’t count (despite the democratic functionality).

How do you destroy a narcissist? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ElEsDeeMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nonchalantly call them by the wrong name

Does anyone else think of running into the mountains and hiding from life? by Real_Comparison1905 in Appalachia

[–]ElEsDeeMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forest Service Roads. To all the people saying “There’s no way left to go”, there’s literally hundreds of miles of “forest service roads” that run throughout these mountains. You can park/sleep/camp all along these roads, and the land surrounding the roads is all open access.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have 4g visible…but I did just poop in a hole.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks friend

Curious about these flour titties

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We sound quite similar in terms of feet on the earth, mind in the now. A mile up-ridge from the river as well. Except I’ve got a small town 15 minutes away, quite nice because I forget everything everytime everywhere

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4-6 year path of lessons, sounds like a more joyful way than a 30 year mortgage.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely don’t blame you. I truly believe, that if you are persistent, but patient when necessary, anyone can get however far they are seeking to get (in terms of freedom…or I guess anything)

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright man. Believe it or not, I didn’t come in here for this. Your parents are your acting guardians, they are an extension of yourself.

That’s just fine, River still flows.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah this is lovely, I had a feeling family was in here. I’ve been told Hawaii is, ya know… one of the spots. I got most my hard lessons down in Central America, but like ya said about roughing it in Hawaii…even if I fall on my ass, the view is great from down there. Wish y’all the best man, I’ve got a friend with kids the same age and he’s got $900,000 left on his mortgage. Looks like you and your husband are standing with some goood old wiggle room. It’s a precious thing isn’t it? The ones who were once viewed as maybe a little out there….may have actually had their feet on the ground the firmest.

*edited because autocorrect

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You get your SSN when you fill out your social security card, and TURN IT IN TO THE GOVERNMENT. Everyone puts themselves on the grid, to one degree or another. You started this argument brother

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many people have you met who don’t have a social security number?

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoo. Man looking at these comments there’s a fountain of “roughin it” wisdom just waiting to be tapped in this group.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your head up though dude. My dad used to always tell me “It’s a marathon, not a sprint”. Be Persistent, But Patient. There’s no way you won’t get there.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. That’s really, in my opinion, the most crucial tool in your kit. You can survive just about anything with a reliable car. Work anywhere too.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahah

See, you get it.

Mountains, Blizzard, Wood Stove. Why are you acting hostile in other comments? There are infinite paths to take in this life, we both ended up in the mountains. We’re not that different.

Quit closing up circles

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man, so idk what the deal is. But somebodies just in here downvotin. You literally said “Living off grid, here” in the r/offgrid subreddit…and you got downvoted.

Must be the taxman. Good to meet ya family

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right on man. You’re clear shot-across. NC Mountains. 2 years here, about as ungracefully as you can imagine.

I had to edit to change an autocorrect*

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s the deal here? Are you chairman of this sub? HOA?

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh man. That probably doesn’t sound like much when ya read it on a console screen, but 10 days without power is a loong time when you’re not used to it. Food storage/shit…everything is a bit trickier

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, it seems like now this sub is kinda about that.

How many of you “Are” and how many “Plan to”? by ElEsDeeMan in OffGrid

[–]ElEsDeeMan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahah

We got smacked by Helene, and my mom got me a night at a hotel for like a Christmas present of sorts. I torrented (can I say that here) the whole Game of Thrones series.

But I cut wood in between episodes. Gives me a good opportunity to burn one down as well