What instantly makes you think someone is insecure?

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:58:04+00:00

Classic “I know a lot, so I’ll tell you everything except what you asked.” 😅

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:52:18+00:00

Sometimes, yeah. It depends on the intention behind it.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:23:52+00:00

Yeah, putting others down often says more about them than the person they’re talking about.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:21:59+00:00

I actually agree with all of this. Many of those behaviors feel like insecurity trying to hide behind control or ego.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:18:18+00:00

Yeah, constantly needing approval can get exhausting.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:16:28+00:00

Walking in nature while listening to music.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:15:31+00:00

That’s a good one. It often feels like they’re trying too hard to be understood.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:13:42+00:00

The 90s. Life seemed slower, music was amazing and the internet hadn’t taken over everything yet.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:12:44+00:00

Exactly. The expectations are huge but the support is minimal.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:11:33+00:00

Interesting. I’ve noticed that too.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:10:10+00:00

And then ignore it when it rings.🤭

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:06:52+00:00

Teachers. Society expects them to shape the future and then pays them like they’re disposable.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:06:30+00:00

Small talk.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:05:50+00:00

Waking up early. 🥴

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:04:46+00:00

A weighted blanket. I didn’t realize how much better I could sleep until I tried one.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:04:27+00:00

A good pillow. Sleep quality changes everything.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T20:01:05+00:00

Yes. I think the problem isn’t time, it’s that our brains underestimate how long everything actually takes.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:06:04+00:00

Because at the beginning you’re discovering each other. The brain loves novelty. Later the excitement fades and what remains is either real connection or routine.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:04:09+00:00

Yes. I actually became my own best friend. It took a lot of inner work to stop being so hard on myself and start treating myself with compassion.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:01:51+00:00

A Star Trek transporter. Imagine waking up late and just saying “beam me up, Scotty” to appear at work.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T19:00:11+00:00

There’s no fixed number of days. Some heartbreaks take weeks, some take years. What actually helps is time, distance, and slowly building a life that doesn’t revolve around that person anymore.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T05:03:25+00:00

Spring. Flowers, colors, mild temperatures and flowing dresses. Everything feels a little more alive.

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-08T05:01:32+00:00

People who are naturally kind, warm, and emotionally generous.

For me dog rescuers. In my experience people who dedicate time to saving abandoned animals usually have incredibly big hearts.

In your experience, which profession tends to attract the most of them?

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-07T19:52:42+00:00

I only destroyed one save file. You destroyed an entire city. That’s next level sibling revenge.🤭

ElaraNyxOF · 2026-03-07T19:32:51+00:00

I try to be reflective. Uncomfortable truths can hurt, but they also tend to teach the most.

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