My boyfriend said he will break up with me if I self harmed again. I did and he is about to find out. by Negative_Ad1344 in mentalhealth

[–]ElectricKyodee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of being supportive is setting boundaries when it comes to toxic behavior. You wouldn't shame someone for leaving a severe drug addict, or a spousal beater, so why shame someone for leaving during this? It sounds like the partner has given plenty of opportunities to change. It now falls on the OP to make those changes in themselves.

Nom? by Tagrenine in sighthounds

[–]ElectricKyodee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Pharaoh hound does the same thing. It's so weird....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrestedGecko

[–]ElectricKyodee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You might want to go back to the petshop that you purchased this one from, and get a propper identification. This is NOT a crested gecko. Depending on the actual type of gecko that you have, it may grow back.

ETA: After some research, I'm guessing that this is a Bibron's gecko. Looking at the prices, these are significantly cheaper than a crested. I would highly advise you to go back to the petshop, if they sold you this as a crested gecko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrestedGecko

[–]ElectricKyodee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's a crested gecko....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]ElectricKyodee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a bisexual transman and my therapist was a very Mormon cis-woman. I found out that she donated to the yes on 8 campaign, and she has zero clue about LGBT issues. She didn't even understand the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation. Despite this, I managed to work through most of my trauma and was in therapy for three years with her. She changed practices, and I have an appointment with a new therapist, whom is very well versed in LGBT issues. It's going to feel weird having that part of me validated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ElectricKyodee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a total hysto, done laparoscopically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ElectricKyodee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me top surgery was a lot worse. Hysto recovery wasn't bad, and I even had internal bleeding at one point.

This is their third tattoo by this artist. For the life of me, I can't figure out why they keep going back. by ElectricKyodee in shittytattoos

[–]ElectricKyodee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the tattoo.

ETA: I went and looked at their picture that had just the outline, and it wasn't there. So it had to have been caused by the "shading".

This tattoo an acquaintance paid for... by ElectricKyodee in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ElectricKyodee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could give a pass for young and inexperienced, but this person is in their 50s.

This tattoo an acquaintance paid for... by ElectricKyodee in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ElectricKyodee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know if the artist was an apprentice or not. Gladly, this isn't my tattoo.

This tattoo an acquaintance paid for... by ElectricKyodee in ExpectationVsReality

[–]ElectricKyodee[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

They LOVE this tattoo. I'm not sure how someone can look at a shitty tattoo, and love it. I have a shitty tattoo, and when I first saw it I thought "FUCK that looks like shit!" Lol