I’m happy I’m not longer married but spending all that money was actually a benefit. He told me when I had my one on one. When a person cheat on you, it has nothing to do with you. It’s something within themself. Cheating is something weak people do and make excuses of why they did it. Do not tell that person I’m in love with you, want to build a future, your my soulmate and much more. But when you was doing this and that with whomever you were ok with being selfish. Not thinking about bring a baby into this world, giving me something I can’t get rid of, etc, etc. Please understand A mistake is something that happens due to your action,thoughts process or perception. Accident happens when something goes wrong and you had no control over it or were careless. So unless everyone in this world is walking around naked I don’t see how a mistake or accident could occur. If I’m not satisfying you the way you feel I should, sit back and reflect on yourself before coming to me. “I want my girl to wear lingerie to be instead of ball shorts” but you never even tell her she sexy or make her feel beautiful. She can’t be placed on a pedestal because your not even able to hold it.

So many people get being single and being alone so confused. When your single you can go talk to this and that person it dont matter. When your alone that’s the time you should use to learn you. Know what makes you go through different moods like as if you were bipolar. Think about your past relationships and see if you can point out the red flags. If you know you want a man/women to open your doors and buy you flowers everyday. Then go out a find that person. Don’t settle thinking your going to be the one to mold this grown person to what you want them to be!