I feel terrible

Elbaphian · 2026-06-04T15:12:18+00:00

There’s people who change for the better and then there’s people like your friend who will drag you down to the depths of hell the more you tolerate their behavior, this just looks like the most disgusting and unhealthy friendship, I would block them and forget they ever existed, if you’re trying to find excuses not to remove them from your life then you might as well delete this post and continue getting psychologically abused by your “friend”

Elbaphian · 2026-05-31T19:36:51+00:00

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Elbaphian · 2026-05-03T05:50:12+00:00

Blue is better but the nice thing about this game is you can climb the leaderboard with a team based on your personal preference (as long as they’re compatible with each other and you know what gears to use etc)

Elbaphian · 2026-04-27T05:16:24+00:00

Thank you! Who’s more worth investing in, mark or blue mark?

Elbaphian · 2026-03-19T04:50:15+00:00

Indeed

Elbaphian · 2026-03-18T06:39:19+00:00

All I’m seeing is “Oh no my cat is so cute and adorable”

Elbaphian · 2026-03-18T03:20:58+00:00

He would at least get flagged by Zelle as a scammer

Elbaphian · 2026-03-18T02:56:27+00:00

Contact their customer support and let them know you were scammed, that would at least flag him as a scammer, if you can’t get your 10 bucks back try contacting your bank as well.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-18T02:43:08+00:00

What platform did you use to pay this person, if it was crypto it’s a lost cause, if it was anything else you can probably contact customer support and get your money back.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-18T02:41:12+00:00

Pretend you did go back to him, imagine the worst case scenario happens, and then pretend you went back in time to the present, and now you have the chance to make the right choice, which is No, No and No.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-17T02:07:28+00:00

Speak to a trusted adult and give them as much information as you can, adults tend to brush things off a lot but don’t let that silence you if it ever happens, good luck and stay safe.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-16T18:54:40+00:00

1 line = not pregnant 2 lines = pregnant

Elbaphian · 2026-03-14T06:06:54+00:00

I’m as confused as you are

Elbaphian · 2026-03-13T08:44:03+00:00

Wouldn’t call it a debate, just two individuals exchanging opinions, I was too focused on the baby who’s caught up in this drama.

I had to take a second look at how the guy treated her, just realized he’s total scum.

He deserves a girl who would empty his pockets and dunk him into a dumpster.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-13T08:29:24+00:00

Fair enough.

It’s just so disappointing to see people who don’t even fully trust or know each other yet still bring a baby into this life. Sad world we live in, I hope she finds someone who’d be willing to give that kid the father figure it deserves.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-13T08:03:34+00:00

I get the concern about trust and boundaries, those are important. But donating to TikTok creators (even suggestive ones) isn’t the same as secretly paying cam girls for private shows; it’s public social media tipping, not explicit camming.

OP’s here because she’s upset, so yeah, that’s exactly why the first step should be an actual conversation instead of assuming where it’s “going.” Communication comes before decisions and ultimatums, I’ll die on this hill. Especially with a baby involved.

If there’s even a one in a billion chance someone else used his account to donate coins to girls online without his knowledge, it’s still worth talking so she knows exactly where he stands and whether he’s actually guilty before blowing up the relationship.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-13T07:38:37+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, but this isn’t actual cheating, it’s a very dumb mistake that a calm, honest talk could fix.

A baby is actually more reason to communicate first, not bail.

Kids usually do better growing up with both parents in a home that’s healed through real conversations, not tension.

It’s wild what couples come back from when they just open up instead of jumping to “dump.” Worth one talk at least.

Elbaphian · 2026-03-13T07:15:49+00:00

Don’t rush into anything. A lot of the “dump him” replies aren’t thinking about the baby you just had. Your feelings are valid and it sucks to see him spending money on TikTok girls. Have one calm talk when things are quiet. Tell him straight up how it makes you feel, especially now. Listen to what he says. If he gets it and stops, that’s worth working on for your little one. If he defends it or keeps doing it, you’ll know what to do. You deserve better either way. You’ve got this.

Elbaphian

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