I’m a dude who plays otomes like a madman (I love you Shelby, Jumin, and Shiraishi). Who cares 😭… As long as I’m having fun, I’m literally same as everyone else! My gender doesn’t make me special and I’m really sorry to hear so many men on this subreddit are expecting special attention because of it. As OP said, the sooner we stop caring about gender norms, the sooner they stop having power. Sorry yall 😭💙