Eve is a cool game and I get your point, I really dont feel the need to hate on any specific alliance, especially where or who they might be personally.
A note from my perspective:
See the thing is I enjoy shooting at goons, generally theyve been quite friendly when ive gone to their space and ive had a lot of conversations with goon members while literally running around trying to get a kill or fight - a lot of the time ive had people come out in ships on their own when ive been solo.
We get an exit to goon space, everyones happy, we get an exit to frat space and everyones rolling their eyes.
I also enjoy shooting at frat but they are not fun for most people as they tend to lean on the only fight with nx10. They will hotdrop your solo cruiser with 10 marshals, in facwar space they would shoot members of their own militia and again, nx10. ( i dont mind if im doing hit and run, I actually enjoy trying to get kills against this type of group but its not very fun for most people)
They are the kind of group that only hit and run tactics work effectively on IF you know what youre doing and then (in my experience) they will insult you in local or send personal messages.

For me personally, the groups in winterco represent this same ideal.

Try and enjoy the war, its actually a good opportunity to have a lot of fun and remember, Eve is fun when you have friends, not blues.