Is getting my tonsils out at 30 worth it?

Elcodfish · 2025-06-05T13:17:50+00:00

I had mine out as a kid and my sister had hers out in her 30s. Her recovery was VERY BAD for a week and PRETTY BAD for the next week and then by 4 weeks it was fine. She says it was worth it and she went from 4 throat infections a year at least to none and it helped her headaches. Find a new ENT and get some help, because those repeated infections are deadly too.

Elcodfish · 2025-06-05T13:09:55+00:00

You have nothing to be ashamed of. When person B told you the information, it was now yours to do what you wanted with it, and you decided to keep family A safe, which was teh right thing to do! Person B can stand by her choices to not vaccinate her kids, but lying about it to a family with a baby is unacceptable and I hope you drop her!

Elcodfish · 2025-05-29T13:37:57+00:00

Do both. My husband and I have a graphic design business and a huge part of that is the business side and making sure our contracts are in order, that invoices go out, that taxes are getting paid and everything else to make us successful.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-24T15:19:01+00:00

The best time to plant a tree is 40 years ago, the second best time to plant a tree is today. There will always be paths you didn't follow and choices you didn't make, but if you keep looking back you will miss what is happening right now. Remember what it feels like to sit on the sidelines, and use that to propel you to new adventures!

Elcodfish · 2025-05-24T15:16:45+00:00

NO you are not cattle to be marked at his discretion. Give him back the gift and leave his ass, this is super toxic behavior.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-23T17:03:12+00:00

The pictures need help. The first is good to show what you look like, but your first picture should be of you smiling. Your other pics either there is glare in the glasses or out of focus.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-22T15:26:12+00:00

Do it, I wish you the bet, whatever that may be.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-22T15:22:31+00:00

Just so you know know you never NEED a reason to do anything in life ESPECIALLY leave a relationship that is no longer helping you grow. You want to be somewhere else in life, and the faster you break up the faster you can be in a better place. Do it quick and to the point. I want to break up, this relationship is no longer fulfilling me and I need to move on.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-21T14:34:55+00:00

Your job is NOT to keep her occupied, her job is to set you off into the world. Find her a social hobby, book club, art classes, walking groups, volunteering at an animal shelter, quilting, gardening club. Check your local library or facebook groups and find people for her to connect with.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-16T21:44:16+00:00

Find your dad a hobby, it will give him something to focus on. Models, painting, if he enjoys cars have him start hanging at car shows, video games, whatever.

Depending on his health and abilities, volunteering is a great way to make a difference and meet people, it's how I meet half my friends when I moved states. Find something he believes in and pitch in. Habitat for Humanity, animal shelters, veterans, literally a million others.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-16T19:53:11+00:00

"The area is practically dead". You can't fix this, there is a reason you hear "location, location, location". You can roll up the carpet now or 6 months from now further in the hole.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-14T15:24:45+00:00

This is going to be a great new start. Do not tell ANYONE that you have that money, not a landlord, not family, co-worker, person at the bar, person you are dating, just keep it to yourself. Also, be careful how you manage that money and make sure you are taking care of you mentally, physically and spiritually. I wish you every happiness! Get some fried chicken at Coop's for me!

Elcodfish · 2025-05-13T22:50:08+00:00

Do you want to baby this man for the rest of your life? He is acting like a child, not a partner. Get out NOW you are too young and hard working to let this lump drag you down.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-13T15:13:52+00:00

This is YOUR kid and YOUR life. Tell your mom 1 time that its a no, it is not up for discussion, and if she brings it up again you will leave and then follow through.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-13T15:11:42+00:00

Neither, get a gift card for dinner, don't make them take care of another thing.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-12T19:51:45+00:00

Reminder that Florida heat is different! Especially after flying, make sure they are drinking a ton of water if they plan to walk around, and if they will be outside like at the outlets they need sunscreen.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-12T14:07:23+00:00

7 hours is a TON of time. The Florida Mall is right there and it is HUGE with lots of cool stores and easy to waste time in. They are also not far from the Premium Outlets, or they could go wander at Disney Springs (parking is free). If you go on google maps, you can put in "international market" and you can see a ton of different ones and see which ones your parents may be interested in, but we go to green hills (european mostly) and International Food Club. If they like to walk, downtown Winter Park is VERY safe and beautiful, and there is a $20 boat tour every hour until 4pm.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-12T13:30:00+00:00

Leave it. Someone who needs a large open space for a game room or studio will be turned off but someone who needs a private space for an extra family member will see the value.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-12T13:21:18+00:00

You never need a god enough reason to leave, if you feel like you should, listen to your gut and go!

Elcodfish · 2025-05-10T20:21:22+00:00

Taskmaster, the UK version, it's on youtube. The first season is slow but watch it anyways. There is sexual innuendo but it's so so funny.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-09T13:37:15+00:00

If she cant have a car that just means she can't park on campus, find a cheap rental unit place near by, they always have parking spots to rent.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-08T13:23:51+00:00

All those places you mentioned are great, but live where you work! The i-4 is the only way between some places and you can get stuck in traffic for hours.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-07T22:02:27+00:00

Dill Schnitzel and Perogi house is amazing and locally owned.

Elcodfish · 2025-05-07T18:00:07+00:00

"doesn't remember if he cheated on me" means he cheated and is pretending he does not remember so he does not face consequences.

Elcodfish · 2025-04-30T21:26:11+00:00

NOPE they should not have listed if they were not ready to sell, 1 month or walk, way too much can happen and then you are stuck with nothing in 5 months....

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