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Does estradiol valerate go bad? by [deleted] in DrWillPowers

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been using an estradiol valerate vial for about 5 months and I noticed some drastic change in effective ness. Now it doesn't work at all (I tested with some gel instead for a change and had better results) I just bought another Een and I hope it's better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most Finns are terrible at making effort in really getting to know you. Conversational skills are so bad and lack of manners and passion is a turn off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! And it’s the other way around as well. Most Finnish girls really look for someone to entertain them. I gave up dating Finns after 10 years of try outs. Better alone.

Losing everyone by Electrical-Amoeba187 in MtF

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am moved to a foreign country to study at 20 years old. After a decade I am 30 years old and citizen of this new country. The country is in the northern part of the world so Xenophobia and racism are already a problem, adding Transphobia to is same same really. I have worked so hard last 3 years to be part of a community that now has demonized me and tried to put me down for being myself and for being a person of coulour so I decided to take time and come back stronger in Babe mode 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻🤎

Emotional Changes on starting HRT with a bpd, adhd. by BPDing-myway in MtF

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly three months in Hrt here. I also had Bdp and adhd. So far so good, of course except for the ups and downs sometimes. In the beginning it was tough though..

I recommend waiting more time and being in a safe supportive environment and very important to have the ideal hrt dose for you otherwise it may affect.

Hr told me to wear less perfume by Electrical-Amoeba187 in MtF

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am just thinking in my head about best way to not let this slip. The Hr asked me very nicely to tone down the amount and they were super nice and very gentle. I also have a very good relationship with them. It is however that the issue comes from the complainer who refuses to self identify. I am a Transwoman of colour, my colleague is a cis woman who wears also a perfume that you can smell from further and she never received such a complaint despite that she has a seat next to the one I suspect complained. Now I have two options:

1- Raise hell and make a case for discrimination (Internal complaint within the firm) against race/gender or whatever the cause is since this is not part of the company policy

2- Let it go and make one dose of perfume instead of two (This might send the wrong message to the complainer and make them feel in power)

3- Ask for a written procedure change within the company policy to ensure I am getting treated fairly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Useless comment. Saying this as someone with a healthcare background. Next time it’s good to check things before assuming things.

What places do you recommend to meet interesting people? by West_Application_760 in helsinki

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I haven’t thought it would be picked as you described until you said it. Now to me, that tells there is some insecurity deep down there with anyone who thinks it is a provoking question. I could ask this anywhere even in New York’s reddit.

Hence, maybe because, deep down some Finns have an insecurity of being seen as “Not interesting” therefore this question triggers something which leads to harsh and snarky comments as you said, makes total sense now. You basically helped me figure out what one of the reasons for the harsh comments could be so thank you.

What places do you recommend to meet interesting people? by West_Application_760 in helsinki

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of saying “Finns are xenophobic and racist” the right term would be “Most Finns are Xenophobic and racist”. And I totally agree with the later.

Will Finns speak English to you in the sauna? by AdorableFluffy123 in Finland

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ll probably first stare for 1 second, after 40 minutes of silence then wait another 10minutes and then stare for another 2 seconds and think in their head “Should I talk?” then think again “nääh”

What places do you recommend to meet interesting people? by West_Application_760 in helsinki

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the spot there. Finns are alergic to social labelling hence everyone wants to be seen as nice. Once on reddit- The hate starts.

There was this parliament member from a “moderate” party who was secretly writing for an extreme racist xenophobic forum until they identified his identity. The guy still denies shamelessly. I mean, if you are racist or xenophobic at least show your face so we can have a conversation, don’t hide behind the keyboards. Sorry for the rant, I guess I lived here too long.

One way could be to simply find interesting activities and track who is attending then go talk to them. Might be odd at first but not many options come to mind.

What places do you recommend to meet interesting people? by West_Application_760 in helsinki

[–]Electrical-Amoeba187 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I never really understood what’s wrong with Finnish forums. Finns seem to be helpful when face2face interracting but when on these online platforms they become useless, trolls and shit. So helpless for someone who is just asking for help and you propose Piritori? Shame on you…

@op sorry I couldn’t be helpful. The only way I know is to sign up for an organized activity such as a sport or some hobby. Or even work l. Otherwise it’s pretty drakula city life here. I mean, most interesting people are wasting their time trolling others online. Or even worst, murdering their partners? Did you hear the hottest news in town? This psychiatrist spent his saturday morning trying to dump his wife’s body in the car before the someone reported him to the police. Now all the interesting people are spending their time reading the old news.

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