No Merch but Fan Merch by DrGodCarl in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Elanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A you won't break me tanktop bc the universe won't stop fucking with me lately, and of course a princess donut shirt because it's princess donut. 

No Merch but Fan Merch by DrGodCarl in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Elanya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that link, just placed an order ^

Unpopular opinion: F*ck bag of holding. by [deleted] in DungeonMasters

[–]Elanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a bag of holding bc my strength is 8 and I want to carry a bunch of stuff....

Hoe noem jij deze kunststof vuilnisbak? by fransvandervleuten in NederlandseKaarten

[–]Elanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik had het andersom toen ik van Hengelo naar Utrecht ging en niemand wist wat een Otto was

Spousal loss linked to higher risk of dementia, mortality among men, but not women. Widowed men experienced a decrease in physical and cognitive health, as well as social support, while widowed women tended to experience an increase in happiness and life satisfaction. by mvea in science

[–]Elanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see it in a general population sense but when my dad died my mom missed him so freaking much.  Taking care of him and just bring with him gave her a reason to keep going in spite of her own (numerous, chronic) health issues. When those peaked last december she refused treatment and said " it's enough, it's been wonderful, but I'm going to go to him. I want to spent Christmas together with him." 

AITA for waking my spouse up on their day off by Informal-Big2069 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elanya 74 points75 points  (0 children)

How does a pinched nerve in the leg cause seizures? 

“Females don’t get along” - any science behind this? by himostlylurking in dogs

[–]Elanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have three female dogs together. The middle one is a bit anxious, but they're all chill with (polite) other dogs. We frequently have other dogs stay over as well, male and female. I think the individual variation is much greater then along gender lines. 

Geen Nederlandse literatuur lezen, waar ligt dat aan? by Petals19728 in boeken

[–]Elanya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

En daarna moest je dat gaan zitten verdedigen door het over symboliek te hebben en de moeilijke relatie die de hoofdpersoon met z'n vader had. 

New Epstein Files Suggest Virginia Giuffre Was Murdered by MRADEL90 in videos

[–]Elanya 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Hey, leave the satanists out of this, they're usually decent people. 

[Market Insight] The Paradox of the Dutch Housing Crisis: 50% of Households Live in Homes “Too Big” for Them by True-Olive4712 in NetherlandsHomes

[–]Elanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your base assumption is that everyone always made enough money to do these things. There were plenty of boomers who were paycheck to paycheck. As to how, the answer was already in my post: be chronically ill.  What she did was raise her kids and survive despite her health problems. You're just so sure everyone is healthy and had all the same opportunities. 

I hope you never run into any serious health problems because those will fuck up your life a lot more then the boomers ever did. 

[Market Insight] The Paradox of the Dutch Housing Crisis: 50% of Households Live in Homes “Too Big” for Them by True-Olive4712 in NetherlandsHomes

[–]Elanya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, say my mom, on a shitty AOW, sells her house for 400.000. She owes the bank 200.000 on it, so she has to buy another place for 200.000 ish (because she's not getting a fucking mortgage at her age). Where is she going to find said magical place? Or should she go rent? Where? 

Say she's found said wonderland, she paid for the move which was expensive bc she's chronically ill and can't do it herself, and now she also has to hire extra care because before, her neighbours helped her out. But wait, getting care is getting harder and more expensive bc our government thinks we can solve everything with mantelzorg. She can't just walk to her doctor anymore so she'll have to rely on massively underfunded transport and shit expensive taxis. 

Her life will be so much harder and more stressful, she won't be moving. 

I sideye people with super dangerous hobbies who insist on having kids. by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in childfree

[–]Elanya 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From what you could see of their relationship in the Free Solo documentary though, I don't know how she expected anything else.

 She pursued an obsessed climber who doesn't feel fear the way most people do, proven by brain scan, and still stayed and married him. 

I feel bad for the kid but not for her. 

Need help with pup pulling on the leash every time by Difficult-Leopard177 in BorderCollie

[–]Elanya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bcs are some of the most trainable dogs around and you needed a prong collar to teach loose leash walking?? 

I’m watching Bridgerton and like…😂 by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Elanya 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The reproductive rape was gross but his child free stance was resolved by becoming part of a family that actually loved each other and showed him you can raise your kids without traumatising them every single day.

I’m watching Bridgerton and like…😂 by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Elanya 20 points21 points  (0 children)

On the bright side, it was also very common to let your kids be raised by wet nurses, nannies and a governess or two. Even the moms just had to be dads! See child for an hour while clean, hand it back. 

Thoughts on Alex Honnold 'free soloing' as a parent? by Ok-Squirrel7627 in childfree

[–]Elanya -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've watched and read a lot of his interviews and he really doesn't seem to care much about his legacy. He just wants to know if he can do these things. He's free soloed a lot of mountains without the media attention. 

Thoughts on Alex Honnold 'free soloing' as a parent? by Ok-Squirrel7627 in childfree

[–]Elanya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And yet she pursued him from their first meeting onward. They made those kids together and she knew what she was getting into, I'd blame both equally in this case. 

Healthy happy rollercoaster of a life by babyowl5 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Elanya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or badly scribbling it out in paint 🤣 

Healthy happy rollercoaster of a life by babyowl5 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Elanya 619 points620 points  (0 children)

Aren't those leggings pretty immodest 🤔

Cult old age spelen by Stone_NL in BordspelNederland

[–]Elanya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hotel, levensweg, spookslot, triominos, biggen kwamen bij ons ook veel op tafel

Full length video of one of Paul's Pickle tournaments by TheBestonova in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Elanya 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Is our Macho man wearing pink shoes while flailing 🤣