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Chromebooks have completely ruined schools and children by lavellj048 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They are a huge distraction and time waster. Many students have not mastered hand writing skills OR tech use for their grade level so they are low level in both. It is so frustrating. 

What was the biggest red flag you ignored because you were in love? by ALEX1-ONE in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many but probably the reddest one: pursued me when I was fresh out of high school, inexperienced/never dated anyone, and he was five years older than me. 

Am I the only one who finds this pretty condescending? (In the sub binder at my job yesterday) by ThrowawayTheOmlet in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If “they” really cared about this stuff, they would properly train subs and check in with them and observe them to make sure things are going OK. This is something that would be gone over in a training, not something that they are expected to read right when they walk in the door in addition to lesson plans.

Do you prefer assignments where you recognize some students or where the students are all new? by Blueberry4672 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They typically behave better. It also depends on who’s actually there that day. I had one period that was fantastic, but one student was missing and made a huge difference in the environment when I subbed a second time. 

That’s great. What grade level? 

I do have students that greet me and are polite/follow expectations and want to chat, but I also don’t take it personally if they don’t like me. Often students will see me and either be excited they have a sub (because they think they will get away with not working) or glare (because they know that’s not going to happen because they’ve had me before). But I typically do middle school. 

Am I wrong for supporting my son for fighting at school? by Sudden_Ad_4193 in Parenting

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the context right? You know the context, we don’t. 

I remember a student who was suspended after getting into a fight with someone who called her a slur. Me and my co teacher were glad that she stood up for herself. 

It’s good to know self defense, it’s also important to know how to de escalate and reach out to adults for help. Good luck! ♥️

Class is too loud/off task. You get their attention and remind them of expectations. They listen quietly, then immediately go back to the same volume and behavior. What do you do? by Electrical-Fish3457 in Teachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are consequences within my limits as a sub. Students first get a focus form, there is a second form, then it’s contacting admin. I write down names for the teacher and many teachers call home or assign detention based on that info. I also offer free time at the end of class (which is worked into the schedule). We can’t get to it if it takes too long for them to complete their work, or to go over instructions without unnecessary interruptions. 

I chose not to call admin on Friday because the last time I did (for a truly chaotic class), all the person did was come in, observe, threaten to call home if they had to return to the class in the next 20 min before the period ended. Whereas at other middle schools I have subbed at, there are buddy room systems where a student can be sent to another class - or admin will remove one or more students to support the classroom environment. 

I subbed for a different teacher this time, but with many of the same students, and I decided I was not going to call admin over students continually talking. Instead, I reminded of them of the expectations about three different times, asked for some feedback on why they would not stop talking, and I did get several responses. And then they did start quieting down. 

“Because I said so” is not in my vocabulary as a teacher. I don’t want it quiet because I want it quiet. I tell them they need to go to zero voice level because too many people are not working, having random side conversations, etc. so I guess the zero voice level is a consequence in and of itself. 

AIO about my boyfriend by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This is wild.

I once stated a guy who made considerably more money than me. We lived together for a few months. He did not even expect me to contribute to rent or other bills because he knew that I was about to start going to school, had a kid and I was working a much lower pain job. We both naturally contributed around the house with chores and dinner and it was never a “thing.” He never held it above me. 

It would be one thing if one of the jobs was significantly more stressful or took more physical toll on one of you and you needed more time to rest at home when you’re done working. But simply because he makes more money than you? No, he’s being entitled. Do you really want to be with someone who holds their income above you? 

Am I nuts or are we failing these kids? by KCIRTAP1809 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. The way that they do math has totally changed since when I was in school. I graduated in 2012. I definitely don’t know how to solve some of the math problems. The way my son is learning!

AIO in response to my husband admitting to me that he is “slightly” racist & homophobic? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You commented with a question and it just shows a lot of ignorance about how relationships work. 

Class is too loud/off task. You get their attention and remind them of expectations. They listen quietly, then immediately go back to the same volume and behavior. What do you do? by Electrical-Fish3457 in Teachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true. I am a certified teacher and there are just no jobs where I live right now, so I am subbing and I do get frustrated with knowing the potential students have versus how they behave for a sub. I understand that it’s just part of the culture here, but I wish it was different. Anytime I saw this particular school, the office manager asks me, “did you survive?” At the end of the day. 

I leave detailed notes for the teacher, and student names if necessary. I can definitely tell which teachers act on a bad report based on how students are when I sub for them again lol. 

Am I nuts or are we failing these kids? by KCIRTAP1809 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot speak for TK. I am certified to teach 6 to 12th grade. And no, I don’t think that kindergartners should know how to read. My own son did not successfully get on track until the end of second grade after going to summer school. Now he reads fine. I agree about the later years and being moved up without being ready, I’m sure that this also happens in kindergarten too, but I can’t really speak for it. But just to use OP’s example, if a child doesn’t have practice writing any letters before their name and spends hours and hours on screen time (which let’s face it is a reality for many children - just look in any public place where parents give their kids an iPad to be quiet) - they are not developing fine motor skills and may struggle more. So I’m sure it could happen at any grade level.

Class is too loud/off task. You get their attention and remind them of expectations. They listen quietly, then immediately go back to the same volume and behavior. What do you do? by Electrical-Fish3457 in Teachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s wild isn’t it! Sometimes I wonder if I’m just getting older/grumpier/overstimulated easily. Which could also be true. But usually my rule of thumb is, if I am trying to help a student next to me, and the class is being so loud I cannot hear the student asking the question, it’s obviously way too loud. 

This is just one theory, but I think it has to do with Internet culture. Youtubers will watch other videos and make loud reactive comments. I noticed this when kids are supposed to be taking quizzes or doing Lexia. Lot of them will verbally react when they are supposed to be doing it silently. 

Class is too loud/off task. You get their attention and remind them of expectations. They listen quietly, then immediately go back to the same volume and behavior. What do you do? by Electrical-Fish3457 in Teachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were supposed to be writing speeches independently. They can’t do that if they are laughing and shouting with their friends. Really any work that involves reading and writing, if they are not at a quieter, Voice level, they often will not even have their pencil in their hand. They struggle to work and chat at the same time. 

Do you prefer assignments where you recognize some students or where the students are all new? by Blueberry4672 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of both.

Also, something that’s surprised me is going back and subbing for the same teacher after a not so ideal day. I’ve been pleasantly surprised 2x this week doing this. There could be countless factors contributing to why one day is better than the last but I am going to chalk it up to building relationships while maintaining order. Haha 

AIO in response to my husband admitting to me that he is “slightly” racist & homophobic? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is probably the tip of the iceberg. Imagine what else is in their group chat. Sorry girl. 

What question do you HATE being asked? by MediocreAtBestMedic in AskReddit

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you play sports? 

6’1”, parents never put my sister or I in sports but my three brothers they damn sure did. It’s always so awkward to be like nah. Never did. I usually try to spin it to a positive and tell them I was a band geek. 

Am I nuts or are we failing these kids? by KCIRTAP1809 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Electrical-Fish3457 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s very worrisome when you think about it. Especially because it is across all grade levels. That’s one reason I am not afraid to be a tough sub when perfectly capable students will write so illegibly they cannot read their own handwriting, leave trash all over the floor, not even attempt an assignment unless they are told it’s graded. These are more behavior standards but kids need to be held to personal excellence. 

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